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writes: Does he still have feelings for me?? Should I talk to him about it, or will that ruin the friendship we have?? so heres the thing, I went out with my ex for about a year. I have known him since I was 5, so we have been friends for a long time. Well while we were going out, it was a lot like we were just friends still. But, in the last few months we started holding hands, but thats about it. Then one week he started acting really weird and he broke up with me. THROUGH EMAIL! so I was obviously really upset. I didnt see him for about a month, and I was doing pretty good. I thought I was over him, but then I saw him for a few minutes one day. That day wasnt very great for me, but then I saw him again a few days later, for almost the whole day, and it was fine. I was doing great UNTIL I started noticing that he was making a lot of eye contact with me. He was flirting with me too, but that didnt bother me as much because that is just his personality. When we were going out, he would flirt with other girls, and before we were going out he would flirt with lots of girls. Its just how he relates to girls. So anyways, I dont know if Im just being paranoid because I still have feelings for him, or if I am just noticing what is really going on. I want to talk to him about it, but Im afraid that it would make it weird to be friends with him anymore. thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2005): The relationship you had don't seem that romantic...It seems like he likes you a little bit I think you should stay friends with him for a little while still, if he really likes you he'll commit to you that he wants to give it another chance and you can think about it cause i dont think you wanna go through the same thing all over again..i know how you feel i told my ex i still had feelings for him b-cuz he flirted with me a lot and i thought he had the same feeling for me but guess what?...he didnt it ruined our friendship..we dont talk any more..I think you should wait awhile and see how it goes!.....~GOOD LUCK!~.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2005): ok, Im not sure if I made this clear or not, but we arent going out anymore! He broke up with me because he thinks that we had more fun when we were just friends. and it was a while ago. the only question I have is, how do I know if he doesnt like me back?? He broke up with me, but now he flirts with me as much or more than he used to. thanks anyways, I guess I didnt make my question clear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2005): I really think that you have no reason to worry about it. I went throught the same thing and I was really worried about it too but it's really just a guy thing! I know you hate it that he looks and flirts at other girls but you have to hang in there because it seems like he makes you happy and you don't want to lose that. Most guys who have girlfriends and look at other girls are just looking to compare. If he flirts with other girls and doesn't break up with you, that means that he likes you better than them and he is comparing them to YOU! not you to them!I'm sure that if you hang in there you'll be okay, but just remember that there is no room for jealousy and anger in a healthy relationship.
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reader, Kmoney18 +, writes (22 April 2005):
I dont think that you should worry to much about him talking to other girls. Guys like to look, and talk to other girls all the time, it gives them a sense of self confidence. Ask yourself honestly, why did you break up to begin with? was it because of him talking to other girls? or was it because he liked other girls, or was it that there were problems in the relationship knowing that youve been "just friends" for so long.I do think that you should mention how you feel about him, only when the time is right. By that I mean when you are talking to him about past relationships, or even current relationships, or something to that nature. If he is any kind of man, then he will understand your point. Hopefully after you tell him how you feel, he will tell you how he feels.Hang in there, dont make what you say to him to strong at first, and dont beat around the bush. (guys dont like that to much) and good luck with everthing.
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