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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do handle all this stress and stop making mistakes? Had a break up. Depressed Relocated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I don't know where to begin, I am really upset but I'll try to list the facts as brief as possible *Recently graduated from College in finance *Never had a full time job * Moved away from home (I thought it was a relief, until now) *Mo...

I like both of them. What can I do? She doesn't want to socialize with me if my boyfriend is there too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - I have this friend who's really shy and awkward, she never had a boy interested in her and she's feeling pretty insecure because of it. Besides telling me all these things, she claims she doesn't want a relationship I used to be exactly like that...

Why did my ex say we were back together and then move in with another woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I split up last March and decided to take things slow last October after being broken up for seven months. While taking to me on the phone, he stated to me that he was no longer a single man and I asked him who he was with and I ...

I'm concerned over boyfriend's behavior when he knew I was grieving

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - Dear all, Last week I returned home and dicovered my beloved cat had died in his sleep. I was heartbroken and still am but was also upset was my boyfriends reaction. I texted him to let him know and all he replied was I'm sorry hope you're ok. ...

Trouble situation between my daughter, step daughter and a boyfriend. I'm caught in the middle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4585 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - I have read a similiar question but mine has its own twist..on my wedding night ay reception my daughter from previous marriage and my newly found husband's daughter have a confortation over my husbands daughter and my daughters boyfriend caught in ...

My problem is right now that there is no spark left in our relationship and I'm not sure if we should be together anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years next month. My problem is right now that there is no spark left in our relationship and I'm not sure if we should be together anymore. Even though I want things to keep working between us I don't ...

I'm crushed and confused! She's hung up on her ex but in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - Me and my ex started our relationship both extremely crushed by our ex's before. We were a support group for each other where we could express ourselves freely and get support from each other and advice. That grew into a relationship and I fell ...

My friend wants to leave his controlling wife but now she is pregnant

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

8 May 2012 (M) - My best friend marriage is a disaster, he always loved another women but still married his current wife. She know about his feelings and was sure that he will get over it. But last year it was very hard so he was going to break up with her and get ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to spend time alone with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - I can't tell if my boyfriend wants to hang out with me or not. Pretty much weve been together for almost a year, and until now we were both at diffrent colleges two hour driving distance away; so this is the first time we are together in the same ...

Connection with fiance is lost and now I've slept with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - hi everyone this gets really complicated! a previous question i asked helps to explain the background of our relationship. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/amnesia-stole-four-years-of-my-life-and.html i am supposed to be getting married t...

I suspect my husband is gay or bisexual

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - hi dear cupid. i just got married last year november and I found a text that he send to his friend, guy friend. it says" hide behind the blanket and take a photo" and when I ask him he said he don't know and he forget what does mean? So from th...

It hurts that the man who would drop anything for me only to give me a lift, will no longer drop anything for me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - 2 years ago i met a wonderful man in town but was still in love with my ex who had dumped me a month before. We started seeing each other even though i wasn't ready but he said he'd give me all the time i need. he would do anything for me - pick me ...

How do I tell my parents I can't stand their parenting style?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - I'm 25 yet my parents have always been overly strict, controlling and verbally abusive. I can't stand how they never want me to leave home even though I'm a grown adult. I've always done the right thing and been a A grade student. Yet I'm always ...

Help me deal with my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

8 May 2012 (?) - Hi unts and uncles I have 3 questions. [Mod note: 2 questions were combined here] 1..my husbands likes oral sex the most. Every time we meet he pull it out and ask to rub and grab the ass..pull the ass and a hand job.he also likes to rub his testi...

Why call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - My ex whom I'm still in love with decieved lied cheated on me our whole relationship during our relationship ever other week he was at the hotel with one or the same woman we were living together I broke up wit him 9 months ago I was the fool cause ...

How do I deal with my parents forcing me into marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - Hiiii dear cupid..my question is that it is allowed in any religion or any country to force someone specially girls for marriage..if parents are forcing someone for marriage then what to do..my parents always said girls r not allowed to raise there ...

Clouded judgement, intimacy too soon in the relationship, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (?) - Well, I finally found out after a half a year of contact/dating/whatever that this guy whom I met online is a complete douchebag. Looking back on it, things went a bit fast with intimacy-, even though at the time it was something that I wanted. But ...

I need help with my problems without hearing about other people's problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - Hi I'm 25 years old and have been with my bf the last 2 years - when we met I was in a violent relationship. I wanted my life to end and had been doin class A drugs but then my new bf came along and made me feel special again and I didnt think i'd ...

Now I hate that his job takes him away 3 days a week! Help me accept this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - my husband has always been a truck driver when i meet hem thats what he was doing he would leave monday be back tuesday nite work in twon wednesday then leave thursday and be back friday night and was off for the weekend when i got pregnant he stop ...

How can my ex marry her so very very soon after meeting her? It hurts.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - How can my ex marry someone 2 months after meeting her? Even though he has been driving by my house and calling me often with a private number? I called him about three weeks ago to ask him why he was doing these things and a girl answered...

Is it time to leave my fiancee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (M) - Hi, I need help, Do i leave my fiancee? Before you read this, yes its going to be abit of a rant, but this has been eating me up for about a year but even more so the last week or two. I dont feel happy being with her, but i love my 2 daught...

Can anyone help me piece together a way to approach and break it off with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm not exactly sure how I should start off , I apologize if this is too lengthy. But I really need some sound advice, so here goes...My boyfriend and I have been in a on and off relationship for 6 years. The "on" part of it was ...

Is talking a waste of time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4587 days ago

8 May 2012 (M) - I am here once again with something that is puzzling me. My fiance and I talk about many things and for the most part, everything. The issue I am having is that when we talk about problems in our house we usually agree that there is a problem and on ...

He loves me but doesn't want to spend time with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - I am a 37 yo female who has been dating a recent divorcee. He is the most wonderful man I have met. He is a Great dad to his kids that he has 5-6 days out of the week because they have a sorry mother. She cheated on him a year ago, and ask for a ...

Which is worse, snooping or flirting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - This is a bit of a weird question so I apologise in advance... My husband is a mechanic and works in a small village where everyone knows each other well and everyone is friends with everyone. However I am what's called a city slicker and have a few ...

Need to know what to do about boyfriend who reads porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - Ok and boyfriend have been together for about 3 years now. I knew he read dirty stories, he never got into the porn pics. I was ok but for the last few months It has started to annoy me. He does it mostly because 1. I will not give into him. I r...

What do I do? I don't feel comfortable with him in the background!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4585 days ago

8 May 2012 (M) - Ok so hear is my question. Me and my fiancé broke up for a couple months for one months she was seeing her ex we have gotten back together but she says she has unfortunate feelings for him and will not allow new feeling to happen between them but ...

How do I repair the damage I've done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4586 days ago

8 May 2012 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 6 months now. the problem is i keep doing the same thing over and over again and realise too late that i messed up again. i just keep getting jealous and not trusting and worrying even when she ...