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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he really out of town? Was I played? Did he really like me at all? Or was I just a girl in his back pocket during the few months we were together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - During the summer I was approached by a guy in the city. He complimented me on my outfit and we started up a little chat and we exchange numbers. Fast ward we eventually went out on our first date a few weeks after meeting. We talked everyday pretty ...

I'm scared to break up with my boyfriend because of the repercussions it could have on both of us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for around 6 months now, I do love him but it’s long distance and when we’re together it’s amazing but when we aren’t we fall very quickly in arguing everyday. I think it would be best for us to break up instead of ...

Heartbroken he has returned to porn

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - My boyfriend (27) and I (24) have been together for 2 years. We had been friends for 3 years before he asked me out. Around the 1 year mark maybe a little later my SO commented on how he doesn't even watch porn anymore. He said he just thought about ...

Dealing With Catty Customers At Work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

27 November 2017 (F) - I work for a "posh" retail store which has a lot of female customers, I've been awarded employee of the month for customer service before and am always friendly to people, I've only been there since last year but already know a lot of people by name ...

I have these gut feelings she's cheating so how do I figure out what I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

27 November 2017 (F) - I'm a female in a relationship with another female. I have trust issues due to previous infidelities in past relationships. I know that it's unfair for me to question her when she's done nothing wrong, but, honest to god, I can't help it. I feel ...

I thought I could taste latex condom on my husband while giving him oral, he says I'm crazy but I'm ready to file for divorce

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2219 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - My husband asked me to give him oral sex. He had just taken a shower. We’re about to have sex, I go down on him and I put his penis in my mouth. I tasted the strangest taste of condom. I was in disbelief. I pulled away saying to myself I’m. Crazy. ...

How do we choose which couple to ask To join us on the cruise?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - My husband and I used to be very close with 2 other couples. It was always the 6 of us doing stuff together. We never made plans without including both coupled and vice versa. Well the 2 couples had a very serious falling out and are no longer ...

My husband's brother has a super weird obsession with me and tries to sabotage my relationship with his little brother!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - My husband's brother has a super weird obsession with me and tries to sabotage my relationship with his little brother!! Has anyone experienced this? What can I do to get him to back off? The worst of it is that he has stolen my husband's username ...

Why has my boyfriend started lying about petty things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

25 November 2017 (F) - My boyfriend has started lying . Instead of wanting to see me this weekend he told me he was looking after a family member ( child under age 10 without the parents ) who was visiting . Yet i know that was a lie as i saw him walking around town on ...

He will be away for my whole school break and I got mad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

24 November 2017 (F) - I met a guy maybe a week ago...hes 16 n m 15,,, i like him a lot n we've been meeting daily/...at first we were both shy to even hug but now i can at least let him hold my hand...hes beebn saying he has something to tell me since 3 days ago/..but he ...

Does she want my help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

24 November 2017 (M) - Hi guys... Well, there's this girl. I see her almost every day at NA meetings. NA stands for Narcotics Anonymous. Yes, both of us are recovering addicts... We're doing really fine, she's been clean for a year and a half now and myself for about...

I'm in a horribly abusive relationship and I need a way out for me and my daughter

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

24 November 2017 (F) - Hi basically just looking for some advise plz, I really don't know what to do or how to. Basically I haven't been happy with my partner we have been arguing lately quiet a lot we have a small child but the arguments ain't in front of her as he ...

Should I treat this like I just got out of a BPD relationship or am I going about evaluating this situation wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

23 November 2017 (M) - I am in high school right now and my first girlfriend recently broke up with me. We dated for about a month and a half and the way she broke up with me was not what anybody does to anybody else. I'm trying to understand and make sense of why this ...

I'm trying to get it all together to be an adult and be ready for the world but my mom thwarts my every move!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

23 November 2017 (F) - Hey, I'm in a frustrating situation right now. I am a legal adult and I want to become independent and learn how to handle school and work at the same time; however, my mom is dead set against it (even though she helped me apply for a job at Publix ...

I've reconnected with an old boyfriend but don't want to hurt my most recent ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hi I've recently met an old boyfriend from years ago ,we still like each other ,I've been in a relationship over a number of years ,but split 3 years ago but are still friends ,it was a violent relationship that's why it ended but I still have ...

