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writes:okay so my bf and i have been dating for 2 months and we still havent kissed!! isnt that weird? anyway hes told me he wanted to many times but he knows im waiting for him to kiss me first and make the first move.. im just wondering if i should continue to wait for him to make the first move or make it myself? please its bugging me!(: thanks(: Reply to this Question
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reader, Milo117  +, writes (2 July 2011):
 If he is scared then when you are alone next sit down with him in a comftable place and hold his hands tell him you love him and kiss him for about two seconds.I bet he will kiss back. He probably finds you very attractive and is just to scared. So you can show him there is nothing to be afraid of with you. Then comes the fight to make him stop ;) good luck I'm sure it will be great be sure to write back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys great awnsers.. the only problem is that we talk about it all the time and he knows that im waiting.. its like he does get scared everytime we are alone..
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (1 July 2011):
i would kiss him if you wait for the man to do it you will wait forever sounds like he is shy i would wait till you are alone together somewhere stand in front of him while you are talking to him as you are talking look at his lips occasionally then when you stop talking lean in gently and kiss him good luck
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reader, Milo117 +, writes (1 July 2011):
Lol chigirl is very right my gf has done that to me I'm very shy too took me 4 months to kiss her in the end she grabed me and kissed my face of.
Don't worry he is shy be yourself and make sure your alone
Good luck :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 July 2011):
 Make the initial moves yourself. That's the classic female tactic. A woman will make it so that the man thinks it was his idea.
This mean you don't kiss him, but you arrange it so that he WILL kiss you. How you ask? Simple. To be able to kiss you need to face each other. One day when you feel comfortable, face him. Stand right in front of him, and look into his eyes, then look down at his lips, and lean closer to him. Hold your arms around his waist, or hold his hands. Then wait for him, he will kiss you. If he doesn't kiss you (maybe too shy) you can rub your nose against his. It's called an eskimo kiss when you rub noses, it's cute, and might make him feel more comfortable.
If this doesn't work the first time (although I think it will), just try it again. By doing this you signal that you are ready for a kiss, and all he has to do is lean in and give you one. It will also make him think that he was the one to initiate it (men are oblivious to female seduction techniques).
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