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Archived questions from: July, 2014 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails where he was flirty to other girls. What should I do about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend left his FaceBook logged in on my laptop and asked me to reply to his mate on chat! But in doing so I had seen he had a few girls who he had recently spoken to and I know I shouldn't have but I read the mails and he was speaking...

They never acted on their mutual crush, so why would my friend's boss send her a goodbye card with kisses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - There was a mutual crush between my friend and her married boss. They sort of developed a strong liking for each other, But for him, it was more of an infatuation. He did not know that he was flirting with her at the beginning( his wife also...

Does he love me if he wants a threesome?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - Does he love me. Wants threesome other women ...

I know its hypocritical of me, but I am jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hi all, So my ex and I broke up a Couple of months ago. We needed the time to resolve some issues and now we have decided to try again. I dated during our break up, and he did too except he went on a dating profile as he's not a big drinker and also...

I really want her to feel appreciated and loved.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

28 July 2014 (M) - Ok. So my girlfriend went to stay with her best friend last week. They have been close for 5 years and it turns out last week he told ger that he was in love with her. We have been together for 7 years and when she came back there was a huge...

My B/f's having a relationship with another girl who I was led to believe was his ex, I snooped though his texts and guess what I found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hey all so I've been dating this guy going on 3 months we started dating while he was in another relationship. The relationship was serious he and the girl he was with had been together a year and 3 months and they lived together. Any way I was so...

He was still in love with his ex while with me! Why is it so hard to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - (Mod note: language has been slightly moderated) Hi, I am so sorry for this long story but I really need some words to console me. I was dating a guy for the last 15 months. It was my first relationship and I really wanted to have a future ...

He was sexting and then had an affair, I cant decide whether to forgive and work on it, or leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I recently asked for help over my partner sexting another woman and I have now spoken to her and she was very willing to tell me that they had know each other for about a year and that they were only friends and although she wanted more, he said ...

I'm trying to forgive him and make the marriage work, but friends and family don't undertand why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we have 4 kids under the age of 5. A month ago he told me that he had an affair with a coworker. It happened in April and last three weeks, during those three weeks they were together 4 times. H...

He had a girlfriend but I let him take my virginity ....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I met this guy almost a year ago, we became friends and started talking a bit. I started liking him but found out that he has a girlfriend so in my head I kind of labeled him as well just a friend even though I liked him. One day I dont even rem...

If this marriage was so important to her, then why didn't she stop contacting her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I got married a few months ago, it was a rushed wedding, after barely knowing each other we married because she told me to get married because I was having trouble with my immigration status and it would give me a green card and working visa ...

Married man begged to make me stay. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - Okay, so here goes. I'm 31, been single for a few weeks now, dated a 34-year-old man for about a month, until I then realized he was married. We met in a local bar I drink at often, he was there with some friends, we got talking, it was a fun even...

I took him back when he cheated but I just cant trust him anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, you've indeed been of great help to me, and I do appreciate everything. Pls I need your advice on an issue bothering my heart. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend who loves me so much for 7yrs now(we've lived together for 2yrs ...

She's come back into my life, but she has a Bf. Should I tell her my feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (M) - Too make a long story short. A girl who ive really liked has come back into my life, I've liked her since 7th grade and that was 9 years ago. I'm a college junior now and a lot has changed from then, she is still amazing to me, when i first saw her ...

I've made it clear: monogamy is my preference. Am I over-reacting to his suggestion re a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Help my partner has told me he would participate in a threesome with me and another man if I ever wanted that . I told him that I would never ask for that and the fantasy is one thing but in real life a threesome is not something I'm interested in ...

What do I do ? Go back to a safe comfortable marriage with a kind man and be unhappy? Or try again with a new man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have been married for twenty years and although I love my husband there has never been the chemistry that I had before him in another relationships. Even at the beginning with my husband it wasn't there , yet I had been in previous relation...

I have a boyfriend but he doesn't know I am already married!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, im in totally mess right now, i hope you can help me more than i can help myself, im facing such a messy situation what can i do..My story goes this way, i had a boyfriend right now, we already knew each other for about a year i think ...

I'm gay, I am dating two women, who do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - hi i have a really bad problem i just met two women more less at the same time a couple of weeks ago. im a lesbian by the way and they both like me, im dating them both. i really like them both and no idea what one to choose at all. they both smoke ...

My heart is broken....I don't know how to fix this. Help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

22 July 2014 (F) - My husband asked me to fulfill a fantasy for him. He wanted me to have sex with another man and video it for he and I to watch later. I am not as open minded as him and it took me a while to process the idea and agree to it. We did it this ...

I'm driving myself insane with jealousy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - I'm driving myself insane with jealousy over the way my boyfriends family are with his ex girlfriend, but my friends say that the way they act isn't right and I have every right to be annoyed. It started at the beginning of the year when my boyfr...

