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Drama with my guy friend and boyfriend

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Question - (10 August 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2013)
A female Pakistan age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My best guy friend (who used to like me) kept asking me to hang out. My boyfriend wasn't comfortable with the idea so I told my best guy friend that I couldn't hang out with him, because my boyfriend is my priority. But the guy kept on persisting to hang out and would comment on my photos. I stopped talking to him when I found out my boyfriend didn't like him, but when I told my boyfriend he was asking me to hang out, he sent the guy a text asking him to leave me alone.

Now, since I don't want any more trouble, I blocked my guy friend on facebook. Without telling said guy anything. Because my boyfriend asked me to block him. But this guy started calling up my female friends and asking them to tell me to tell my boyfriend to stay away from him.

I feel so guilty about cutting him off without a word. Should I call and explain things? Or just ignore him? Am I wrong for telling my boyfriend about the guy asking me to hang out?

I have no feelings for my guy friend, btw.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2013):

I think you did right telling him, however what he did was inappropriate and I think you should have explained the situation to your friend instead of blocking him without notice, that was a little bit rude. and your boyfriend overreacted.

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A female reader, sealover Syrian Arab Republic +, writes (10 August 2013):

I think you did the right thing!

He is not a friend any more, when he doesn't respect your relationship with your BF! Don't even think about for a sec...

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