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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey!3 weeks ago while i was on holidays my girlfriend broke up with me! we are only 15 but she was going out to a disco that night and said i didnt trust her and she said that i was too over-protective! at the moment she hates me. do you think i should just not text her at all! what shall i do/????
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reader, tomm_00  +, writes (15 December 2009):
hi,
im in the same boat, i find out that going and telling her the truth helps but i left my gf and she came calling back, girls petend they dont care, BUT THEY DO!!!.
hope i helped
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reader, butterfly809  +, writes (18 July 2007):
 when i broke up with my ex, he was the 1 calling....but when stopped calling i started missing him a lot..and i ended calling him..cause 2 years is a long long time 4 her to forget about u in a week...but something else... we dont like it when we go out and ya spend the whole time calling us or when we go out and ya ask to many quetions.. try 2 trust het a lil more..call her tell her your sorry and that it wont happen again......good luck
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reader, butterfly809 +, writes (18 July 2007):
let her contact you...us girls like when ya be after us..and when ya are, we dont give much importance...but when ya guys stop callin we be the ones callin ya..
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (17 July 2007):
 I would leave her to contact you. If she "hates" you so much then having you text her wont help. Plus you don't want to look needy or something do you
xxxxxxx
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (17 July 2007):
 Do not call her back, let her call you back. It may never happen. When a woman asks me to go away, guess what? I go away. You then gain your control back. If she does contact you again, then it's your choice to call her back or not. You may find another girlfriend in the meantime. Women want confident men. Be confident.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (17 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
If you have been over protective towards her and this is the reason you have split up then I would text her telling her you have made a mistake, but before you do that you do have to trust her when she does go out, a relationship is built on trust if you don't have this then you have nothing,
Good luck babes,
Love Donna
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reader, NuVu +, writes (17 July 2007):
Of course you should NOT contact her. She broke up with you, its her loss and its time to move on.
Do you think she was being truthful about being overprotective? Start thinking about if that is true and if so how you can fix it. Nobody likes to be around needy or jealous people, so if that is a problem for you, need to work on that.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut we have broken up!so should i leave her to contact me?
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (17 July 2007):
Don't contact her, wait for her to contact you back. You're 15 and I assume not married or engaged. If she does call you back, tell her you're sorry and she was right, be brief with it. If you do get back together, enjoy the time you have with her, and kiss her like no other man has or ever will. Treat her like she's the only woman in the world. In the meantime, go out with someone else if you want. She doesn't own you either.
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