A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I love this guy and i really can't think of being happy without him but the chances are very less that we will be together forever as his family doesnt want thisi doubt if even he does like me or is he just afraid ?i am not sure. If i even speak about this ....he gets upset and keeps distance from me as he had an accident recently and is totally in a very bad financial situation and also wants to accomplish a lot before thinking of marriage. I belong to a very typical Indian family and my family wants me to get married and settle down ....i had been making up excuses for not getting married but now the pressure is increasing as everyone only asks me about the same ........What do I do?I hate this state of mind where I can't enjoy one single thing and I am not happy about anything? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2012): I think first you should make your family understand that you do not want to marry since you are not yet prepared. Then you both will have enough time to decide if you are meant for each other. Take care
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