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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I'm afraid of what the reprocussions of losing my virginity!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Please help! I am a 20 year old virgin and not sure about losing my virginity yet. My problem arises when I'm around my boyfriend-whenever I'm around him, I get massive sexual urges. I mean REALLY strong urges. I just want to touch him all over and ...

I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hey ppl so ive been dating this guy and well we had never had sex im a virgin and well i think its time to please him can u guys give me some tips to please him mostly with my boobs :) -thanks...

Sex before marriage Part II

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I recently asked a question about being intimate with my boyfriend, but keeping my virginity at the same time (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-keep-my-virginity-until-i.html)and got a lot of really insightful responses. (Thanks 2 all who ...

I want to keep my virginity until I am married, but my current boyfriend wants to get intimate. How do I deal with this?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I recently started getting "serious" with a guy I like and we are pretty happy, except I'm really nervous about one thing: sex. I'm still a virgin and no, this is not my 1st relationship-the problem is that my last one ended because the guy was ...

Should I consult a doctor because I am having trouble getting an erection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - Hi I am 20 years old I have not done sex anytime but when i have gone to do it my penis dosent stand ,I dont know y but when I was seeing some adult movies it was regularly standing what might be the reason behind it? either to consult a docto...

I'm having trouble with my virgin boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi i am 17 and i need help. im not a virgin and my boyfriend is and we were planning on haven sex one day but he chickened out, and then told all his friends that we had sex and i was wondering what to do about it? and also how do i give him ...

How do I get through the break up process? Should I get revenge or get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend (ex, actually) and I were together for 3 and a half years. He has a huge issue with my past, because when I was 15 I had a huge, unrequited crush on my then best guy friend. This guy was a little older, and he liked me a lot, but just ...

Is that weird that I want to try anal sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - okay, this one is a bit different, I want a woman's opinion. As I said before, I'm 17 years old and a virgin and I don't plan on having sex untill I'm married. But I've always wanted to try anal with who my future wife will be, but I don't want to ...

Size, growth and virginity?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and have a 7.5 inch penis with a 5.5 inch girth/circumference. I know there has been a ton of questions like this asked across the web and I know a lot of them are just people trying to get self gratification, but I feel I must ask my ...

I'm worried that when it comes to having sex I will just be really clumsy and inexperienced!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hi there this is really embarrassing but i don't really know what else to do. Basically i'm a 20 year old virgin, and this is totally out of choice. I have been extremely picky in the past, and to be honest a bit of a prude. I'm not ugly, and i ...

Why do people have such big regrets about losing their virginity?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I'm an almost 18 year old virgin, and I've heard other women say that they've regreted their first time and wish they had waited. I don't understand. Why did they regret it and what did they wish they had waited for? I've been a bit upset about wh...

I have concerns that he now has fears for our sexual compatibility

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year. We have a perfectly loving relationship - emotionally I couldn't be more fulfilled in that respect. However, we seem to have a lot of troubles with our (non-existent) sex life. I am still a ...

Scared to tell my future husband that I am not a virgin...what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi i m 26 now, female,when i was 20 i had a relationship with a guy..i never intended to have sex with him, i was deeply in love with him...so it just happened..he did with me only once.. when I was 21 we set apart and get to know he was only with ...

Will my friends think I'm a slut???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and a couple days ago I lost my virginity. It was with my 2 year long BF and I'm glad I waited till I was 16 and did 'it' with the right person. But, will my friends who haven't 'done it' yet think I'm a slut or will they still be the same ...

I'm a virgin and I want to get laid! Where can I find a girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - I just turned 20 and I'm still a virgin. I desperately need a girl in and out of the bedroom especially in the bedroom. I live in Boston. I don't go to school and I'm too young to go to the clubs or bars. i don't really know anyone that ...

A question about sex, will this happen again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - The first time my boyfriend used 2 fingers to finger me, I bled quite a bit. If two fingers make me bleed that much, what will happen when I have sex for the first time? Will I bleed again? Will it be worse? (fyi, when I say 'bled quite a bit' I'm ...

I am still a virgin, is it unrealistic to wait until I am married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - I'm a 45 yr old male christian virgin. The women I know just want to be friends with me or they never want to be married and they just want a physical relationship. These are both christian and non christian women. I wanted to be married by now. I'm ...

