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Archived questions from: March, 2019 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend gets angry when I talk about being committed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

31 March 2019 (F) - I live whith my bf at his place, he can be 2 different people sometimes, one nice warm and kind the other not so. We have been together for about 3 years but when I ask about being more committed to each other he gets angry . I want children and he ...

I don't believe my b/f is going to start becoming thoughtful after 3 years together but it bothers me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2053 days ago

31 March 2019 (F) - My Bf and i settled down very quickly into our relationship when i found out i was pregnant. My pill wasnt effective due some medication i was on and aboetion was not an option i wanted to take. But we were in love and happy and in ok jobs so we ...

Why is my Best-friend becoming an Enemy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2050 days ago

31 March 2019 (F) - I have a Best-friend who I have known since 2011. Our friendship has been hot and cold many times. She is now dating a man who she has known online for 3+ years over Facebook. I do not believe he is healthy fit for my Best-friend as he has lost his...

I think my boyfriend should end it if he isnt happy with me anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

30 March 2019 (F) - Last night my boyfriend jokingly said "go find someone else then", but I didn't find it funny. We spent the evening together just hanging out, watching comedy on TV. At the end of the night he said lets go to bed. I said yeah and like waggled my ...

My father made me look foolish when I was buying a car.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2049 days ago

30 March 2019 (F) - Help with interferring father please. My elderly father embarassed me when I was trying to buy a new used car..!! He lives in another state and I don’t see him or my mother much.. 1-2 times a year, we small talk on phone every 5 -6 weeks, ...

He cheated on me, was violent but it now feels things are back on track. So why am I not happy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

29 March 2019 (F) - I really don't know how I feel anymore, my head is all over the place and I'm so mixed up. I've been with my boyfriend for 8years. When we first met things moved very fast and I knew i loved him very early on. We had what I thought was the perfect ...

Is my doctor flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

29 March 2019 (F) - Why did a man I know fondle my wedding ring? Is there any way this is NOT flirting? I happen to know he is married too. And on top of this, he is my doctor. Do you think this behavior is strange? ...

Is my fiance's treatment of me emotional abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

28 March 2019 (F) - Hi I have been with my fiancée for over two years. Usually he’s charming and sweet. He has a mean streak though. He feels entitled like I should pay for everything cause he makes less money. If we have a disagreement. He says to shut up ...

Am I being sent signs that I should stay single?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2048 days ago

28 March 2019 (F) - I met a man on a drunken, fun night the other night. We clicked and had a lot in common. he was quite sweet. he took me for dinner and gave me sweet cuddles. I had asked God if maybe God would want me to have a boyfriend or a husband a couple of ...

I trust him, of course I do, I just don't understand his actions.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

26 March 2019 (F) - I’ve been with my partner for almost six years and we’re currently expecting our first baby, due in July. For a while now he’s been taking his phone everywhere with him, even if he is just going to the toilet/puts the bins out/make a cup of tea, he ...

I feel nothing after separating from my boyfriend of 4 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

25 March 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have broken up after 4 years together and I feel numb. We've separated because even though we love each other, we're not "in love" and we both knew it and it was completely emotional. Is it normal the feel this unphased af...

Please help me get my life back together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

25 March 2019 (F) - Ex bf went to prison. It was severe emotional abuse for four years before that. I told him I will help him without any expectations. But he asked for a relationship again. He came out of prison, ran back to his ex-wife, humiliated me before o...

If I move in as he suggests I fear I will be stuck into one of his little compartments and kept separate from his life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2055 days ago

25 March 2019 (F) - Hi, was looking for advice. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 2 years. He has basically been staying at mine every night for over a year but still maintains his own place which has made money really tight as he cant afford ...

I have no clue what I did wrong and don't want to ask because I'm afraid it will make her even more angry

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

24 March 2019 (M) - Me and this girl we have been together for a while and recently went through a rough patch. We are slowly getting through it but today something happpened that has really confused me. We were talking on Snapchat when she said something that annoyed ...

I'm very attracted to a man who has kids and is separated. I'm torn about whether to move forward with him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

24 March 2019 (F) - Hi all - any advice or thoughts on the following would be much appreciated as I'm at a total loss, something very uncommon for me. A series of events happened in my life that caused me to relocate to a brand new city without knowing anyone. ...

