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writes: I met a girl over the summer. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. We never officialy dated, but we knew we were. I "think" I fell in love, but towards Christmas our relationship started getting more physical. We never had sex or anything, but we messed around, it felt like every time I looked at her or touched her, it meant something special. I came to find out that our feelings were not shared, and I was heartbroken. She now has a boyfriend. It's so hard to see them together. Every time I see him I just want to knock his teeth down his throat, but I hate to be bitter. I feel like I'm losing my mind. I lose sleep and I can't concentrate when she is within a billion miles from me. I've tried many different things to get over her, nothing has worked so far. I probably sound like a hopeless romantic, but I dont know what to do. Can I get a little help here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2005): I have had a similar situation to you, mate..altho I'm 38 so maybe bit older than yourself..anyway, if you love her as you say you do then you must accept her decision. Feeling bitter to her bloke is natural, but it does you no good. Be as strong as possible and continue to be her friend - stay close to her and support her...that's a true sign of love. And if her relationship with this chap fails (which it well might because nothing lasts forever) , she may well look to you for closeness - because you have stayed a friend all along.
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