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*ridgettesamerica
writes:i like a guy. and he goes to my church.. every sunday he makes a point to invite me to sit with him.. well actually he ask if im coming in then leads me to a seat and then sits with me. he smile at me alot.. and we email back and forward.. but he never actually addresses a lot of things i ask about. its odd because he seems so concerned about me.. but how can i tell if its just a general concern that he has for everyone or if he likes me ? Reply to this Question
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reader, bridgettesamerica +, writes (26 December 2009):
bridgettesamerica is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits hard to take advice from someone who is either shy or hiding. youre anonymous. thats worse than how hes acting.
come again but with an ID.. its not like i know you right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009): If he is or near the same age as you (30-35), it sounds like he is either very immature, extremely shy, or has no idea how to act around a woman. It sounds like you have done everything you can to show you are interested, but he won't even answer a question during a conversation? No offense, but this guy sounds really wierd and maybe you would be better off finding someone else.
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reader, bridgettesamerica +, writes (24 December 2009):
bridgettesamerica is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni guess i am a bit impatient.. especially since im also afraid.i didnt even realize i liked him.... and well i do.. but so does someone else. and she is unrelenting. i walk away now every time she comes round. answers for me when he ask me things and answers for him when he ask me things.. that sort.. i dont know how to play it by ear.. because theres nothing much to listen to.. he isnt clear.. so im lost as to what he wants me to do.. how can i know? i always feel like im doing something wrong.. and that makes me want to shy away or become frustrated.. id gladly play it by ear.. if he gave me the slightest clue how..
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (23 December 2009):
 just play it buy ear he probably likes you just doesnt kno how to proceed. dont rush him into it when hes ready hell let you kno.
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