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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I think he is waiting for the right opportunity to leave me, as we own a property together. What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I have been married 7 years, my husband is 11 years younger than me, he suddenly is rejecting me and talks secretly to his ex wife, the mother of his 2 kids. His sister is best friends with his ex and always wanted them back together, and she hates ...

I don't want to force him to break up with her, but I can't be involved with him while he is dating her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I recently met this guy at my school about a month ago. He is a year older than me. I first found out about him through my parents - he is their co op student this semester and my mom was always asking if i knew him. i looked him up in my yearbook ...

Her ex boyfriend called her. She is trying to re-assure me, but I don't know if there is more going on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - Hi guys, Ive been seeing my girlfreind for about a year now, and a few months back her Ex boyfreind called her up out of the blue and asked her if she was still single. She was with this guy for 4 years, and it ended on good terms she said. So, I ...

My friend's boyfriend likes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i like this boy alot and he lkes me back alot he even carved my name on his arm!!!=0 but heres the thing he has a girlfriend man!! and shes mai bestfriend he ganna break up wit her n he said hes going to ask me out!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

He wont have sex with me should I seek it elsewhere?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and we used to have sex a few days out the week if not everyday but now ill be lucky if i get it once a month sex or any type of affection and we have been arguing alot but still im not feeling loved im ...

Help-how do we stop his past fling from pestering us now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i just found out my husband had a short affair with a co-worker that was black mailing him i want to forgive him and we both want to move on with our 10 year marriage im scared and i don't know how to let go of all the crazy thoughts in my mind ...

Am I being paranoid because of his previous betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Ok to cut a long story short my husband cheated on me once before and I forgave him. Its not been easy and I do not want any advice on something I want to forget. I just need to know if I am now paranoid or have the right to be worried. We w...

It is getting harder and harder for me to watch this "love rectangle" go on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - As my friend Ashley said this instead of a love triangle this is a love rectangle: Kate is my best and roommate. On her boyfriend of five years, Tim's 21st birthday another one of our friends, Dave, told her that he was falling in love with her...

She's been dating someone for 6 months already, but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I've had a crush with this girl for 3 years in high school since my sophomore year. We both have several classes together during the 1st year and our chemistry developed pretty fast. We often glanced at each other but we both turned away abruptly as ...

Am I being unfair if left my long term GF in the middle of all these trials in her life? I'm in love with another woman, who is married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm really torturing my mind now and I do not know how to move-on quickly and forget all this emotional pain that I'm experiencing. I have two (2) concerns. 1. I'm in a relationship right now with my girlfriend and we are already 10...

What can I do to make him trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My partner and I are going through some tough things. We've been dating since Sept 2006 and I did wrong to him. I always said I would never cheat on him n I did. I kissed his best friend and talked to another guy behind his back. We weren't a couple ...

I was happy sleeping with other men to please my husband, but he doesn't want me to anymore.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - after we had been married about five years, my husband told me he wanted me to have sex with other men and he wanted to watch. i told him i didn't want to, but he begged and begged me to do this and i finally told him i would. he brought home a ...

Bi and confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I am a 16 year old guy who is Bi. I have a Girlfriend and i have recently started seeing this guy. I dont know what to do, i know i am cheating before anyone says it, and i know i am a horrible person. But what should i do. I am very confused...

I really like this guy in school and he likes me too but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - dear cupid I like this guy at my school but he has a girlfriend and he flirts with me, we hang around with each other but when he's with his girlfriend he turns to me and smiles, how do I know if he likes me the same way as I like him. p.s his...

Who do I choose? My ex or my new lover. The problem is the new lover, he is 15 years younger

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - 3 months ago I ended a 19 year relationship. For most of the 19 years I felt as if I should be grateful that my partner stuck around. He told me in various ways that I was not the type of woman he would have chosen (I was the hunter). I gave ...

Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting ...

I think I might have over reacted, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend (of 11 months) yesterday. I went through his cell phone (something that I really hate and very unlike me) and found msgs to other girls. I found the same type of msgs in January and confronted him about it. He said he ...

