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writes:How do I get over this guy? I've liked him since 6th grade and we just recently graduated from high school. He is also one of my best friends. We had dated for a month and a half this year. We even went to prom together. I was happy in the relationship, but we started to get awkward and we both decided on not being together anymore. It was a clean break and we still talked to each other like usual. He even told me I was the type of friend he could kiss, but he was afraid we would get too serious. To make it clear I'm in love with this guy and really care about him. I was really hoping after high school I could well loose touch with him, but lately he's been messaging me and talking to me. And I'm in another state right now spending time with my father. I'm leaving to go home tomorrow. He knows this and his birthday was on the 27th and I asked him what he wanted for his birthday and he wants a hug and a few kisses...I agreed...I couldn't help but agree. But before his birthday he was talking about being in a relationship for only sex and asking my views on sex. And I told him I'm a virgin and I want my first to be someone I've actually known for awhile and have feelings for. I'm ready for sex, I just haven't had sex yet. So...what do you think is going through this boys head? And am I just drawing straws on thinking he is wanting to be with me again just for sex? I really need help for. And as much as I want to get over this guy...I can't. Please help me. Thanks.
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (1 July 2011):
this does sound like he just wants you for sex you may be ready to lose your virginty but wait till you are in a happy loving relationship and make him wait so he respects you don,t lose it to him as you will regret it i was in the same situation when i lost mine and i have regretted it ever since good luck
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (1 July 2011):
 Well, since you were dating but not anymore, you are a kissable friend but he does not want anything serious, and he talked to you about having a relationship only for sex, let's see, what could he possibly want ? Uhm... maybe sex ?
He told you what he wants, and it's only up to you to bring this friendship back on the proper platonic track.
You may be physically ready for sex, but the fact still remains that you are in love with him, and he does not reciprocate. Hard , in fact impossible, to handle,particularly for a first timer.
As a matter of fact, if you are really serious about getting over him, the best would be to stop any contact with him and freeze the friendship for the time being. Drastic, but effective.
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