How do I make real friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2059 days ago

21 March 2019 (M) - I’m struggling to get through life without always being hurt or angry. I have no real friends that care. I have friends that use me when I have money and when they have money, they invite others and meet in secret to teach me a lesson. I recentl...

Is it normal to be a bit incompatible in your sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

21 March 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and when we first got together, we had quite a lot of sex. Before him, I hadn't really found anyone that I "clicked" with so kind of went without. When we were first dating, we did it a LOT. Like, 2 times a ...

Why is my partner's brother so negative about us all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2063 days ago

20 March 2019 (F) - Hi there , so my fella and I are moving in together After 6 months of dating we both have a child each and all get on fantastic .. the issue is his brother is always negative about things .. our cars are rubbish ( his car is older than ours ) o...

Is the grief causing him to treat me badly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2063 days ago

19 March 2019 (F) - Hello. Firstly just for some context I was in a on and off relationship for 10 years with the sweetest best friend of a boyfriend who was my high school sweetheart but his lack of ambition and lazy attitude I couldn't take anymore. We are ...

His priorities don't make sense

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2064 days ago

19 March 2019 (F) - DEAR cupid, my boyfriend I and have been together for a year and 1/2. We have been living together for a year. We have been experiencing issues and decided to end our realationship to work on ourselves and our relationship. This is where it gets ...

Is this trainer being friendly or flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2064 days ago

18 March 2019 (F) - I hired a female personal trainer to help me achieve my weight loss goals, and she is co-workers with another personal trainer who is male. I see him around often and a couple of times he has said hi to me, and when he was getting his client on the ...

She thinks there was a hidden message about being fat in my fruit and yoghurt comment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2061 days ago

18 March 2019 (M) - So I have been with this woman for 18 months. Our relationship has been perfect so far, no arguements, always get on. Today she had an arguement with a friend and was not very happy after. She sent me a message saying she was going for a walk and ...

I am not sure that I can be the support system I think my b/f needs

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

18 March 2019 (F) - Hi all! I have been dating my BF for about 4 months now. The relationship was very fast moving and we basically were pretty "offical" after a few weeks of dating. He was pretty intense, But I felt like I had finally found someone who really cared...

I'm having doubts about my 5 year relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2050 days ago

18 March 2019 (F) - I am in a 5 year relationship and starting to have serious doubts about it. I'm not sure if I want it anymore, and pressures are growing around marriage, mortgage and children. There's no apparent reason as to why I'm feeling this way... nothing ...

I'm growing concerned that my girlfriend is on the phone for hours with "friends"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2065 days ago

17 March 2019 (M) - Girlfriend oh phone with other guys for hours late at night..... So my girl and i have been together for a while. We like to fall asleep on facebook messenger videochat at night. Ive been getting worried because most nights I'll try to call her ...

How do I make our troubled relationship better again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2065 days ago

16 March 2019 (M) - I unintentionally insulted a girl I liked. She told me how she struggled with school in the past. I tried to care for her and said "It must be difficult for you". She misinterpreted my meaning, got angry and thought I looked down on her intellig...

He is trying to make it out like I’m overreacting, but why buy gifts for his female co-worker?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

15 March 2019 (F) - Hello, Looking for any advice on how to keep pushing forward and leave be okay with my decision. Last week I found out my husband purchased flowers for a coworker. He states he was just being supportive because she hosted a networking influenc...

Why am I kept separate from his family?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2069 days ago

14 March 2019 (F) - Im not sure what to do. Ive been seeing a guy who i met from work for around 2 years, we dont work together now and we have separate places too. The relationship got off to a rocky start due to work colleagues gossping and me cheating with an...

I really like her but she's giving me mixed signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2069 days ago

13 March 2019 (M) - Hi I really like a girl and get mixed signals, sometimes I feel she likes me and other times she is distant and feels like she is pushing me away. It's really a day by day thing. Some days she is clearly interested and then others seems to want to...

Why is he not respecting my boundaries and allowing me to move on? Does anyone have any advice about how to move on and stop loving the father of your children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2071 days ago

13 March 2019 (F) - My ex broke up with me after 4 years together. We had a toxic relationship with many rows and turbulence. Saying that, we had ALOT thrown at us in the 4 years we were together, much more than what a normal couple would go through in their lifetime. ...