Tell me, why would they get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - my sex partner has a babymom that comes to his house on the weekend. his son is 11 years old witch he loves and will do anything for.on the other hand he is involve with a younger lady which he loves to make LOVE to, he seems to care about the ...

Should I say goodbye to him or take a leap of faith and tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Right, I have been what I think is friends with benefits (A)with someone for nearly 4 years. I really really like them. However, after getting sick of teh arrangement I went out and got myslef a really nice guy, really solid would do anything for ...

Me and my best friend both fancy the same guy!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I really fancy this guy , I mean I really do ... but my best friend fancies him too, I want to ask him out but I don't wanna ruin mine and her relationship. Please help!!! Thanks, Love becka....

I ended my affair with the family friend but he still pursues me! I'm afraid our infidelity will come out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) - I cheated on my husband with a family friend. Husband does not know.I broke it off, but he won't let me be. He is persuing the family friendship in an effort to stay close to me. He doesn't care whether our spouses find out. We each have three kids. ...

He calls me all the time, is he into me or his baby mama?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - So I know this guy who tells this girl that they are just friends, yet he treats her as his girlfriend. She has known him 3 years and they recently had a baby together. He said that she told him that she loved him and he told her he did too as a ...

Her ex is possesive and live-in... What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I'm in a bit of a pickle, here, and I am looking for maybe some advice. I met this wonderful girl, she's extremely attractive, and we both like the aspects of eachother we believe are our most prominent. We make eachother laugh, and she is very ...

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I have been with my girl friend almost 2yrs. This has been my best relationship no arguing no fights. So far the only beef we have had has been about her going with a male friend to the mall, which I felt was bullshit, seemed like a date to me. So ...

Is my guy gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hi i really need some good advice, Ive been dating a good friend, we have been on and off for a year, nothing serious but decided 3 months ago to make a proper go of it, we get on so well and really enjoy each others company, we split up last week ...

My mother is hanging out with this guy all the time... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - My mother hangs out with this guy all the time and my dad doesn't relly mind a lot.But i swear they are more than just friends.Like yesterday when i walked through the door they were hugging but when i walked in they walked away like nothing ...

Did she sleep with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Hi, About two years ago my girlfriend cheated on with with her friend from London, over about 3 months. My g/f says it never went any further than kissing all the time they were together, but i have a feeling that sex was involved. The...

He's too attached to his ex, should I break up with him over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Hi, Just need some advice on what to do. I've had been in a long distance relationship for about four years. The problem is that my bf had never stopped talking with his ex nor had he talk her that he is in a relationship with me. They are not ...

My work colleague often watches me and I recently got caught in a lingering gaze with her. Could she be attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I have a colleague at work and am getting very confused by her actions. We are both women of the same age she is single and I am attatched. I really like her and have done for months. She is in charge of the department where i work but is not ...

My wife says she thinks about the man she had an emotional affair with, when we are together. I feel used!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I am married fo 8 years and was a virgin when I married, My wife also said that even though she had affairs there was no physical etc. Now after 8 years she says that she thinks about the guy and his physical when she is physical with me and her ...

Husband doesn't mind that I gor physical with a friend but not sure about my own feelings about it..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - What are your opinions on this. My husband and I are both pretty traditional, but due to strange events, and alcohol we were with an intimate group of friends and become intimate with one of the women. She is close, and in need right now, both our ...

After 6 months of dating this girl he still has feelings for me but I don't know what to do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - see there is this boy and we had a "thing" for about a year in a half. we never offically dated but we had really strong feelings for each other and it got to a point where we told each other we loved one another which i believe we really do. well ...

What do I do about the married man I have been seeing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I had went out with a friend one night and a guy approached me and started talking to me...i kept seeing the guy in the same place that we have met, and then come to find out he was married and has been with his wife for 10 years...I TRULY LOVE ...

Is my wife attracted to her best friend who is male?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I want to know if my wife is attracted to her best friend who is male? They have been friends for awhile know and I didn't really think anything of there relationship till we got drunk one night. All her attention was on him all night and they even ...

