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female
age
36-40,
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writes:Hi ! Its quite long but il appreciate if you'l spend some time and give your advise. I was 9 when my parents died. After that we were staying with our grandparents....and year after year my grandparents also died. Left in my family were three of us...my elder bro, my elder sis and me. When i reached high school my sis whom i loved alot was married. Now only me and my bro are left. I was 15 when i had my first boyfriend. He cheated on me with one of my classmates. My second boyfriend lasted 4 months and he also left me and when back to his ex-girlfriend. My third boyfriend was doing double timing. I was with him for the last 5 years. I trusted him alot....but at the end all i got from him was a heartache. Currently the guy whom i like is 4 years younger then me. He always says that he loves me alot. But i can't trust him. I always fight and blame him that his cheating with me. Can anyone please tell me whats wrong with me. Above this i can not think positive about any relationship. I always end up thinking that noone likes me and m al alone. Am I just confused with my life. Need your advise....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
Hi there,
You've been through a lot in your life at a young age. There's nothing wrong with you. you're obviously very worried that you're losing those close around you. First of all, after all that you've been through, it might be worth talking to a counsellor to get all your feelings out so you can understand them. Secondly, sit your boyfriend down and talk to him about what has happened. That way, he'll be able to reassure you and understand you. Just take your time and tell him how you feel and what has happened.
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