I don’t know how to deal with his awful moods!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2068 days ago

12 March 2019 (F) - Hi, i just wanna ask someone here if you have this kind of experience. Im living with my bf. Yes i do love him and i think he love me too. But this everyday dealing with his i dont know how i can call it " sometimes he is fine, he is happy he is in ...

Divorced guy asked me for drinks then backtracked and said that we should stop before things get complicated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2073 days ago

10 March 2019 (F) - Theres this guy that ive been talking to via email. We know each other well due to his son going through school with my brother. Ive always liked him, but never really said anything. So recently I decided to send him a message to see how he was. We ...

Am I just paranoid/jealous or is my boyfriend's cousin really weird with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2072 days ago

8 March 2019 (F) - Hi I've been having weird gut feelings. Ever since I've started dating him his cousin seems to have a problem with me. She's accused me of changing him when I haven't done anything and sent me hate messages which caused tension between me, her and ...

She said yes to the date...but her female friend wants to join us as well!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2072 days ago

8 March 2019 (M) - I asked a girl on a date and she said yes. but we were not sure what day we were both free. A few days later i suggested two dates, the first she was busy and the second she said maybe. A few days later we were chatting and I asked her to remember ...

She blocked me on facebook because I looked her up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2075 days ago

8 March 2019 (M) - Been seeing this woman for four months, have a lot of fun going out dancing movies places to eat, the sex is great, but she only has time to see me once a week,I told her I looked her up on Facebook, she got really mad,she said that's personal, so ...

I can't let go of what my boyfriend did

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2072 days ago

7 March 2019 (F) - Hello, I recently posted about my boyfriend crossing the line. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-this-is-not-acceptable-and-he.html Him and I talked about it and he says he understands how I see that he crossed the line and that he will...

How do I cope with the end of this on-off relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2077 days ago

6 March 2019 (F) - I am having a hard time dealing with my situation.. I have been on and off with a guy for 6 years. I believed we had a connection and that was why we always came back to each other. He was always the one to call me and come back, I would go about my...

He is letting the landlord make our garden smaller! Am I wrong to be annoyed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2075 days ago

5 March 2019 (F) - hi am I being unreasonable with this my partner and I have been in a private rented house for 5 years I was at work the other night and a neighbour came to the door to tell us he had phoned our landlord about buying some of our garden for his nanna ...

I want to settle down he wants to date for a few more years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2078 days ago

5 March 2019 (F) - Hello, I just got out a two year long relationship because my boyfriend won’t commit to me. I’m not blaming him, I respect what he’s dealing with and I miss him A lot. But there were some flaws that I couldn’t ignore. We have been in a long dist...

I feel confused and anxious about him not speaking to me except by text Saturday evening!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2078 days ago

4 March 2019 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 18 months with a great guy.This is an intensely passionate but in my opinion emotionally healthy relationship.We have hurdles but we have overcome them.Apart from one massive issue which is my fears of abandonment ...

I don't want a one sided friendship but that is all I seem to get from the women in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2079 days ago

3 March 2019 (F) - I only have 3 close friends and one of them is really upsetting me. Actually, it's gone on for some years now and I don't know what to do. I don't want to cut off from her or upset her, but I also don't think I can stand her behaviour any more and I ...

How should I handle this situation with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2078 days ago

3 March 2019 (F) - I apologize in advance for the length:) I have been with my current boyfriend for almost 7 years( lived together for almost 5!)I am 42 and he is almost 50! His parents have never been very nice to me( the first day I went over to meet them I b...

I feel broken. Why couldn't my girlfriend have been there for me when I needed someone to listen.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2081 days ago

2 March 2019 (M) - I dont even know what to do anymore or how to feel. I feel so alone. I have many people around me, my parents, my gf, my best friend, my close friends, my colleagues. But no one actually knows the reality. I lost my new job I got due to not b...

He's doing weed yet again despite all my ultimatums

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2079 days ago

1 March 2019 (F) - Hi So me and boyfriend will have been together for 3 years (March 11th) and are in the process of looking to buy our first home. However, throughout the relationship he has struggled with an addiction to weed. He has repeatedly told me he's q...