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I'm confused and scared but he's playing games!

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Question - (4 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

me and this guy have been kind of a on and off realtionship for a year and a month. we finally had sex after a year and the third time we had sex the condom had busted, and we arent together. he told me he would step up and be a man if i got pregnant but then he told me things wouldnt change between us. im only 15 and he's 18 but he kinda has been playing games and doesnt really know if he wants to be with me or wants to do his thing, what do i do?

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A female reader, iloveyhoo United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

iloveyhoo agony auntif you aren't pregnant,somehow you should try and move on, as he aint worth it

but if you are pregnant, tell him. explain to him you know that he;s scared and you are to..discuss what the possibilities are, and remember he is over 16 your not,he could go to prison. :S

take some time out and think about what you want to do

good luck x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

Well first of all, you must get a pregnancy test. Secondly, he hasn't got a clue what he will do and is panicking. I can't tell you what he's thinking, but it doesnt' look all that great. But you must see a doctor and get tested. Good luck.

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