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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He is draining me of energy with his constant need of attention!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now, we are both in our 40s, I have children but he doesn't. We live in different towns around 30 mins drive away. I would say we see each other around 3-4 times a week depending on his football plans. ...

Fiance blames me and calls me dumb

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, My partner and I have been together for 6 years and recently, we are engaged and going to get married soon. However, things been up and down and I've been feeling really confused and depressed and started to doubt. I'm afraid, worried ...

I told my girlfriend I am gay and don't know how to comfort her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (M) - I just told my girlfriend that I am gay. It pretty much killed her and I feel like shit. I know I had to do it and it was the hardest thing that I have ever had to do. I stay with her to comfort her but I don't really know how or what to say. I keep ...

Is my boyfriend disrespectful and controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Do you think my boyfriend is disrespectful and controlling ?. He is much older than me. Yesterday, when i was at his house, he was angry and he said " you act like a teenage autistic girl ". I have never been diagnosed with autism, so i don't know ...

I need help deciding whether to end my 6 year relationship or not....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Contemplating ending a 6 year relationship with a good man who loves me. Nobody's perfect and I have ongoing beefs with him but he is loyal and true and MAY be doing his best to make me happy-- I need your input to decide. We have very differ...

What are the chances my girlfriend still loves her ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (M) - this is a question going out to the ladies out there, can you go from a 4 year relationship to a new relationship (say within 1 year) and love the new guy? To make the story short, I basically starting going out with a girl who got out of 4 year r...

Do most relationships end when one of you goes to college/university?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (M) - I met a wonderful girl though a friend 4 months ago, and that was it. We see eachother most nights and all weekend and it's just great. I'm really fussy but she is just perfect and she tells me i am the perfect guy that every girl dreams of. Her ...

Should I give my ex another chance? I love him but I'm not his number one priority....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - I'm confused about giving my ex another chance. We went out for about 10 months but it felt longer. We were an odd couple but ended up being a cute couple we did a lot of things together. Our families loved us. His friends loved me but mine not so ...

My boyfriend wont let me speak to any guys, not even to help out my friends!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Hiii dear cupid..my question is why boyfriends are so possessive..im in a relationship..my bf is kind such a lovely guy..we met online on facebook..he doesnt allow me to talk with any boy..i accept this but there was a friend of mine who want my ...

He gets his kicks from sex but I don't get mine! How can I get him to pay more attention to my needs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

9 May 2012 (?) - Hi everyone. I have been posted a question but I found no response. I am trying to know that what is missing in our love relation. My hubby is very hot for sex. He likes sex, and lots of it. I found him sexualy hot but not emotionaly.he cares ...

She has been playing games and wont commit, now she has deleted me off Facebook! Should I call her in a few weeks? Or do I let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (M) - Well this story starts off with when i got broken up with a year ago and i got a message saying "hey your cute." I thought really nothing of it so i decided to just say thanks. So low in behold a year later during christmas we start talking we ...

How do I deal with this girl? She is always judging me because of one comment I made!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - There's this other girl who's 2 years older than me (let me say she's Girl A) at school. She always judges me and claims bad things about me. We are both acapella singers, so we are part of the school choir. Last week friday we had music ...

My friends and family always seem to call me when I'm with my boyfriend! Is it rude to tell them not to call me when I'm away with him this weekend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - It seems like everytime I hangout with my boyfriend my friends and family all seem to call and text me. Sometimes it is just a weird coincidence. My one friend likes to call me a lot. I plan on staying with my boyfriend this weekend. My question is, ...

Boyfriend is ready to lose his virginity to me, but I'm not ready! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - I'm a virgin and a teenager. My boyfriend is also a virgin but he's ready to lose his virginity to me. But Im not ready. And he gets sexually frustrated. What Am I suppose to do?...

I made a horrible mistake, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone,my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years,and due to college we are doing long distance. For the past few months,his best friend keeps telling me that i should find a guy and maybe kiss since i havent seen my boyfriend in a ...

Self esteem problems, especially around my fiance's thin, beautiful friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - I have some big problems with self esteem. I am 20y/o and engaged to a lovely young man who I love dearly. We have a fantastic relationship. My problem is about his female friends. He's the sort of guy who has primarily lady friends but never dates ...

Should I try and get over him? Or wait and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - ok sorry its long. in the end of 2009 a guy that is friends of my family and i started talking. we both flirted but he was living in AZ n me in IA, he came back and visited and he came over and we hung out, drank a little and played Rock Band, ...

I know I am the only woman he is seeing but I cant stand his online flirting! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - What do I do been with this guy for 16 months friends with benefits, I have feelings for him but not in love with him, I cannot get him to show affection, he wants a relationship wants me to act as a normal friend should and wants no committal, he ...

I cant imagine life without him, but I feel like breaking up with him is something I have to do. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - I don't know if I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. We've been together for 2 years and we've been through A LOT together, so much crap a relationship shouldn't have to withstand. For about 2 months I've been thinking about how I want us to break ...

Boyfriend says he loves me yet is always insisting that he has to put up with "so many of my problems".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. We don't live together, but he spends the night some, and he does little to help me around the house because it is not "his place". He is 35, I am 41. I have been married before, and have two ...

Boyfriend avoiding me, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Dear cupid I feel for the past few days my bf is avoiding me. I know after 2 years relationship, i am not expecting him to text me or call me every few hours. But i do expect him to listen and talk to me when we are together. He is not payin...