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writes:Ive been in a relationship with my bf for 7 yrs now. Well it has been rough for us this psst years and sometimes we argue almost everyday. I feel so tired of fighting with him. He always tells me that I have a very bad attitude. I don't know what he meant by that since I'm very nice to him and I loved him so much...All I'm doing is for him alone and I'm willing to give up everything for my bf.But he tells me I need to change because I'm trying to control him and tell him what to do all the time...I'm just making plans for us so we will have good time together. I don't know what I did wrong but he always finds mistake on me. I tried to be perfect for him but nothing seems to be enough...Why is he still not happy after all that Ive done for him??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes probably... But I did set him free but he doesn't want to go...
He said he won't leave me I just need to give him space so he could breathe a little.
I know I'm expecting too much from him. I want him to give me attention as much as I did for him....
Right now I'm keeping distance between us so he won't pull back.
Thanks so much for a good advice...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011): I think that you are trying TOO hard and because of this you expect TOO much from him. You are using statements like "i would do anything for my bf"...that there is not right! You need to love your partner but don't make a chore out of it. Don;t make it like a favour... and then put too much pressure on the guy to give to you all you are giving him. It creates unnecessary tension. You know the saying...If you love something set it free..if it comes back to you its yours..if it doesn;t, it never was.. This guy might be feeling suffocated by your love.
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