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Archived questions from: April, 2005 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex and I still live together, and he's keeping me from moving on with my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7149 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - hi there, I really need advice on my current and ongoing problem. I am a gay male and have been living with my ex boyfriend since October 2004. We split up on New Year but are still living together. I'm so unhappy, as all we ever do is argue an...

My new b/f's ex is still in the picture. Am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7148 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I am with my new boyfriend which I have been with for 10 months. He came out of a five-year relationship and he still talks to his ex. He says that there is nothing going on, but yet he keeps things from me like when he borrows money off her. A...

Tracking down my old love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I got some addresses from the internet because I'm trying to locate my mum's old best friends daughter, who I used to be in love with. But I am not sure whether I should visit these addresses and ask face to face if they know this person or w...

I want my one-night-stand guy back... but my current bf and I have a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7153 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid... Two years ago, my boyfriend of one year broke up with me. I moved on and had a one night stand while I was on vacation.(4 hours away) The one night stand turned into a relationship that ended without a word. A month later, my ex and I...

Three years later and I think I still have feelings for her. Do I contact her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7147 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - I think I still have feeling for my ex girlfriend. We broke up 3 years ago. I recently found her email address; should I contact her?...

Though he told me he missed me and wanted to try again, it's me that does all the chasing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7148 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - I was with my ex for 9 months and we were so happy together. He moved in with me and my family, and nothing could have been better. We then started to argue about silly things constantly. Then we would make up and our love seemed to be much str...

Because all I can think of is my ex, I can't seem to move on with my new boyfriend...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I was with my ex bf for 4 years on and off. I was in love with him. He was my first love. We split up a few times and saw other people in between but we always came back to one another. We got engaged and 6 months later we split up. Sixmon...

The break up was my fault, and I want to leave him alone, but wish I could talk to him again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I have been dating a guy for a while and we recently split up. It was my fault, I admit, and he wishes never to speak to me again. I can't stop thinking about him, though. I think I was falling in love with him. I want to respect his wishes a...

I can't avoid my ex-husband, but I want us to be able to exist "amicably".

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7141 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, Over a decade ago, my ex-husband and I divorced. It was a hurtful divorce. I was able to move on, however, he is related to my brother in law, which means he is active in my sister and brother in laws life. I am extremely close to my si...

An old flame... Can I find out what's on his mind without being too forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7126 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - This is a weird one, hope it's not too long with the background info... There's this guy that I've known for years. We worked together for 1 1/2 years and shared a fling (although we never meet outside of work) - he was in a relationship at the t...

My ex flirts with me, and with other girls too... It's hard to tell if he still has feelings for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7107 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - Does he still have feelings for me?? Should I talk to him about it, or will that ruin the friendship we have?? so heres the thing, I went out with my ex for about a year. I have known him since I was 5, so we have been friends for a long time. We...

His ex-girlfriend manipulates him with their kids and I hate it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - MY BOYFRIEND HAS AN EX GIRLFRIEND THAT WILL ALWAYS BE IN HIS LIFE DUE TO THEIR 2 CHILDREN. HIS EX GIRLFRIEND ALWAYS HAS A PROBLEM. LAST WEEK IT WAS HER HEALTH, THIS WEEK IT IS HER CAR. I DO NOT THINK HE SHOULD WORK ON HER CAR BUT HE THINKS THAT AFF...

Want to be a friend to my good mate, but I also want to date his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7153 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - My mate has just had a break up which he found really difficult and I try to comfort him but all the time I keep thinking about how much I want to go out with his ex girlfriend. What can I do to get the girl and not lose my mate? What if I ask her ...

He split with me and moved overseas... He didn't even come collect his stuff!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7160 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I split up from my fiance after 5 years in January 05. We were so close and I know for certain there was no one else. I tried to play hard to get so I nver contacted him for 2 months. All his belongings are still at my house so I always thought ...

Still love my ex...and it seems we have 'joint custody' of our dog...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7161 days ago

18 April 2005 (?) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 years. We broke up a year ago but we are still in regular contact. We bought a puppy together at the end of our relationship to try to mend it but obviously it didnt work! He had a problem with committment and didn...

How do I get past this awkward post-breakup stage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7162 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - I was having an affair with a man who lives in the same village as me. It's over now. We used to talk before it all happened, now people have noticed that we don't really talk to each other when we are in the pub or shop. I just want him to act n...

The ex is cheating on his g/f with me. She knows, but she still keeps taking him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7148 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - Can't stop having wild sex with ex. We split 3 years ago due to his cheating. He also has a drink problem but always meet up. He comes back every couple of weeks and have amazing sex. He now lives with someone, has done since last year but still ...

She cheated when we were together... but I just can't get over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7161 days ago

16 April 2005 (?) - I am having some problems getting over my ex girlfriend, most people would say this is natural but its been a year since we split up. Previously we had been going out for about 3 years on and off, and she did cheat on me a few times (some of these...

Just can't stand the way my bf's ex is so touchy-feely with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7134 days ago

15 April 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. The only problem is his ex-girlfriend. I cant stand her and she feels the same about me. They were together for five years and I feel like I just can't compete. Whenever I bring it up with my ...

