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writes:Im interested in my freind, it could potentially be serious we know each other very well and i know she feels the same about me, however thats not the problem. she has a boyfriend and i know him, he's a pretty chill guy. i don't want to tell her how i feel because i don't want her to break up with him to get with me, but i've been noticing that we flirt with each other quite a bit, very subtle though. my problem is that i don't want her boyfriend who is also my friend to be pissed if she breaks up with him to get with me.i don't really have a question just seeking some advice, i would really appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Good answer from a Mr. Peter Pan.
Good Luck.
I hope it all works out well for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea that's basically what i've been thinking as well just wanted to reassure myself, thanks
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (25 May 2008):
 You know, even if she broke up with this friend of yours right now, I still wouldn't date her (at least publicly) until some time past... and I'm thinking a few months. It's not cool to (a) date your buddy's ex-GF and (b) do it without him saying it's cool... So, if they break up (and you've got nothing to do with it or at least nothing that can be traced back to you), I'd still play it cool and not be publicly seen together because it will put your friendship to the test... and depending on the breakup, he might be cool with it or not...
That's the best I can do... hope that helped a little...
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