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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

He became distant with me once he got engaged, how do I deal with being so upset over our lost friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - To be brief, a couple of years after my marriage, I met him 3 years ago. I instantly felt a strange a bonding and we began to talk. Don't make conclusions there! My marriage is happy, I am truthful and, he is now married happily too! I knew I r...

How do I mend my broken heart? I've been having an affair with a married man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - how do i mend my broken heart? Im a married woman and i have been involved with a married man for the past 5 years, i fell deeply in love with him he said he loved me too. I helped him pay off bills and have been there as much as i could. He is a ...

Should I pursue this beautiful girl who has a boyfriend? Wait and see what happens? Or run?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for a couple months. She is really nice and it seems like she likes me. The way she talks to me in person and when we text seems like she does. Its just really flirty.The thing is I did not start the flirting. She ...

Is it fine to casually date two women before choosing whom I want to be with? Does that make me a player?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - After a tough break up last year, I've been only getting out to start dating now. I met one lady at start of February, I've met her 4 other times now, even cooked her breakfast. I met another girl two weeks ago, that wouldn't work out. I met another ...

This is an Unwanted Love Triangle. How should I be reacting in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My good friend, C, introduced me to a guy friend of hers, M. Apparently M started liking me. He would ask me out almost every week to hang out. I just go with the flow and went with him. Unknowingly, it seems that C likes M. I had that feeli...

How to fix this after the cheater was cheated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) - Well, let's start it this way. I met this girl nearly half a year ago, and when I we started an official boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for nearly 4 months already. We have always been in a long distance relationship since the start, and I k...

I've fallen in love with another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Did it turn out how you wanted Or were you left with regrets? Did you the love the person more than your spouse? What happened and how did things turn out? I fell inlove with another man and its not infatuation i belive I love him. My husband is a ...

Should I jump ship for my old high school crush?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for the past 8yrs and we have been through a lot. He is also 7 years older. i know im not the pretty young thing like i used to be but things feel like their going nowhere. No more spark. not much conversation. not too ...

Can't pick between two guys that I love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I'm really confused and I need someone's help I been seen two guys just recently with the new one but I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 n half years now we have been off in on.. Been throw hell and back and between this time we had two ...

He claims they are just friends but he has told me she is prettier than me, should he stop seeing her and stop texting her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Dear all, I am in a serious relationship for a year now. 3 years ago in 2009 I broke up with my ex and was very depressed. During that time I even had to see a councillor. And he advised me on what I should have in mind for my next bf. that year, I ...

I met someone else, so how do I let him down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I met this guy towards the end of last year but then we stopped talking, it just fizzled out. But about two weeks ago he contacted me again and we have been flirting and planning to go out with each other sometime. The thing is, I met this guy but I ...

He's leaving his girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I've been hanging out with a co-worker friend of mine who is a guy 2 months ago. And we've got very attached to eachother, but the thing is that he has a girlfriend and a child with her. His girlfriend is bipolar with a very bad temper. He's told ...

LDR b/f coming to see me but I've been seeing another guy every night. Should I tell b/f or take break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I had this guy in my life for 6 years. We always had a little connection, and as we got closer that connection grew deeper. So in December, we hit a new point. We decided to become exclusive and get serious. Anyway, time goes by and we kind of d...

I've broken off contact with a married coworker, but wonder if I should reply to her notes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) - we are coworker (college friends) and she is married, i love her truely from the heart still i think about her 24hrs may be she will talk to my like a close good friend (not expected kisses etc) but close friendship as she earlier have with me . ...

I don't want to leave my husband but I feel unhappy and unfulfilled due to my feelings for my friend.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I'm a married mother of one and I'm struggling with my feelings for someone I work with. When he first started at my work, I didn't talk to him much. I thought he was ok looking, kind of my type but I wasnt really interested. I knew he had a gi...

Could my baby look like my lover?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - If a woman is pregnant and sleeps with another man can the baby have features of the man who is not the father?...

I need to tactfully deal with this situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I have known this woman for a few years as our kids attend the same pre-school and school. During pre-school this woman would never give me the time of day or even acknowledge me ( I didnt really care ) Then 2 years later our children start...

What's his deal? He got cold feet and decided he wanted both me and the other girl. Is he commitment phobic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - I was dating this total sweetheart. He seemed to be everything I ever wanted in a guy and then some. However, we broke up a few months ago. He began dating another girl immediately but kept in contact with me, and eventually dumped the other girl so ...

