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female
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36-40,
*mber0552
writes:So i have been married to my husband for 4 years now and ever since we had our daughter he never seems to be home. He joined the fire department is always doing side jobs going to friends house and whatever else. He told me the day he joined the fire department that part of the reason he joined was so he didnt have to be home as much well i finally got sick of living that way where he was never home so i moved out and now im back but it is starting all over again from step 1 to where he is never home and all he does is yell at me for little things we dont talk. We argue over everything. Just not happy but he doesnt understand that. I dont know what to do anymore.i need advice every thing i do doesnt seem to work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): It sounds like this may is committed to saving lives with the fire department because it boost his ego but when it comes to saving the life of his distressed wife he walks away. I am concerned for the child, it does not sound like this is a positive invironment for him/her. If you can reason with this man and he truely cares about his family and talk to him calmly no matter how angry he gets. If that doesn't work consider moving on. It may not be easy but may be prove to be best for everyone. Never be afraid to get local help with your decision, many communities offer free advice.
Tony
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