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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend i know loves me, and will be with me forever, but something he did i just cant get out of my head. We were having a fight and i was at a party, and drinking, and we were texting, he told me that he was really upset about something he did, he had looked at gay porn and liked it, i was too drunk and shrugged it off, but some other things he did made me mad and i ended up hooking up with a guy (just making out). We have talked about it and are moving forward, but something about it just makes me sad, i just dont know what to think.
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reader, FizzyPop  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 If you can get through this together, sit down and talk then will make your relationship stronger. Tipsy or not he didn't keep this gay porn from you but felt he could tell you being his partner. Your bound to have doubts and question your future together, asking questions and wondering if he would be prepared to take looking at mags into something more.Most guys look at gay porn, or other guys in the street, its part of growing up. I'm sure you have checked out another female - not sexually maybe. We all do if honest with ourselves.To make out with someone else though isn't a good sign that your relationship can get through hard times together.He only looked and liked the pictures in magazines, yet you felt you had to go with someone else to make up for what he ONLY looked at.Maybe its time to move on. His gay porn magazine will always eat you up. How far will you go with another guy, if your partner tells you he's still looking at gay porn?? Even though that's all he's doing is looking and no more... Good Luck!
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