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anonymous
writes:I sometimes feel like i'm being used by my Gf. Like i always give her money and i buy stuff for her.She always ask me do i want anything and i just say no. I don't really want her to buy me anything. I'd rather be the type of gf, thats always there for her. She's a really sweet person. we been together for 2 years..But maybe i should cut back on being to sweet?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2012): well maybe you should spoil her a bit less so as not to feel burdened. I don't think she is using you since she always ask you if you want anything.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (15 October 2012):
 Maybe, otherwise you could end up spoiling her rotten and how do you encore that year after year after year? Plus she is going to start seeing you as a doormat. Men have to be a little difficult at times. Women need a bit of a challenge. Her Daddy probably handed everything on a silver platter, you don't want to fall into that trap, otherwise she'll just rebel someday and leave you for a guy with a motorcycle and a tattoo on his chest. And you'll be wondering what in the world you did wrong? Trust me, women always say they want a guy like you, but eventually we just end up taking you for granted and then leaving you for some headstrong man who keeps us guessing and treats us with alot less respect. Dial back your sweetness just a bit. You don't have to be an ass, but you have to stop giving in so much of the time. And well, doing all the giving.
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