I want to lose my virginity to him but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - hey... im 14 and still a virgin... im scared to loose my virginity but my mate says its fine... i really want to do it with this lad who i no... hes told me he wants to do it aswell but hes with another girl... i know that people say when your 14 ...

Is he stringing me along or really sorting out "issues" with the mother of his kid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - I met a man whom i feel madly inlove with and for a while i thought he loved me too.Our problem is that he's still seeing the mother of his six yr old son.He told me that he is willing to break it up with her so we can have a proper relationship.But ...

Problems in my polyamorous relationship with one partner. I need advice.

This question has 56 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Hi can anyone help me? Im in a polyamory relationship, but my one partner is driving me to dispair. He thinks that because i were with him 1st he should take priority over my other lover. His jelousy is pushing us apart not bringing us clos...

Time to end the fling with the married man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for 2and a half months and things started off really well and he used to pay me so much attention but recently, things have just gone downhill he hardly calls or makes any effort to stay in touch. Although ...

I don't want her bf to be pissed at me if she does break up with him to be with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - Im interested in my freind, it could potentially be serious we know each other very well and i know she feels the same about me, however thats not the problem. she has a boyfriend and i know him, he's a pretty chill guy. i don't want to tell her how ...

How do I tell if she's interested? And how do I find out the real story with her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

24 May 2008 (M) - I recently started a new job and have fallen for one of my new workmates. The problem is she has a boyfriend and I can't work out how serious they are and/or if she is interested in me. We only work together for an hour or so each day, but during ...

Help, I do not want to be part of a love triangle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I need urgent help on this question....There is this lad and he has a girlfriend how is also a friend of mine, but lately he has been flirting with me loads and some of my friends have commented and said oh I think he fancies you and im like how can ...

I am bi curious and want to explore this side of my sexuality that my BF supports. How should I approach the girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - Hello! I'm 20 and live in [...] with my fiance and i'm bi curious....where do I find girls that I can have a physical relationship with (not so emotional) and how do I go about approching them? My fiance supports me in being bi-curious ...

I'm married, so how do I supress the feelings for another man? Is becoming friends an option?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I am happily married for nearly a year with my partner of almost 12 years and I love him lots. I am worried about the feelings I started to get for a guy at work. I am almost certain that this is just an infatuation but I feel so bad about this, ...

The magic has gone in my relationship, it seems. Recently I keep thinking about another guy, what should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

24 May 2008 (M) - omg please will someone help me, i really need some advise, so please please please ! read this for me, thank you. ok so ive been going out with this guy for nearly two years (he is 21, i'm 19) and although we had a rough start in the relationship...

He moved on but says he loves me. Should I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I've been on and off with my boyfriend for 4 years we've had are ups and downs but we've always seemed to reconnect...weve always found time to call and still tell each other how much in love we both are...He expressed to me months ago that he ...

Who should I choose, Boy 1 or Boy 2?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - I’ve got myself in a big muddle and I need some advice! OK, so boy no.1 is my bf at the moment. We've been together for two years and its been great, but he just feels more like a best friend to me now. I don’t love him in a "romantic" way anymore. ...

Is it possible to get her off my mind without having sex with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I've been attracted to this woman at work for quite awhile, and things have escalated between us but we haven't even kissed yet; we're both married. Is it possible to get her off my mind without having sex with her? We both want to but so far we ...

I broke up and now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I need help ! I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago.. he was such a great person but things between me and his mom went wrong and i couldnt take it anymore.. He kept begging for me back but I just couldn't stand his mom and I kept refusing.. ...

I'm flirting with disaster. How do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I have had a crush on a man who is off limits for about 2 1/2 years. I'm in a relationship thats been going on for almost 10 years and I have never had a crush like this. This guy is in our group of friends and a good friend of my boyfrien...

I'm feel like I am living in a lie because I want to be with some one else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - I am very troubled. Everyday I pretend to be happy, I feel like I am living a lie. I've been with this man for 5 years and we have 2 kids together. I was 16 when I had my first child and 19 when I had my second. We only knew e/o for 3 months and ...