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We both cheated on each other and now there are some serious trust issues!

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Question - (1 July 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2011)
A male United States age 51-59, *ookn4u36 writes:

I recently got back together with my baby's mamma. we have two daughters together 3yr and 6yr..Also she more or less is stepmother to my oldest from another relashionship. So were together 6 or 7 yr when I lost our house and she was left to take care of our daughters, while I spent some time in jail, 5 months, got out and tried to work things out (I beleave she still loved me at this time} I then went to jail again for 8 months. But this time she had found out through my cousin (male) that I had cheated on her in the past. Since then she slept with that same cousin. which I resently found out about.

so for the last three yr or so Ive been trying to make it work with her, she was telling me she wasnt my girlfriend but she wasnt with anyone else either. Until my cousin told me what he had done, which she denied at first. So basically she has been doing other people the last three years or so. while I keep sticking around, she finaly said about a month a go, she was ready to be my girlfriend again and try to make our family work. But now we both have serious issues with trust! Because I stayed around so long do you think she feels like she can cheat on me because I wont leave and she has got away with it for so long that I'll not find out if she does? do you think she really wants me or is it just convient until somthing better comes along? Sometime it feels good, and some time i think shes up to no good!

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2011):

personally i would split up and stay split up for good this is no relationship a relationship is built on trust and if that is gone there is no point trying to regain it

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