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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:My ex boyfriend dumped me cos he said he didn't want a relationship.He asked to be friends but I told him I can't be his friend cos I love him to much. He said ok and I deleted him off my phone.After 5weeks he rang me saying he's sorry for everything he's done. He says he misses me so much and he wish he never broke up with me. He says he feels so lonely now that I've left him.I told him so much has happened I don't think I can do it again. He asked me to cinema next week. What should I do? Any tips girls? I've missed him so much:(Thanks..x
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reader, Beautyandbiscuits +, writes (1 July 2011):
 It has been 5 weeks and he has only just realised he has missed you? Men usually go after what they want if they don't they may just be keeping their options open. It seems to me that in the 5weeks you two have been seperated you have got over some of the feelings you had for him in the first place so why bring them up again when he may do it again soon?The cinema is a romantic place to be especially since the lights go out and the seats are placed closely together so this can cause the feelings you may have had for him come up again!What you need to decide now is if you want to set yourself up for heart-break again, is he worth is and can you trust him? I know you still love him but sometimes it is better to meet up in a more public place like a bar (since you are over the age of 18) so it is considerably harder for you to get close again.Hope this helps and good luck for everything!
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (1 July 2011):
personally i wouldnt go if you still love him and he says to you again he doesnt want a relationship you are going to be the one getting hurt again not him you will meet someone who wants exactly the same as you good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011): mmmm..... I wouldn't make it quite so easy for him. He hurt you and was able to walk away. You have to ask yourself this, was he pursuing someone else? maybe it didn't work out and now he's coming back with his tail between his legs.
Take your time, and enjoy having the ball in your court. If you're up for maybe having your heart broken again then go ahead, I would busy myself with my friends and keep him waiting until I was sure of what I wanted. Good luck x
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