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Archived questions from: August, 2013 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I have a HUGE crush on a co worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

31 August 2013 (M) - I am in a great relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for many years. My girlfriend is bisexual but I cannot admit to her that I am as well. At work, I really like this guy. He makes me laugh and makes me feel good when I see ...

My best friend is hanging out with my ex and lying to me about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

31 August 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up three months ago and right after this he moved away to another town where my "best" friend lives. He and I stayed in touch at first but were arguing a lot so have been in touch on and off for the past three months. We ...

Went on a group date and I'm afraid it blew my chance with the girl I'm interested in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - I don't understand my date.My date last night keep sending me messages 3 times in a row after the date. From morning, lunch and just now. I am not attracted to her the way she is into me. I can easily tell she is too much attracted to me. I wa...

He has a girlfriend but she's no good. How can I get him to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, There's a guy at my school my age. Our dads know each other so I know a bit about him. He has a g/f of 9 months. I've liked him for a year so I was gutted to find out he had a g/f. She's so horrid and flirts with his friends. We aren't r...

My partner is still tied to his family and I am a secret. Did I do the wrong thing by giving up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - I am divorced with two children and met another divorced man with three children, a couple of years after we were both divorced. My ex and I are amicable and have successful custody arrangements, although fairly traditional. My partner and his ex ...

Emotional affair that I'm having trouble getting over

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship and at this time I met another guy I had a crush on. Since it was just a crush, I never mentioned it to him and we became friends. The more we got to know each other, the more I realized he was recovering from a ...

Think he's a got a old crush to keep an eye on! Insecure and need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Hi guys! I have a great long term BF (4yrs) who treats me right, but I can’t help the fact that he really only makes friends with girls. He says his friendships are plutonic and harmless, but another girl has re-entered the picture who seems to ...

I'm confused by my partner's behavior during sex with other couple??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 August 2013 (M) - Dear qupid..... My woman and I started a swinging lifestyle. The first time we got together with a couple we had no problems.... Second time no issues there neither..... Third time was all bad.... We get...

What should I do with an old jealous ex I shared 6 years of my life with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - I dated my ex for a little over six years before I'd had enough of his pessimism and serious lack of a sex drive (believe me, I tried everything to keep him happy and satisfied). Honestly, there wasn't a lot of give and take involved. Clearly, he ...

Boyfriend's former friend-with-benefits talked to him. Should I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend used to have a friend with benefits. My boyfriend and I live together now. She broke it off with him. It's been about 5 years from the break up. The town is not large. So far they have kept their distance from each other. This woma...

What did they mean when they said we had 'history'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - What's it mean when a guy says we've has history I was out with my ex the other night and these 5 lads who I know started talking to me and when my ex asked who they were they all said we've had history I've done stuff with all of them just haven't ...

Do I keep boyfriend? Or stop dating him because I'm falling for someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - Hi all, I'm feeling really confused now and advice would really mean a lot to me. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year but I might be falling for someone else. Let's call him B. B knows that I'm attached. But we text all the time, to ...

I want to go no contact but I keep looking at her facebook pages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - I am trying to do the NC for 30 days. It's been hard 'cause eventhough I removed my ex- from my FB newsfeed; I still look into her profile and it affects me. I have never been a FB fan; but I did posted pictures of us when we were together. Now, ...

Worth trying? Or pointless? Do you think I can contact her and have coffee and try for the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - Thank you Aunts for your time reading my agony...My boyfriend of 2.5 years had a ' friend' that he met up with at her house unbeknownst to me over a year ago, i caught him there, he said they were just friends and were talking about a guy she was ...

Why is this old flame from the past still playing on my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - I have been with my partner for a over a year and a half, we're happy together and we're planning a future together now. So why can't I get my ex boyfriend out of my head? I had a few relationships in the past and don't give any of my other exes a ...

Any advice for swinging? I feel jealous of the rapport between my b/f and the female

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

23 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a few "swinging" encounters and we want to continue in the lifestyle. I enjoy being with other women without a doubt. Once I am in the heat of the moment I also enjoy being with other men. The problem is that the last ...

I've been involved with a guy from work who also has a girlfriend. Things were great but I feel like he's backing off. How can I keep him interested?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

22 August 2013 (F) - I've been seeing a guy from work for a while, i started there in April and I've had so much fun working with him and flirting away. We get on great! The flirting increased about two months ago and we started sending dirty texts and pics, which ...

I'm very concerned that my boyfriend is getting a female roommate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and I've always trusted him. I've known him for years and he was never a cheater with girls and was always well behaved. We've done long distance for the last few months and it's still ...

