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writes:I told my friend that i love her and she became angry with me,what should i do because i dont want to break up with her. Reply to this Question
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reader, MartiniBaby  +, writes (23 January 2009):
I'm confused by your question but as I read it, it sounds like you're saying you told "a friend" that you love her and your "girlfriend" became angry. If that's the case let your gf know that you would never do anything to hurt her or offend her and if you knew that she would get mad then you would not have done it. Let your girl know that she's taking the situation way out of hand and she's the one you're with so why she mad. I think she's also making herself seem very insecure and doesn't trust you. You have to make her understand that everything ain't what it seems. You and the other girl are just friends and say you two don't even talk much and she was going through something and it was just something that she needed to hear at the moment. I mean at least your gf wouldn't be so mad at the end. =]
Now if you told your friend that you love her and she became angry well yea she doesn't feel the same way about you. Unless she does and was trying to erase those feelings she had for you and you brought them back and you messed up her whole system of deleting her feelings for you. =/
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): Unless there is a part of the story you are leaving out of this, it seems silly for her to be angry at you for telling her you love her....unless she has tried to set boundaries with you as a friend and that she already has a boyfriend, then I can see why she might be frustrated with you.
Just leave her alone........let her call you, that way the pressure you are putting on her will subside....if you keep forcing your friendship down her throat you are actually pushing her farther away perhaps forever....unless that is what you want back off and back off now.
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reader, carriebaby  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 is this girl your friend or girlfriend?? If she is your friend and you have told her you love her and her reaction is anger then im assuming she doesnt feel that way toward you. Tell her your sorry and yuo dont want it to change things between you. Hopefully she understands and you can continue on...
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