A
female
age
51-59,
*eewoo
writes:I am new to this so please bear with me. My problem is i was going out with a man for a few months and we have just broke up and i am heartbroken. I have known this man for 20 years or so we dated a bit when we were younger. We meet again last year i was already suffering depression and we talked about this but then one thing lead to another and we ended up together. I did not want a relationship and i told him that so i just thought a casual thing can not hurt. He contacted me about a week later and arranged to meet. It was nice but stuff had hapened in his life to make things a little complicated for us but that was fine. Well over the next week we became closer and i helped him with the problems he had. He used to sit and tell m how much he loved me and convinced me that he did (at first i found it hard to beleive) and told me how proud he was to be with me (i have very low self esteem). We started having a few problems coming up to Christmas he was finding it harder and harder to deal with the stuff he had going on and was forgetting about me not really texting been a bit short tempered etc. So Christmas was not really nice came to new year and i may as well been invisible that night granted he was working as a doorman but he could have paid me a bit more attention. Things came to a head about two weeks ago and he just said that we both just had to much going on at the minute and he could not concetrate on me i tried to tell him it was ok and that i was there to help and that was grand he agreed to try but a few days later he let me down and really hurt me so i ended it. Please help i dont understand how you can tell someone you love them and spend as much time as he did convincing me it was true and then do this. What should i do
View related questions:
broke up, christmas, heartbroken, self esteem, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Weewoo +, writes (24 January 2009):
Weewoo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply i hope your right about things going to be ok. I am staying away from him and not contacting him so he can have the space to sort out his head i know i want to be with him but in his current situation i think he just has no room to think about me. Next week something is happening to do with his problems and hopefully he will contact me and let me know how it went. I suppose i just have to wait and see but it is not easy. Thamks again
A
male
reader, planepocket  +, writes (24 January 2009):
I think he is probably telling the truth.Maybe things will get better and you guys can work it out.But if they don't you need to move on and find someone new.
...............................
|
