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writes:Earlier today, my boyfriend and my two best friends were hanging out at my house. My boyfriend was playing with my hair and watching my friend playing video games. My other friend was being very emo (aka emotional) and he wouldn't look or talk to me.My boyfriend told me he loved me, when Mr. Emo-Kid decides that he's going pull me off the couch, put his hands up my shirt, try to grab my breasts, and kiss me right in front of my boyfriend. My other friend pulled him off and I asked him what the **** he was doing. He just yelled, "fine," proceeded to call my boyfriend a "****ing cradle robber" (I'm not going to lie our age difference is 10 years) and storm out of my house. During that process he broke two of my mother's Tiffany vases. Then I had to calm down my fuming boyfriend (who has a paper-thin temper).I'm like a mix of all negative emotions. I really want to hurt him right now. I mean, why would he do this? I thought I trusted him (I've known him since forever!). Why? Any possibilities?(I apologize for being so whiney.)
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (23 December 2009):
 LOL I agree with honeypie. That boyfriend must be the Looser soon567 is "really" referring to. I mean whats he really got that the younger one dosent? a job? a car? is very own nintendo? your friend will have the same shit and probably a hell of a lot more in a few years you know.
In your BF's age group if you think about it all the people who know him would probably be saying "can't get a girl from his own age lol!" how dodgy! and he probably laughs because your this hot babe who dosent know what the hell is really going on.
Your emo kid friend probably shouldnt have done what he did infront of your BF or to you for tha matter but in times of intensity people do strange things i guess.
Please tell my your BF is a weird drugo dude who really has no job and is a eco greenie trying to invent a way for cars to run on weed just to legalise it. I will sit here and piss myself laughing.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 December 2009):
 First of a 26 year old dude dating a 16 year old girls have some serious maturity issues. You may be a mature 16 year old but really, he must be really immature.
Your Mr. Emo - best bud, is in love with you. He finally got the balls to show you ( even if it was a rather crude way) that he is jealous and interested in you.
And.... last but not least he was right, your BF is a cradle robber.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (23 December 2009):
Your friend simply likes you. But he won't tell you because he's your friend and thats a good thing.
I'm affraid when your "immature" older boyfriend did what he did especially in front of another person it upset your friend. At this time I think he had every right to be upset with you because it would have been humilliTing for him to feel like the one who can't be with a girl doing the same thing let alone exposing it to him.
The vases were just an accident cause by his fury but you can't blam him for being upset. It's somewhat your boyfriends fault and also yours if you let him continue.
You may lose a good friend who possibly loves you very much and you don't even know what you are doing to him.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (23 December 2009):
 (I've known him since forever!).
thats why the guys been in love with you since you where in diapers and is pissed you want to be with grandpa over him Poor guy he handled this badly but damn at least oh man this is funny i mean wow i cant believe he did that any way i like his style exept he didnt have to break the Tiffany vases man those are exspensive, but the feeling you up part in front of your bf that was gold. I gotta read it again, post like this is what dearcupid is all about. any way give the guy a break tell him if he replaces the vases all is forgiven consider it a crime of passion. And theres nothing wrong with you being with an older guy if he has a car and a job if not you might as well be with the emo kid
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Its possible he has developed romantic feelings for you and it kills him to see you with someone else.
Now this isn;t your fault. He;s just having a hard time dealing with it if this is the case.
Plus he also might see your boyfriend and his temper as wrong for you. But so long as this temper doesn;t cause hurt to you, then its all good.
You need to get your friend alone and talk to him. Don't lead him on or encourage his behaviour. Tell him you are very angry about what he did and wish to know why he would do that.
Hopefully this will open up a dialog.
Flynn 24
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