I flirted with another man but I never meant to hurt my boyfriend. How do I convince him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I am looking for advice. Before I get into it, I take full responsibility for my own actions, and do not shift any of the blame onto my partner. I am merely stating what got me to the point of my betrayal. Me and my (Ex) boyfriend have b...

What can I do to show I'm working not cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - My husband thinks I'm cheating. Why? Because I spend a lot of time on my phone. I'm too lazy to use my clunky slow PC to write my novel, so I'm doing the whole thing on the Notes app. I'm also unemployed (6 months, still job hunting), so I stay up ...

He believes lies people say about me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months now , a few weeks in to our relationship we were having a nice day out when some girl accused me of being a prostitute and since then people have said horrible stuff about me when my bf has been with me and despite ...

I'm like a weekend hobby for my boyfriend while his sister and nephew are his real family

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

20 November 2017 (F) - I have been dating a guy in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He lives 50 miles away and I only see him at weekends. In the week he lives with his widowed sister and works with her son to help him out as he is retired. The other week for the ...

Why would he not see me in 2 months then turn around and say he loves me loads?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

20 November 2017 (F) - hi everyone. person i'm seeing for a year now,we not had the exclusive talk but hes told me we friends but seeing where it goes etc we are sleeping together mostly when we see each other sex is involved 9/10 times it happens now recently iv not ...

Triangle friendship double cross!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2114 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - Ive been friends with my friend (Samantha) for 5 years and its really had its ups and downs throughout the years but things started to get worse, the competitiveness, the jealousy etc. We love each other very much but there is a lot negativity and ...

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

19 November 2017 (M) - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...

I sent him a nude, I hope he hasn't lost respect for me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - I posted a while ago saying i had a met a man with quite an usual job- he's a travel author (fairly successful). He is 35 years old, is in the public eye quite a lot and has a lot of female attention. I went on 2 dates with him back in june but then ...

The guy I've liked from afar is being a little wierd

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - Hi, I need some advice, I haven't dated in ages, I am 43, just went through a rough patch with major losses, illness etc, now better but I am still fragile. Anyway, since last year I meet maybe every 2/3 months this guy through work, older (I ...

Am I reasonable to choose money over potential happiness?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I am in a fix as I type this. I made a first attempt at online dating about 7 months ago and the only guy I really had an interest in, we hit it off. It was rocky at first but we are amazing now and not a day goes by without us chatting ...

Sick of being ignored, what do I have to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - I think I give off a “don’t be my friend” vibe, though I say hi and am polite? All my life people have avoided me, socially and socially at work and in group or social events, like I have A flashing sign “avoid her” I was bullied and social...

We still sext even though he has a girlfriend, how do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - For the past two years ive been sort of sexting/sending the odd nude to this guy. Recently though he's gotten into a relationship, however we have still continued sexting etc. We've never slept together its strictly 'cyber'. A few weeks ago (I ...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

I'm disappointed he saw a new movie with his brother instead of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - So my bf had a family funeral to attend this weekend. It is out of town far away. After the funeral he was bored so decided to go to see a movie that we planned to go see next week together. All he texted me was 'I think I am going to go see the ...

Is it too much to hope that things might work out with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - My ex text me after a week. After breaking up, briefly getting back together, then breaking up again, my ex text me asking how I was. We'd been having difficulties for a while because I just felt that my bf wasn't giving me any of his time. He was...

What is he doing? His last text said he still wants me but that was November third!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - hi i am seeing a man, don't what sort of relationship it is but hes not text me in 2 weeks and not seen me in 2 months now, i did text him 2 weeks ago asking whats going on my text to him was " how are you ive not heard off you in weeks how can yo...

What did you do when you found your partner was watching porn and not having sex with you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - Hiya I've been with my fiance for 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter together last weekend I caught him watching porn on his phone it wouldn't have bothered me so much but the last few months our sex life has been once a month so I was hurt when ...

Help me find my way out of these abusive traps

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - I am in a 16-year-relationship that became sexless and violent, abusive. I was thrown out the house in middle of night. I left and he wants me back. While away I met another man who I fell in love with and been seeing for a year this man seems quite ...

If we could be friends should I try?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - Should I keep speaking to him, and try and be friends? I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 2 weeks ago and it's killing me. We broke it off about 2 months ago, then briefly got back together before we realised nothing had changed. We'...

