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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How come I get hurt or burned in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I've been so confused lately i have no idea what to do. My ex and i broke up a month ago and i recently found that he was going out with my best friend. A couple days ago they broke up and now he want's to rebuild our relationship by being friends....

It's a lose/lose situation but I still love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I am in so much agony over the recent break up with the guy I was seeing. I had to stand up for myself in how things were going with him and I dont regret it. Because I couldnt go on accepting certain behaviors. he drink alot sometimes and turns ...

He lies, cheats, steals and does drugs for the buzz!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have been with my fiancee for a few year,we knew each other from being 13 year old and hung around 2gther! Anyway we grew up had relationships and both had children! In first couple months togther he told me he used to have a heroine and crack ...

My boyfriend called my phone but called me someone else's name??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - Hi My bf fought with me couple of days back, because i called him twice when he was hanging out with his friends. After that I didn't call him and neither did he. Today he sent text, saying sorry for his shouting at me and i didn't resp...

I doubt his comments, is this because of my criticisng Mum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have been dating for a year. We get on very well - he tells me that he loves me and behaves affectionately around me. However, there are occasions where I question why he says he loves and cares for me as much as he expresses. He mentions I have ...

How do I deal with the friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I have a really close group of friends composed of 2 other girls and a guy. The past year, my guy friend and I have become really close (we're not dating, he's gay). Sometimes we have gone out to parties without these other two friends. They are ...

I think my Bf should find someone better. How can I handle my jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - Well I've been with my boyfriend for about 8/9 months and he's the nicest guy ever we get on so so well and everything should be perfect if it wasn't for my jealousy. Ever since I split up with my ex boyfriend I've been so paranoid because my ex h...

When she watches porn it makes me feel I am not satisfying her. Is this the likely truth?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - My wife chooses to watch a lot of porn and this upsets me, and as she knows this now she shuts screen down as soon as i come in the room. I tried to see if wants me to act like the pictures she watches,but she says no. Would her actions suggest she ...

Since she loves another how do I stop wanting to love her still?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - so here the thing my girl friend dumped me but we are still very good friends i want to stop loving her because i know there is no chance for me and her any way she already loves another guy but i cant stop loving her because i see her every day ...

I'm so confused and desperate and I really want to hear his voice again but it's a matter of pride , any advice ?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (?) - I really dunno how can I explain this feeling am feeling right now , so I've been with my boyfriend since Nov. 2011. .. The first two months were magical by the meaning of the word -- he was so sweet , so romantic and passionate and he used to show...

How do I show them that I will never drink again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - This is my story, Me and my gf were together for about 3 1/2 years, the first 2 years were great with some minimal issues, like jelousy and misunderstandings but we got over those. After a while i lost vision of who i was and i started to deviate ...

I need to give him some space, but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - Hello I must be some kind of a controlfreak, and I'm about to lose my boyfriend, whom I have been with for nine years now. I'll lose everything if I lose him, the house, the pets, everything I ever build with him. (I've been in this situation b...

When it comes to making love , I don't feel like before! Why has my feelings changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - hey there ! dear aunts, i really want some help on understanding myself..first of all i'd want to make it very clear that i love my boyfriend and that i love each and every quality about him. him , his behavior , his thinking and attitude towards ...

Why does my G/f contact her ex everytime we fight? What is he trying to prove by buying her a first class ticket? What does she still want from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - Ok, so my girlfriend and I have been together for a year. Before that she was with a guy for a year and lost her virginity to him. Which im a little jealous of but oh well. She broke up with him because she said she got bored with him and never ...

She's stopped talking to me. So should I break friendship with her or give her some time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - There is a girl ,she is used to be very good friend of mine. we both are in same class.she is not committed and neither i am. we chat regularly on our mobile phones when we are at home and regularly in class.But few months earlier she suddenly...

He asked, I replied. Now my answer is the reason he is breaking up with me. Can I change his mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone,i really need help on this.. I met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we started talking to each other on the internet.. We went out last night for the first time and he asked me with how many guys i've been.. I told him the trut...

Should I talk to his wife? Or just break with him? He has lied all the way

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I am in a relationship with a married man who is 20 years older to me. We met at work. He got transferred to our office from another branch. Initially we never really spoke much to each other, probably just say a good morning when we would pass by...

He says it is over. I am broken inside. What can I do? I hurt so much inside.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend. We were together for two years. I gave him my all. I saw sides of him no-one else cared to see. I looked after him when times went bad. I gave him everything he wanted. I tried to always make him smile. I ordered univ...

Is this fair? our relationship is over because I cheated over tens years ago!!! help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - How do I handle the fact of the man I have loved for 14 years wants to leave because of some things I did over 10 years ago. Even after him telling me that he love me and we were going to get through this together. Now it's I am inconsiderate, I do...

Family Feud and my husband is siding with his sister against me. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have had a very bad falling out with my sister in law. We never liked each other anyway but the last time I have seen her we had a massive disagreement. My husband sided with his sister against me which added to me being upset. Since then I have...

Dealing with my g/f after she's been out with the girls drinking is like walking into a minefield!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - So I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years now. Most of it good, lately a lot of it bad. She is 43 and in the past year is when she really started getting bad with anger, mood swings and depression. One major issues is that she likes to ...

Is She Worth Keeping?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend have been together for about 10 months. Just recently I heard from her aunt that she has a lying problem not just with me but her family. Her aunt told me that she hasnt had a job since we have been together, altho she said ...

After a fight, why does he send texts but won't call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - Hi Me and my bf had a fight 3 days back. He kept on treating me very badly and always ignoring me and my calls. I had enough, told him so and stopped calling him. He didn't call me either. Yesterday he sent a simple 'hi' text. i didn't reply...

I'm pregnant, and my fiancé just learned I slept with our roommate when we were split up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - i slept with my fiance's friend back in december when we were not together not by choice but cause he was drunk and wouldnt leave me alone for anything! he has been living w/ me and my fiance for 3 months and [my fiancé} just now is finding out ...