I don't want to have sex, but at the same time am tempted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - So I'm in a situation with a guy that I've known for my whole life (literally). We just saw each other for the first time in years, and we got into some pretty heavy physical stuff, but we didn't have sex. I'm a virgin, and he wants to sleep with ...

Lost my virginity and I just wanna cry...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - im 16 and i lost my virginity few days ago, i knew the guy who i done it with wasnt my boyfriend, but since he hasnt spoke to me, i know i was just a bootycall or whatever but now i feel like crapp, i jus wanna cry, i just dunnooooooo :(...

15 and pregnant to my adopted cousin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Well When i Was 14, i Was havin trouble with my mum and eventually left home and went to stay with my uncle miles away...anyways my uncle had an adopted son which was 15 at that moment (lets just call him bob) and was originate from colombia he ...

I feel awkward and have trouble letting go with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - I am not sure if whats wrong with me, I am in my late 20s, never had a boyfriend and for the first time ever I have fallen for someone like truly fallen for him, the problem is, is that he is a self confessed womaniser, but he is so confident I cant ...

Tips about sex for a newcomer with a smaller penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

19 February 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I guess you can see from the title, the subject of sex has come up between us, I'm a virgin, she's not, though we both know about each other. I'm kinda worried though that I won't be able to satisfy her 'cause my penis isn't exac...

I lost my virginity to my friend but my ex is back in the picture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone to make a long story short I was with my boyfriend for a yr before he moved away. We kept a LDR. LDRs are very hard work and we were both very occupied w/ school and work so I decided to break it off after another yr of being away. ...

How do I accept my gf's promiscuous past if I've only been with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - I've seen a few questions on here that are similar to mine, but I think mine has a special little twist on it. My girlfriend, whom I've been with for 6 years, has a very promiscuous past. Around 40 - 50, she can't remember exactly. And before her ...

Sex tips and techniques for a less endowed guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Guess you can see from the title, I'm kinda worried that I won't be able to really satisfy my girl 'cause I'm not really endowed down there - and I'm actually still a virgin so I've got no real experience going into my first time. Anyway, I'm fu...

Curious about moral convictions on sex....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Curious about moral convictions on sex. I was raised Christian, and sex outside of marriage is a sin--period. What are others' thoughts? Thanks so much! --GG...

He broke up with me because some other guy claimed he'd had sex with me! I don't know what to do, I'm still in love with him....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - hi, am 18. i dated a guy for like 3 months we loved each other, and things were going fine till an unknown guy showed up and started claiming to have had sex with me on all occasions.that he should stay clear off me.initially i told him was a virgin ...

How can I deal with my problems? Her past haunts me and makes me so jealous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I have been talking to a girl online for the past 8 months. We have had video, voice chats, phone chat, text chat. I first met her on a friendship site. We started talking on a messenger and soon we became close friends. And slowly the friendship ...

I'm already worried about the size of my penis even though I am not planning on having sex until I am married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I know I might be to young to worry about this, but I'm 17 years old and I'm a virgin and I don't really plan on having sex untill I'm married, but I need an opinion from a woman, my penis is about 6 inches long when erect, is that too small??...

Please give me a reason why I should stay a virgin!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Please give me a reason to stay a virgin. I always wanted to have sex the first time with another virgin, but there are non! All the girl today just shack up with the first guy they're with for more then two weeks. I don't blame them though, I ...

I'm a virgin at 30, I'm not sure if my moodiness is the result of sexual tension, how to deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I feel embarrassed to be asking this but I'm so grateful to have the Internet and be able to ask anything anonymously. I worry about this question not being taken seriously and I worry that no one will believe me. I'm 30 years old and I've nev...

Boys and sex. What is it these days?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Why are boys SOO obsessive about sex? It's like a must have for them! I have been asked for it a couple of times, but I'm only 13. Im definitely not having sex until I'm at least 17 and I when I've found someone I love and trust to loose my ...

What do lads like a girl's lady bits to look like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Well im think about sex for first time and i was curious as to how lads like a girls lady bits too like. totally shaved or not?? Because this is the only thing im self conscious about Helpppp !!! i really need your answers :D...