My girlfriend is exhausting me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - My gf is exhausting me. I'm fully convinced that she could argue for hours with a person who believes the grass is green and tell them no it isn't - it's blue. And then immediately turn right around and tell someone who believes the grass is blue ...

Should I be the first to call like always, or should I let her reach out this time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

14 November 2017 (M) - I have been in a seven-year relationship with my girlfriend/ex-girlfriend (I'm not sure which is accurate at this point). We have always struggled with how we resolve conflict. We've been through the break-up-make-up cycle many times. Each time ...

My dad intentionally tried to shame and humiliate me at my wedding.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - I've had a very distressed relationship with my family since I was born really. It's pure dysfunction. My mom is mentally ill and I no longer communicate with her. Leaving me and my sister to look up to and rely on my dad as a sole parent for most ...

How can I get over my parents' neglect?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

14 November 2017 (F) - how Can I deal with moving back home to parents that only care about money and are constantly berating me - I come from a Eastern European culture where my parents marriage was arranged (very toxic relationship) my parents hate each other but stay ...

My sister's boyfriend kissed me and now we've been making out behind her back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - My sisters boyfriend kissed me what should I do?? I’m 15 years old and my sisters boyfriend is 19 they’ve been dating for about a year I’ve known him as long as she has known him. This all started about 3 months ago when he started grabbing...

I love someone more than my boyfriend. And I cheated on him with the other person.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - So i recently cheated on my boyfriend. This is actually quite a long story but I’ll try to sum it up as much as possible. Early this summer I started talking to this guy, let’s call him James, we’ll james and I hit it off. He was perfect beyond ...

My parents are separated, dad has a girlfriend who's not too great and my mom is spiralling out of control. Help me please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

12 November 2017 (F) - Hi. My question today/tonight is about separation.. My parents have been separated since April 2016, They are still married but do not live together. I asked my dad nicely if he could pay for flights for myself and my mum to go over east to...

Difficulty with old and new loyalties

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - Hi. I will try to make this brief but there is a lot going on in my life at the moment. I have been separated 6 years now coming to the end of a divorce although we are amicable my spouse wants still to be friends. We both have new partners alt...

How do I react on my actress girlfriend intimate scenes on screen or on stage ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - My girlfriend is an Actor she has not yet done any intimate or kissing scene but i am very uncomfortable with that. i have read many articles on this but i really dont know how to over come this situation, she says she doesnt mind kissing on scree...

I'm torn between the re-appeared ghosting ex and the lovely but dependent new love interest! Which one do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - I am going through a very tough situation and which is kind of a Love triangle. I've been in a relationship with a girl for about 1 year and I loved her so much . but 6 months back she ditched me for some reason. Everyday we used to go through a lot ...

I'm sorry I took her back ... should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - SHould i end wid her? she and i came in relation even if she had a boyfriend back then. i somehow convinced her to come in relation. cuz i loved her. but she was kinda confused between him and me. been in relation for 2 months. i had to leave the...

Did I overreact to a situation? Some co-workers say I did and now I feel uncomfortable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - Hey guys this is not a romance question But I just need an opinion as to wether I'm being silly or not Ok there was a work leaving drink a few weeks ago At the drink was a guy ive never seen eye to eye to at work My friend who I was with h...

Now he seems interested in finally setting a date I don't want to marry him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - Hello, new to the site. hoping for some help. I 39 years old and my bf is 46, we have been together for almost 3 years and engaged for 2 of those. When we got engaged i was so happy that i would be planning my wedding, but every time i mentioned ...

Its a year of no contact with married man, I suspect his friends are contacting me on facebook.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. It's a messed up situation but I've been coming here off and on over the situation for a few years now. Several years ago and crush turned into a long term affair with a married ...

My best friend is faking he is straight even though we had sex.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

10 November 2017 (M) - I'm a bi man and in the last year I've had intimate moments with my best friend, for whom I have always had doubts regarding his orientation. It's true that we have both enjoyed it but recently he seems to distance himself from situations where ...

I'm fed up with my boyfriend! How much longer do I give him and how far does “for better or worse” really go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - I’ve been in a relationship for 7 years, engaged for 6. I’m at the end of my rope and I know what I need to do but lack the ability to do it. I’m 28, a recent college grad, and have a job working at a hospital which supports me completely. He’s 34, ...