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writes:so i have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months and we say we are in love, which i am. so recently i broke up with him and made out with another guy, then we got back together - broke up, got back together - broke up and now were back together. now im having doubts, i do love him but i have feelings for this other guy.. should i be with my boyfriend or not, PLEASE HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009): You are very young and it seems like you don't know what you want. It seems like you have been unsure about this guy from the beginning since you keep breaking up with him. Why does he keep getting back together with you, and vice versa??? Anyway, the simple truth is, if you're not happy with him, you need to let him go. I'm sorry, but I think your actions prove that you don't really love him. It's unfair of you to stay with him and tell him that if you have feelings for someone else.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (23 December 2009):
 try to do it after christmas though.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (23 December 2009):
i think if you've already had such an unstable relationship that there's something missing there that isn't working for one or both of you. if you're already thinking about your life without him, and instead fantasizing about this other guy, why aren't you making that dream a reality? you're doing a disservice to both of you otherwise.
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