I'm always there for him but he doesn't want me as a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - HI I used like to this guy and I told him when I told him he never told me if he likes me or not. Then a month later he rings me up and tells me that he likes soem girl for a year and half, this girls feels the same but she not ready to move on. He ...

Why didnt my husband back me up and come with me to the police station to lodge a complaint against his ex affair partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Long story short, my husband had an affair with an aquaintance whom we barely knew for 3 months, she is a friend of a friend and lives with her fiance and their son, i have asked for advice previously but i couldnt find the link. I basically fo...

I love him madly. But he's starting to behave in ways that suggest I will get hurt. What are my options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: out of compassion text speak was corrected. However the level of Text Speak orginally was more than is usual. Please next time - less Text speak? Hi everyone. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 7 months now and I have known hi...

The new guy has made me question the last 7 years of my life. What do I do about my B/f now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - How can I leave? This is such a long story so I'll try give you short version. I want to start off by saying he is a good guy and with the right girl he could make her happy. We've been together for 14 years. I got pregnet with our...

I'd jeopardize my actual relationship if I allowed this infatuation to take hold. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I am almost 22 and I have a boyfriend and I know he loves me, he is so kind and sweet and caring and we have been going out for over a year or so. But about April last year, I met this man one day, and he was fascinating and charming and I have n...

I know I've done wrong! But how can I fix it? I still love my ex too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

19 February 2012 (M) - Okay well for a start im the Darth Vader, Joker or Lex Luther of this whole thing! I was with a girl for 2 and a half years , She was very pretty typical blond petite girl, i was clearly under the thumb! Doing everything for her! we had our brea...

Complicated situation I got myself in! Two guys now - but which or how do I pick?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I am 33yrs old. My boyfriend is 20yrs old. When we first met, he thought I was younger (I look 23) and I thought he was older. When I found out his age I told him he was too young. But he was convinced I was "The One" and he followed me all over the ...

B/f is dating 2 of us at the same time. He says he's just "pretending" to date her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I'v been dating a guy almost a month now, recently, he told me that he was dating a different girl and he's doing that to please her he disclosed to me that im the one he loves even though he's pretending to be dating her. Should i believe him? I ...

I cant believe my B/f has been talking to this girl behind my back, even though he promised he would have nothing to do with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and at the start of our relationship, he was receiving texts from a girl he used to fancy before we got together (the same girl that actually delayed us getting together). Igot upset when I found ...

Three is a crowd!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

18 February 2012 (M) - Hey everyone I have a very complicated problem. There is this girl that I have relly liked for a long time and I'm kinda sure she likes me too. The only reason I haven't asked her out yet is each time im about to I freak out to much about her saying ...

My college lover: Should I continue with him or cut all ties?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

18 February 2012 (F) - i am in college; A guy and I has been on and off friends for about 2 years, during that time we have had intercourse and also tried become more than friend. During one of our periods of being apart he got into a relationship, but his girlfriend ...

My fiancé's ex wife still has some kind of power over him, she pisses me off with her ways and I hate the way she takes advantage of him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - I´m engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. We have known each other for alomost 12 years, been best friends and have been together for 8 months. They were married for 19 years with no kids. They aren't divorced yet but seperated. Divorce ...

Should I just see who I like more or should I tell my friends to stop trying to hook me up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - Hello! I'm a 15 year old girl in highschool :) I like these two boys and I don't know who I like more. My friend is trying to hook me up with this boy in my 3rd block class and my other friend is trying to hook me up with my friend that I've kno...

How can she love us both equally?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

17 February 2012 (M) - If a women says she can't choose between 2 Men because she says she's in love with both so when I got out of my relationship and told her 2 Make a choice the other guy is her fiancé so she got so upset that she couldn't go 2 work for over a week she ...

Why is it when you're not looking for someone, you find them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - Why is it when you're not looking for someone, you find them? I had this guy. We have a rich history and have been building up to a relationship for the past 6 months. I love him so much, if not as my bf, as a friend. I think he's the most beautif...

How can I identify and where can I meet women who will not cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M) - I am 23 and I have only had one girl friend who broke my heart, the reason why I dont date a lot is mainly because of that and I am slighty shy around the oppsite sex. Anyways here is my Question where can I meet women who will not cheat on me?...