I tried so hard but I could not ejaculate whilst having sex, what is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - i am in love with my girlfriend for 3yrs now...we both live in different places.... whenever we meet we used to have kind of sex.. which is not purely sex...she has a problem in loosing her virginity....in one of her birthdays i forced her to have ...

Too hormone induced for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - It's kind of embarrassing but... lol Well, I had my virginity taken a few months back and now all I want/think about is sex mostly and my boyfriend is like 'We need to get you to calm down a bit' and then I get all pouty at him cause he's just ...

Was I masturbating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I'm seventeen, and a senior in high school. I've never had a boyfriend, still a virgin, and have never gone out on a date. So you might call me naive. Anyway, a few days ago, I woke up from a dream and found myself rubbing my pajamas where my parts...

Single, lonely, jobless and a virgin! Feeling down..can you help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - I'm single, lonely, just got terminated from my first job (not my fault, long story), virgin, living with my parents, and don't have many friends. I know people have worse problems, but I get down. :( I know that I can find a gf if I ask a bunch ...

He doesn't want to take away my virginity...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - why would a guy who wants sex with me so bad initially, all of a sudden think that he wouldnt want to take away my virginity for he's afraid I'd regret one day, in case that he's not going to be my boyfriend? i told him once, love-making's sp...

I am really bugged by the fact that she's been with 3 other guys

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship with A for 3 months as a couple - 8 as a sort-of - and i've had troubling thoughts. She's has been with 3 guys before, sexually. I'm a wholesome guy, but I lost my virginity to her. Her last relationship lasted for 2 ...

Would it be smart for both of us to get an HIV test done even though we both have no sexual history?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend and I are both virgins. We've been together for about four years now and we feel ready to lose it to one another. Would it be smart for both of us to get an HIV test done even though we both have no sexual history? Or am I just ...

Is this spotting, or was something hurt during sex? I'm starting to worry!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I need advice please. I'm 18 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 2 months ago. Very soon after, I went for my first visit to the gynecologist. My tests turned out fine and I was put on birth control. I have had quite a f...

Who should I lose my virginity to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - hi. im 13 14 on valentines day and im a virgin. i was going to lose my virginity to my ex. i loved him so much and i still do but i just wasn't working very well. i could only see him about 3 times a week so we finished last march. we were going ...

I want to lose my virginity, but told my boyfriend I already have!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - i am 14 and i want to lose my virginrty..but the thing bout it that i hve a new boyfriend and i tld him that i lost it ...so wht do i do?? n will he tell if i did not lose it when we nave sex...?...

Is there a surgery that reconstructs a hymen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Dear its a problem of my best fried sidra plz help her. Hope you have good health with your family members and friends. I have very difficult situation in these days. I am 26 year old unmarried girl. When I was 18 or 19 years I start intercou...

Is it possible to be too tight for penetration?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - So here`s the thing. I`m with my boyfriend about 4 months now and I know it`s not such a long time, but I`m pretty sure that we met each other very well so we started in last two months talking about having sex for a first time. We are both virgins ...

How can I get past my fears of being in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I am a 27 year old woman, virgin, and has never been in a relationship. My longest relationship was for 2 months. Every time I meet someone, I freak out and end the relationship. I hate this about myself. This is the one thing I am m...

I have a crush on a man-whore and want to loose my virginity to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Hello im 13, and 14 in a few days i have this big crush on this boy and he has one on me, but he is known to be a bit of a man slut if you know what i mean. well he has had sex a good few times, i really want to loose my virginity to him, he is so...

First time sex on my wedding night, what should I expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 February 2010 (?) - Okay, I've just got engaged :) and I'm waiting for my wedding night until I have sex for the first time and I was wondering if there are any first time stories people are willing to share with me. It doesn't have to be wedding night first time, any ...

I am a virgin but think about doing threesomes, porn and striptease. I am really confused about my morals!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I want to wait until i have sex so my first time can be with someone i am in love with...but at the same time the thought of having threesomes, for example, makes me feel really aroused. also i feel desperate to have sex, i matsturbate very often ...

I don't mind being a little kinky, but I don't like pain either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I am 19 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for close to a year now. We started having sex a couple of months ago. He is the first guy I've had sex with. I love him and I know he loves me as well. My problem is this. I know that he has s...