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writes:for what happened the second time this is the link i ended up giving her another chance but im not sure if i should give her another.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-dont-understand-her-actions.htmlwell anyway when i first met her she told me she was a virgin and i honestly didnt care if she was or not but if u read frmo the first question she ended up pressuring me into sex. So it has been about a month since i started seeing her again and she has been well slipping up here and there telling me o this guy fingered me i gave this guy oral so i wasnt really sure if she was telling me the truth so i asked one of her exes about her and he told me she was most deffinately not a virgin but rather a sex addict and she has been lying to me and about 3 days before i asked him i was with her and i told her to come clean about everything and i promised i wouldnt be mad but she said she had told me everything i know he was telling the truth because of certain things he said and when i told her she denied it and then i caught her up in it with evidence and she keeps telling me she is sorry and mad at her ex for telling me but she shouldnt be mad at her ex this is stuff i really needed to know but i feel like she ignores my texts and calls alot and theres the possibility she could be cheating on me and even after i told her to delete my number from her phone she said she wouldnt do it but she has made no attempt to try and talk to me about getting me back but i know she is going to soon because its wat happened last time and when she does i really dont want to but should i give her one more chance?I really do love her but idk wat to do
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reader, lovesalias +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I think that you need to figure out what it is about her that you like so much. I don't think that it is her per say that you are interested in but more so the way she makes you feel when you are together. I don't think that you should give her another chance although I know you really love her. I think you should take time to figure out who you are and what you want out of life. I am sure you are a great guy that any girl would be lucky to have so let me give you a little inside tip: Women love men that have confidence in themselves...not in a conceided way but take a look at the guy in your school that all the girls want...is he confident, does he carry himself well? Is he always smiling? Girls love that I don't care how old or young women love a man that is confident with himself so work on your self esteem and confidence level and you will not have a problem with the ladies! Trust me! I hope this helps! Good Luck!
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