One For Love & One For Money....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - Okay......In a pickle. I have been dating a guy for 8 months and he's great...but...we have very different approaches to life. He is just getting back on his feet and really can't afford much of anything! I have financially been carrying our ...

Simple question, who would you choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - Simple question - who would you choose? Person 1- lets call him Froddo. So i have fancied 'Froddo' since year 8 (age 12-13 for others) (im in year 11 now - age 16-17) and we fell out a few times, but we always made up. He's a lovely guy. Rece...

7 weeks pregnant, two guys involved, not sure what to do, which one to chose

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - im currently 7 weeks pregant and involved with two guys who i think the world of that im seeing, i know it s wrong i just can't help it, I know who most likely the father is and that guy i have literally known a month. Hes indian and not got a br...

Juggling 2 guys, neither knows about the other. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4663 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I have know this guy for 13 years and we both know we are ment to be but I had to move away when I was young....he comes to visit me and we talk all the time we are best friends....the thing is I am dating someone and he wants to buy me a house and ...

Am I being a snob by feeling slightly offended for having to share a guy with someone like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - This guy and I are in the "talking" stage and he is also talking to another girl. This doesn't bother me as we both agreed in the beginning that we just want something casual and fun, since I will be leaving to go to graduate school out of the ...

Should I leave my boyfriend for a guy who I still have feelings for but it never worked out in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Hello:) I'm having trouble with relationships. I was going out with this guy a few years ago, lets call him 'Mat' then I started hanging round with a new friendship group and pretty much fell in love with someone in the group. I didn't do anyth...

Is he more than just friends with his flatmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4663 days ago

14 February 2012 (M) - So I am facing a major dilemma. I am a gay male, but that shouldn't really matter as that has nothing to do with it. I can use the opinion and advice of anyone. So around August, I met this wonderful man on a social internet site (not facebook.) We ...

Confusion between current and ex boy friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - Hi all, Im in a very terrible situation.Let me come to the point.My ex hurt me so badly that i decided to break up with him and he also accepted it and we were not in contact for almost 6 months.In the mean time,one of my colleagues loved...

How do I be fair to my new guy? And get over my ex, but not lead-on the new guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - I'm nowhere near ready to date again. I'm still mourning the loss of this relationship (7 weeks of panic attacks and seperation anxiety--yes, I'm getting clinical help). Last Wednesday someone came back into my life out of the blue after a year of ...

Why is this woman appearing and disappearing from his facebook page?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - I'm not really worried about this, but i'm curious about it. I have been dating someone for a few weeks now. After the night we first met, we kept intouch on facebook. I noticed that a woman had left a comment on his page saying " Hey, still on ...

Is it reasonable to be angry about this behaviour from the baby-father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - Okay so I have a one month old baby. Me and the father were debating on getting back together and becoming a family when out of nowhere he texts me and says my son is about to have a little sister. The other woman only has 4 months to go until ...

Should I contact my ex, who hurt me or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - I'm curious if any men out there ever wished they could get their ex back after leaving them for someone else and then a yr. or so later realized you had made a huge mistake or the one you hooked up with ended up dumping you? Were you too much of ...

I feel so guilty for missing my ex and wishing I was with him. What can I do? It feels wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

11 February 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have no idea what to do, I have a boyfriend who I love and I see when I'm at school. But also I see my ex everyday at school. I think I still have feelings for my ex, I don't know if they're love or just miss how we were, since ...

How do I become close to a girl who is in a relationship with another? Should I?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

11 February 2012 (M) - What should i do in order to win the heart of a girl who is in a relationship, even though i might not be able to see her often because of her studies? how do i become very close to her?...

He says this other girl has a crush on him. Can I trust him, that it's normal for this to happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F) - my bf says theres a girl who likes him, and i asked him if he liked her back. he said yes, as a crush. i got upset and said 'so basically youre close to loving her, you like her a lot more than a friend' he said no, that he just likes her, but not...

My past is haunting me. Who DO I love really?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 February 2012 (F) - Hey,well im 17 and im feel very lost right now.well heres my story I used to date a guy about 2 years ago "yes i know young" but the problem is now im dating a NEW guy He's like everything a girl could ask for. He treats me like no other guy can...