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Summer Lovin' .. I want my summer romance back

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Question - (23 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This passed summer my best friend's brother and i got really close and ended up together, well the whole time she and i didn't speak because of a few other issues. We had this amazing relationship for about a month and then suddenly he just stopped talking to me over a silly misunderstanding which completely broke me down. I love him with all my heart and truth be told, i thought he was it. To say the least, we got along so well and it was the best relaionship i've ever been in. Anyway, now my bestfriend and i are great, she's pretty much my sister and i would do anything for her. Her family loves me and the only thing that's changed is mine and his relationship. It's been over five months now and the most i get out of him is a small conversation in a group of people. What i'm asking is, is it so wrong for me to want him back, and to feel like i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009):

Was it possible someone in his family told him he shouldn't be with you? That might explain the sudden disinterest-he might have been looking for anything as an excuse to let you go.

Even if you never find out what happened, he's made his decision, and you need to deal with that and move on. Good luck!

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A male reader, mrtazz Australia +, writes (23 December 2009):

You probably didn't actually like him all that much. It's a young crush, most likely becuase of his looks. I would say just to leave it, and try not to talk to him, otherwise it will just make things worse. Then perhaps later on down the track, he might talk to you :)

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