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Archived questions from: 29 May, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He blames me for all of our relationship troubles

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Well here goes it all started in march 2011 I met this truly wonderful guy well at least at that time I thought he was. we first slept together when I was 17 then by june of that year we split up I saw a dramatic change in him. he was very bad temp...

Do I take a risk and do what he is asking me to do? Or do I follow my head and my heart and not move in for a while longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice on how to approach the issue of 'progressing' in a relationship with my bf. He's nagging me to move in with him, and I don't want to yet. We've been together 20 months, and have been pretty happy the whole way through ...

I don't really believe him about the Facebook fiasco but I don't know why he would lie about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, about a month ago, i asked for advice on here after i found out that my ex-boyfriend (with whom i am basically back together with now) was hiding things from me on facebook; the name of the question was, "should i not make a big d...

Is my boyfriend controlling or just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend acts like my father... if we spend time apart, he will often ask a lot of questions. I think he worries about me more than he should, because he is insecure and because I am so much younger than him. If I go ...

I'm wondering if he will ever forgive me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So I have been dating this amazing guy for 5 months and about a month ago things started getting rough. He said work was super stressful and he didn't have any time anymore. I tried really hard to respect him and give him his space but it got to ...

B/f has asked me to leave him alone because he has thinking to do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has asked me to leave him alone as he has some thinking to do? I'm not really sure what is going on with him at all. He has gone quite funny since we had a bust up a few weeks ago and I am wondering if he is trying to break...

I already have a partner but have a friend who wants a friends with benefits relationship with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. i need some help. I am a mother of two, in a great relationship with a guy i adore. we have been together 8 years, and the kids are from a previous relationship. so heres where my problem begins, we have a mutual friend and recent...

Have I got a problem with commitment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I was in a terrible relationship which ended years ago. It was traumatic but I thought I had moved on. Since then I've dated lots of people. I've always said "yes" to any date just to spread my net wide and make sure I don't turn into a recluse b...

Should I be Jelous of my Girlfriends clients ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My Girlfriend of 1yr is a cute and attractive Asian woman and is in a field of work that is 95% Male dominated. She is in business for her self and meets male clients/business owners on a regular bases. Most of the time she meets during day time...

I don't want my boyfriend to be insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I don't usually ask advice to people I don't know, but this is the exception because I really need help on this. It's gonna be long and I'm writing this from my iPod so ya...okay so the thing is, I've been going out with this guy for two months, and ...

The ultimate "one-sided relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - I'm a 35 year old male and Financial consultant. My girlfriend is 25. We have a beautiful two year old daughter and have been dating and living together for the past three years. She traveled to NY three times since we began dating. Hasn't worked ...

My boyfriend's ex wife is creeping back into his life despite living with her boyfriend and he wont divorce her....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I wrote a couple months back...and need advice. I have been with my boyfriend for ten months. He is still married...he has been seperate from his wife for 2 and a half years...she has been living with her boyfriend for 2 and a half years... Me and ...

We both want to get married one day, but I'm worried that if I move in with him he will become too comfortable and never marry me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, So I have this question about marriage. I have been with my bf for 2 years. We love each other and get along pretty well. We decided we wanted to move in together and are actively looking for a place together. It is all extremely ex...

Am I right to be jealous of my wife's new 'guy friend'? It goes so far that she even does his laundry!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - So, my wife and I have been married 12 yrs, and have always been admired for our relationship. About 6 months ago she started sharing her office with a single man, who quickly turned into her "guy friend". Since then, she's spent a lot of time ...

Should I stay in this sexless relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend of 9 years and we have a 5 month old baby. We also haven't had sex since I was about 6 months pregnant making it 8-9 months total with no intimacy excluding greeting hugs and kisses. While pregnant he said he wanted to ...

You'd think that after over 7 years together he would know! And the cheating thing still bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hello, I wondered if you could share any thoughts on my situation please? My boyfreind cheating on me about three years ago (I know he did as I heard something I shouldnt have) I cannot confirm it with him as he point blank denies it but whilst I ...

