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writes:I just got back with my boyfriend and he is still on match.com. I know he is not active on there but his profile is posted and he is still a paying member. And women can contact him. You know last time we broke up he stayed posted on there too and i had to tell him Hey what the hell are you on there for.?...he said oh i havn't had time to cancel the subscription....Then we broke up again and now then he went on there again and Now ...Weve been back together 1 week now and he is still on there!!! I don't want to say anything whiney....what can I say to him to make him feel not too cool....AND what do you think about a boyfriend actually FIANCE that would not think to take himself down from the match.com site????? Isn't it disrespectful to me? All it takes is a minute phone call to customer service like he did last time when I got on his case. See I think he wants that attention from me...the jealousy. Although it's not jealousy its rude of him. Feedback please...
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (1 July 2011):
i would secretly delete it if you know his passwords and things he can,t say anything to you about it cos then you can say to him what are you bothered for your with me you don,t need to go on ther to meet a woman anymore just do not tell him it was you that deleted it say it must of been deleted because he hasnt used it gor a while or something like that good luck
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reader, tby1 +, writes (1 July 2011):
 if you set up a fake profile you will be able to check when he last logged in to then find out if he is up to no good. it will say last logged in 24, 48 hours ago, in the last week ,in the last month, 3 months and so on.
hope this helps, bloody match.com ruined my life cos i signed up when my now ex was treating me like total shit, saying i was fat n ugly n couldnt get anybody else so i went on as it was free to judge the reaction i got. found out i am still good looking, then she found out and used it as a reason to end our relationship
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 July 2011):
 he's not doing it for the attention.
He MAY be doing it just because it's a pain to get off the site... my bf is having issues getting off of Cougar Life... ugh..
personally hon, if he's active on a dating site (can you check the last time he logged on?) it's not only disrespectful but he's sending a huge signal in my opinion that he's not ready to give up the attention of other women.
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reader, natmarie +, writes (1 July 2011):
 Hi. Yes,it,s disrespectful of him to keep it on there.Tell him it makes you uncomfortable. If he does not take it down after that, you may need to review your options. X
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