I feel very anxious and uncomfortable when my boyfriend's ex is around and even found myself reading his emails to her. Do I have a right to feel the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

21 August 2013 (F) - I have been dating my wonderful boyfriend for a little more than a year. We're both 24. He's my first boyfriend, and 99.9% of the time, I couldn't be happier with him. He literally is one of the most kind, considerate, old-fashioned, respectful ...

Trying to read guys and see what path I should walk down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - Ok so, Am very confused about guys actions and where I think everythign is going to be in the future (and I mean this time next year not 5 years from now) And just trying to read guys and see what path I should walk down. In my life right now I have ...

My husband has many close female friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

19 August 2013 (F) - I'am not the jealous type I'm very laid back and always tried to avoid drama by not hanging out with certain ppl. My husband got a lot of female friends he talked to form day to day I have not met them yet and they called him for advice all the ...

Can a man who is willing to cheat on his wife ever be faithful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

15 August 2013 (F) - Please help me. I have been married for 12 years. I love my husband like a dear friend, but I have never been in love with him. We have been to counseling and I have even told him that when we married I was in a bad place and I am not sure I ...

The girl I like fancies someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

15 August 2013 (M) - There is a girl I really like at work we are friendly and slightly flirty but she's completely besotted with this other guy. I hate it because this guy sits right in front I have to see her going up to him talking to him with him for ages and ...

I feel I'm addicted to having this married man with me, even though he proved to be a liar and a cheater. How can I snap myself out of this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

14 August 2013 (F) - 2 years ago I met a man whom I fell in love with. We started seeing each other until I found out he was actually married with children (his wife read his messages and contacted me). I was devastated and things ended right there. Since we live ...

My married man is too busy for me but I don't want to let him go!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - Im in love with a married guy, 6years older than me. He lives about a 5hour drive away from me and he comes once or twice a month to oversee his projects (he's a building contractor). Last weekend was a long weekend and we chilled from thurs to ...

I'm having trouble deciding between two guys.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

13 August 2013 (F) - I'm having trouble deciding between two guys. Maybe both are wrong for me, I don't know. Basically, one of the guys, I've had a very strange history with. I met him in college 5 years ago as acquaintances. His girlfriend was also an acquaintance. 3 ...

Drama with my guy friend and boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

10 August 2013 (F) - My best guy friend (who used to like me) kept asking me to hang out. My boyfriend wasn't comfortable with the idea so I told my best guy friend that I couldn't hang out with him, because my boyfriend is my priority. But the guy kept on persisting to ...

I need some threesome advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

9 August 2013 (F) - So my one of my bfs mates seemed to be coming on to me and when I was at the point of telling him to back off we ended up on the discussion of threesomes, my bf told him we had been looking for someone to do it with but had, had no luck. His mate ...

Why would he go through all that trouble just to ignore me at the last minute when he became serious with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

8 August 2013 (F) - Okay, so here's my situation. My first boyfriend of 5 years who is now my ex has a girlfriend. Him and I have known each other for 12 years. Our relationship has been an on and off thing because he always told me the same thing (I want to explore my ...

Flirty work colleague refuses to acknowledge my marriage.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

8 August 2013 (M) - Dear all, I request your advice on my situation. In a way it is silly. I am married and very happy about family life. I have this female friend at work whom I like very much. she is 10 year younger than me and is at the age to get married. We are g...

My mother-in-law always expects me to accept her offers to help and makes me feel guilty when I don't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

7 August 2013 (F) - My mother in law will offer help and then expect me to say yes... if not her feelings will get so hurt and blame me for being a bad daughter in law and not allowing her to see her son. Me and my husband and 2 kids have been moving around d...

Found my LDR Husband had considered playing around and now I can't move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

4 August 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been together for a year, separated by distance for 2 years and got married after and separated again for months now. As I opened his Facebook account because of the game we played thats why I know his password. I unin...

I feel such an enormous amount of guilt every time I so much as think of my ex that it overwhelms me entirely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

2 August 2013 (F) - Hi everyone! I'll try not to make this too lengthy - I have asked a number of questions when throughout my almost four years of a relationship that ended this April. My ex left to the other side of the world, and for the first time since moving i...

I have amazing chemistry with this girl but she won't break up with her new boyfriend. Is she just leading me on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

1 August 2013 (M) - I met a girl on odd string of events. I went out on the porch of my friends house that i now have taken up residence to chill with him while he smoked. Well i looked across the street to the house directly across and saw this cute girl i had noticed ...