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I can't trust myself not to cheat

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Question - (2 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay big problem I have a boyfriend, but we are both pretty young, his number one rule is do not cheat. well, I'm afraid i will break that rule. I've have a ton of relationships in the past so I know I can date. I have big problems with trust I can't trust myself even, I really am struggling with this is because I really don't feel loved by my family so i always need some one by my side. I don't know if I should go and date my ex boyfriend, but I don't know. Everyone tells me I'm the prettiest girl at my 2,000 people school. Should I dump my boyfriend because of my trust problems?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009):

If you feel like you want or have to cheat on your boyfriend, then he isn't the one you should be with. If you really like/love him, and he is really the one you want, then you won't have the need or want to cheat on him.

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A male reader, lovelynightmare United States +, writes (2 February 2009):

lovelynightmare agony auntI think just by posting this you already have enough conviction that cheating is a horrible thing.

Whenever a temptation arises, remind yourself of your wonderful guy and that you wouldn't hurt him like that.

Also, try to stay away from drunken parties, because alcohol impairs judgement, and guys love to take advantage of that.

Also, MyDestiny has a good point with finding a girlfriend to hang with, hope for the best.

lovelynightmare

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (2 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt why would you dump him, as long as you dont skrew up your ok...and if your feeling not loved then go on a date with him, or have a steammy romantic night with him and cuddle...and if its not possible for him to be around when your feeling lonely then go out and chillout with a girlfriend or sometrhing.... you'll be alright hang in there..but dont break his heart, he trusts you

gudd luck

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