Should I believe my girlfriend when she says she 'loves me forever'? I'm worried she is still in love with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My gf says she loves me 'forever' LOL, not sure if i should believe it or not. Reason i ask is beacuse she just got out of a 4 year relationship, APROX 1 YEAR AGO, and we got togather about 7 months ago, she thinks her ex was just a lust ...

Confused by this guy's behaviour, especially in the bedroom. Does he not fancy me? Why is he saying these things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy who does not live in my country. We have had dinner dates and I like to take my time to get to know someone and build a relationship before I go to bed. Anyway when I did go to bed with him, we did not have condom so I...

I'd love to win my ex back, but then part of me would love to move on from her once and for all. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - Ok, I'll start with one thing: it was a long distance relationship. We met on the Saint Valentine's day in 2011 and had some amazing time together. She's from Canada and she was amazed by Russia, and I happened to be from Russia. It was all nice ...

My best friend is my ex, and to make matters more complicated I'm madly in love with her brother, who also has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I'm in a really complicated situation. I'm a 22 year old female who is madly in love with my best friend/ex-girlfriend's brother. Confused already? Me too.. I'm not a lesbian; I'm far from it. But when I was in high school, my best friend told...

My boyfriend doesn't trust me, how can I get him to feel more secure in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about six months now, but there is an underlying problem in our relationship that I don't know how to approach. My boyfriend is kind, wonderful, so giving and supportive, but he has a hard tim...

My husband's adult son's treat him terribly, I don't know how much more of this I can put up with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - My husband's two adult sons treat him horrible. They're spoiled and abusive. For years I've made excuses for them because their mother committed suicide the year before I met him. I feel like I've helped them work through some of their grief but ...

She only seems to want me when I'm not around, and then when I'm with her she wants space! Does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - Hello. I am in a somewhat complicated situation with this girl. We started off as friends, and eventually we grew closer and closer, but just as friends. A few months later, she told me that she liked me and I went along and said I liked her too. ...

I'm in love with my ex's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (?) - I fell in love with my ex boyfriend's brother. We became good friends while I was with his brother. I broke off with his brother about two years ago because he has a really difficult and selfish character. Even though it was hard for him when I ...

Caught my boyfriend cheating but he claims it was just a friend, I don't know what to believe! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So i dated this guy for the longest time. About a year and 6 months. We argue a lot but we only broken up once and it was for a long period of time, we got back together but i never really had time to talk to him as much as i would like...Not ...

My best friend and my ex got together, but he wants me back! Would it ever be the same? Should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Okay so I dated this guy for almost a year and 4 months, but right around Christmas times things got a little awful. We had never really argued but a few times in our entire relationship, and we broke up once before. Christmas time we broke up again ...

How do I tell my boyfriend I don't want to send him pictures of myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So me and my boyfriend for 4 months recently had sex and he wants it a lot now. Like he wants me to send him pictures and everything. I told him I'm not his personal playboy and he got upset. I'm a sweet girl and hate seeing him upset. But I don't ...

I'm very shy and worried that if my girlfriend breaks up with me I wont find anyone else! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - Hi,im 19yrs now.but i have this problem that worries me alot,many people say im handsome thats not the point,im a very shy type.this has impede my progress with dating girls,its very hard for me to stand a girl i like due to this reason. Yes i have ...

I'm engaged, he is married and there is no attraction, but I enjoy our conversations! Am I wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I feel like I'm doing something wrong by having an intellectual conversation with another man! I'm engaged, he is married. We are former co workers who are on Facebook together. When we used to work together he came in as the assistant manage...

I'm moving back home and leaving my love behind, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - so im a foreign exchange student. and im here in the usa for one year. im coming back to my home country in a month. and i dont want to, because i met an amazing person here. i ve never ever met anybody like him. i feel so wonderful when i am with ...

Who is responsible for kids turning into drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Who is responsible for kids turning out drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck? This situation is ruining my life,and my marriage, and I feel ,Im not responsible for this, but the society is turning against us . It is very painful ...

What can I do to bring our once vibrant funfilled, loving, affectionate relationship back to life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I am twenty seven and have been with a man 22yrs my senior for three years, i feel like i'm no longer what he desires or is interested in.. We dont conversate and our sex life has nearly stopped. What can i do to bring our once vibrant funfilled, ...