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Should I apolgize to the new guy I'm seeing for sending him a drunken message?

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Question - (17 July 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hey there,

I wrote not so long ago with a dilemma in that I liked a guy who was best mates with a guy I had been seeing altho I have now stopped seeing the first one so no problems there. I am due to see the guy I like next wkd but have done something very stupid! when I got drunk this wkd I emailed him with a message that made it obvious I had been drinking and said I was looking forward to seeing him as it will be fun ( we are going to a festival) and now he has not responded. Do you think I have now messed this up? Shall I message him to say sorry for the drunken message? Cheers x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007):

sounds harmless to me. theres probably another reason why he hasn't answered. don't stress over it

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (17 July 2007):

kenny agony auntIm sure you are not the first person to send a drunken message, and by no means the last. Just send him another message saying sorry about the text the other night i had a bit to drink, im sure he will be fine about it.

All the best x

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (17 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntDid you actually ask him any questions?, Maybe he thought he need not reply if you did not.

Just chill out and enjoy the festival together.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (17 July 2007):

AuntyEm agony auntIt probably wouldn't hurt to apologize but don't beat yourself up too much. Just a quick 'Opps sorry bout that message...how are you?' should do it. I hope he still keeps your date and have a great time at the fest!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007):

It all depends what you wrote in it. Were you offensive in any way? Then maybe yes it does deserve an apology.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007):

Don't worry about it. He could not tell that you were drunk, you could have been half asleep instead. Men don't always respond like us women. They think, "Hey, message, that's nice. I am looking forward to that too but I had better not say so as it will not look very cool". They don't do texts so much until they are more committed. Even then, getting into that to-ing and fro-ing can be a real chore if you don't like being intruded on all the time, which I don't for example. Some people prefer to talk. Text mean people have continous access to a person's every move and they cause maximum opportutnities for people to misunderstand each other. His lack of response means nothing except he does not text much. Forget it and don't get all intense, you aren't engaged, you are supposed to be friends.

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