We've broken up twice before, but I'm in love with my ex again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7164 days ago

15 April 2005 (?) - I broke up with my ex a year and a half ago. This was the second time we have been together. He was my first love and I was his. After our first break up we didn't talk for a long time, and when we did eventually start talking we got together...

I love her so much, but she thinks I'm "too good" for her and that I'll leave when I realise it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7165 days ago

14 April 2005 (?) - Dear cupid: I've been dating a girl for going on a month now. We hit it off great. We have so much in common, like our sense of humor, things we want in life, etc. I've definitely fallen for her. She says she's fallen for me too. Now, here...

I try to move on with my life, but I feel like I should wait for my ex to come back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7165 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - Hello, I split up with my boyfriend of five years, a year ago and i am still deeply in love with him. He is with someone else now and has moved in with her and I am with someone else too who I care for very much but I'm not sure I am in love with ...

I have a lunch date with my ex, but I can't help wondering if she wants to get back together...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - Hello, About 4 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of two years. Recently she called me to talk as she was stressed about something. While we were talking she told me about a guy she is dating and she said it was not serious and they don't t...

Mom says he'll deceive me again, but I want to give him a second chance...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7167 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - Me and this guy was going out, and I broke up with him cause I knew he was keeping something from me. So after we broke it off we didn't talk for the longest time, then we saw each other in a store and we kinda locked eyes (it was really weird) s...

Maybe he'll want me back if I change, but in the meantime I'm "not what he wants"...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

11 April 2005 (?) - One month ago I was dumped. He told me I wasn't what he wanted anymore. We were best friends, done most things together and I know we both loved each other inside out. A couple of months ago things changed. He wanted to go out every Saturday...

It's been a year and I still cry myself to sleep. How do I forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

11 April 2005 (?) - I'm 13 years old and I'm in love. I'm a gay boy and I know that for a fact I'm not just going through puberty. Anyway I'm in love and I'm curious on how to get over him because I've been crying myself to sleep for nearly a year now and it shows no...

Girls just don't thrill me the way they used to, not since I got dumped!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7167 days ago

9 April 2005 (?) - HI, I got dumped by someone I really liked over a year ago and I'm over it now but I don't care about any of the girls I see anymore! I've had flings with lots of girls, all of them I was attracted to but when it comes down to it I just can't com...

My fiance's ex interferes with our lives and I don't know if I can cope!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - Hi, my fiance is still not divorced from his ex wife. She has clinical depression and had an affair on him, that's why they split up. Every week she texts him as though they still speak. She continually gives him a hard time about the children...

Got pregnant, had an abortion... but since I told him, he hasn't contacted me once.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7171 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - I started going out with this man from work last February. I knew that he was living with another woman with whom he was not married and that they had a son together but they were no longer living as a couple as they could not get along or ...

My ex says he doesn't love his new girlfriend, but what am I supposed to do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7118 days ago

7 April 2005 (?) - I'm having problems with my ex-boyfriend, Ben. We split about 3 weeks ago. Now he is with my friend, Tasha. I want to go and see him but I am scared in case Tasha is there and suspects things. Ben told me he don't love Tasha and wants me back. Wh...

Is my ex just putting on a friendly face, or is he interested in getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7174 days ago

5 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend decided to end our relationship in February because he said I'm too controlling. I tried to talk to him but he was just not interested. I eventually decided to also keep quiet, and then 3 weeks back, he started sending me emails. Each d...

Can't help myself being a bitch with great new guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7174 days ago

5 April 2005 (?) - Please can someone tell me whats wrong with me?!? 8 months ago I was dumped over the telephone by my b/f of 18 months. At the time I was devastated, believing he was 'the one'(obviously I realise now he wasn't!), but over time have realised it...

Our feelings weren't shared and she has a new boyfriend, but I can't stand to see them together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7171 days ago

4 April 2005 (?) - I met a girl over the summer. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. We never officialy dated, but we knew we were. I "think" I fell in love, but towards Christmas our relationship started getting more physical. We never had sex or ...

In September he asked me to marry him, now we're not together at all...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7175 days ago

3 April 2005 (?) - Hello, I recently posted a question but I am still confused. My boyfriend left me about 7 weeks ago now. He hasn't given any explanation but I'm sure there is no one else involved. His uncle died 2 years ago, a month later his dad died, 6 months l...

We agreed to be "just friends", but she's now telling me she has a blind date and I don't know how to respond...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7177 days ago

3 April 2005 (?) - Sue and I split in the first of the year. The split due in large part to an addiction problem. She stayed throughout the recovery process, only to leave (due to emotional fatigue) 9 mths later. Since then, we have rekindled a 3 month friendsh...

Should I tell his new partner he's cheating with me? Will I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7177 days ago

2 April 2005 (?) - Need advice: lived with partner for 19 years, found out he was cheating, split with him but tried to work things out. We still had sex anyway, this is now 3 years on, and up till Feb we were still having sex, although he has new partner that he ...