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Couldn't be with the one I love now I've met someone new. How should I proceed?

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Question - (23 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2009)
A male India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

HI I am in love with a girl we want to get marry also but her parents was against our relationship and now the girl whom i love is not ready to go against her parents she will mrry to the guy where her parents will tell there is one girl whom i like and also she likes me too since i have broken up with my girlfrd and feeling very lonely i want the girl whom i like to meet me in my brothers home.

I want to have a physcial relationship with her and she is ready to meet me should i meet her and why did she agree to meet me? help me what should i do

[Mod: This question has been resubmitted a few times with more details. Op is in love with a girl whose parents have already arranged a marriage for her. They have now broken up because of this and he has met a new girl who he used to go to school with. He was feeling lonely and he wants a physical relationship with this girl but is not sure whether he is ready or whether this is right thing to do, he is also unsure of this girls intentions]

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A male reader, cdjudd United States +, writes (23 December 2009):

I know exactly where your coming from. I just ended a four and half year relationship against my will. However, it hurts to know the one you love is not available to you. The thing to note is, you cannot stand by and wait. This girl shows an interest in you. If it doesn't feel right take it show, you are the judge in this situation. Don't make a rash decision but rather wait and find which one you'll be most content with. The hardest decision is always the best decision.

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