Reconnected with my ex.... but does he prefer the girl he dated while we were apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - Silly question here.... I was with my boyfriend for 8 years and we broke up two years ago. I broke up with him for some various reasons that seem to have all been a big case of misunderstand now it seems. Miscommunications. We recently reconnec...

Should I take back my ex? He had casual fling during a brief split.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - OK, I am very confused. Me and my partner recently split up and just got back together, and I just found out by looking at his phone (bad I know but I had a gut feeling) that he was casually involved with another woman during the break. I know it's ...

I don't want him back but I know I have to arrange for him to be able to see our baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - I really need some advice on how best to deal with my boyfriend cheating on me and setting up some form of contact for our baby while I allow myself time to take it all in. My boyfriend of three years had cheated on me while I was pregnant, it was...

Boyfriend of one month lives with me and I pay the bills, ex boyfriend says he cant be with me but wants me to wait for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - So this is kind a long story that will lead to the question. Please give me some advise though. I am currently dating someone and have been for a month. Now my ex, who was made at the fact I was dating his friend or anyone for that matter, sai...

It's been 8 months since I last heard from my ex but I still can't get over how he hurt me...and now he's marrying his current G/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3786 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a while and I thought things were going well.. I guess I just fell for him too fast. I didn't sleep with him until 7 months later because I didn't want to just be used. I really thought he was different but things started ...

I feel the need to talk to him to see if there is anything there ....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3786 days ago

10 July 2014 (F) - i met this boy when I was in my senior year of high school and we really hit it off. It seemed like we were the perfect match for each other, until one day he told me he was moving away after that school year and he will be leaving the school. I ...

I cheated on my husband but cannot bring myself to confess and I feel so guilty all the time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - Hi, I got married in 2012. During the first few months of our marriage, my husband remained busy with his friends, he had very little time for me. He made love to me on rare occasions. Then, I began to hang around with my boss, like fiends. One...

Her ex crush is moving into or 8 person apartment!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

8 July 2014 (M) - Hey guys, I havent been on here in a while, but I figured it was a good time to ask a question that has been bugging me for a while. First, a little history: In August, I moved into my apartment (duplex, 4 people per side). I met my neigh...

Love triangle or 3 broken hearts?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F) - My fiancee and I have been having threesome's and I have been letting him sleep with other women. I don't really have a problem as long as I am involved... he doesn't feel comfortable letting me sleep with other men which is annoying and stressful ...

Steamy emails make me think I might be sharing her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (M) - so i found on a shared computer a open e mail account, i opened it and right from the top i saw several e mails to one man in a span of several hours. i stared to open them and read, wow, some very steamy ones. some written in a short story form and ...

How can I get out of this and save my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

7 July 2014 (F) - I desperately need advice! I have a male friend of many years. We have always been very close and share many mutual interests, we are a lot alike spiritually and have always understood each other even though he is of different nationality and ...

I thought we were in love, but then he confessed he loved another!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 July 2014 (F) - I sit here in pieces and in need of some words of comfort. I'll try and keep it as succinct as possible as there could be the potential to write a lot. Me and my boyfriend over two and a half years broke up tonight. He is in love with anothe...

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

6 July 2014 (F) - i would like to ask about my boyfriend of six years. he got another girl pregnant. i saw them dating through the pictures in facebook. i ask my boyfriend first but he refuse to answer. thats why i directly ask the girl. she said that my boyfriend is ...

Now I've got him why aren't I satisfied?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

4 July 2014 (F) - I've been having an affair with a married man for almost over 18 months now, he's been wed for about 6 weeks, has a 2-year-old son, and on Wednesday he announced he's leaving his wife for me. He said he'd told his wife "I'm leaving you, got a new ...

I'm in turmoil. I love my husband, so do I stay with him or move in with my lover?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

3 July 2014 (F) - I've been having an affair with a co-worker for the past 6 months behind my husband's back. I'll admit, our marriage has become a bit stale in the bedroom department, all my husband talks about is bills, paying the next bill, financial st...

Was she reasonable to accuse me of emotional cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

3 July 2014 (M) - Here we go on the merry-go-round once again. Our relationship started to go down hill. I had been married before, and I admit to cheating, so I vowed not to make that same mistake again. So when I met V, I took my time and listened, when she said...

My fiances sister is a great girl, but I don't want her living with us!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

2 July 2014 (F) - I understand that some of you may think I am purely being selfish but please try and understand what I'm saying.... Ok, so my fiancée and I got our own place last year. We had both saved to be able to buy our own place, and when we got engaged i...

Married co worker is giving mixed signals

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

2 July 2014 (F) - I'm 20 and about to start my last year of college. For the last two years, my major requires us to work in hospitals nearby. I worked at one hospital where I eventually started to like this man. He taught me everything I know. When i first m...

Two guys like me and I like them both back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3794 days ago

2 July 2014 (F) - Two guys really like me and I like them back. They are both great guys and I don't know which to choose. Both of them get me presents for which ever occasion it is. So I don't know which one to choose because they both asked me out....