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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

How do I flirt with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - There's a guy I am interested who works at a pizza place I go to now and then that I'm interested in. He is young probably near my age (19). I am quiet and don't usually flirt so I don't know how to put myself out there. How do I go about flirting ...

Is he really interested or just after a booty call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hey there, So basically I was at a huge law firm lecture and an ex pupil of my university was there, I've never met him before but he came straight over, introduced himself and started to chat. When we went into the lecture he said to his friend I...

How can I live in a new relationship without being haunted by my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hi there :) So, this is the problem: in July my (ex) bf broke up with me, after seven months of relationship. He was my first time, and I really loved him, even though we weren't good with each other. After the break up, I was lonely for a lon...

Girlfriend keeps pressuring me to perform oral and I hate it.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

31 January 2014 (M) - I don't know how to say all this without coming out like an asshole but please hear me out. My girlfriend keeps pressuring me to go down on her because she goes down on me but I really don't want to. I've tried it before with several girls ...

Am I overthinking his comment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - This is the dumbest thing I've ever asked.. But I'm not sure if I should be insulted or think it's sweet... My boyfriend said to me: you may not be perfect but you're perfect for me... I instantly thought "aw how sweet", but should I be insu...

How young is too young when it comes to settling down and having children?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hello helpers! This is a relatively quick question, but one that i'd love some input for! I'm 18 years old, turning 19 this year. I'd say I was pretty mature for my age (alot of this coming from bad experiences in childhood). I'm currently dating...

How do I start dating again after being hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I seem to have an issue with letting myself like men. Every time I have ever let myself feel something I end up getting hurt, and its gotten to the point where my defences are so far up that I think I may come across as uncari...

I feel I'll never attract someone of the same religion because of my looks and personality.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - hi... I am really a lost soul at the moment... I come from a Muslim family. My mom is moderate-liberal Muslim and my dad is relatively conservative. So I've been brought up with conflicting views... Anyways, so I'm at uni and I feel too conservat...

Can attraction develop after some distance between 2 people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - You tell a guy you've liked him for ages. He's really flattered but admits he doesn't share any deeper feelings. Apparently he's started seeing someone at the moment, you hear from a friend. And 3 months later, they've broken up. Because he's ...

Does my coach like me or am I just being stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi im 17 years old, im very confused because of my Taekwondo coach behaviour towards me. Firstly I catch him staring quite a lot when im teaching someone or he sometimes stay near to me, and then help when I've done something wrong, this is no ...

I'm confused ! everytime I tell him about a guy he get mad & not talk to me for days !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi, i've a littel problem that i Really wanna share... So, i've known this guy since september at the day of his birthday, he send me a friend request on facebook and ince that we became closer and closer, he is the rock, he saved me a lot of t...

I think I'd be happier with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - About 4 months ago now I ended my relationship with a girl who I really liked, as I didn't feel ready for a relationship at that point, but it affected me more than I thought it would and I can't go a day without thinking about her and regretting ...

I don't want to risk my feelings until I figure out his game

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. My situation is as follows... I have liked this guy for a while and I think it's the first time I've really really liked someone. During this time we have always been flirty, but he got into a relationship about 2 months ago ...

How do I ask her out and what should I wear on the first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - This us a very short question. Okay I have been seen this girl for 1 month now he haven't met yet we speak everyday non stop, she's great a lovely caring girl I like her a lot, I am going to ask her out in person when we meet. What do I wear and how ...

We're not together anymore but we still act like a couple and have sex... it's starting to get to me. Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Last month my boyfriend decided that we "take a break" (or in other words: break up) and we've been together for maybe more than three years, but we've known each other much longer than that because we originally were best friends. Him and I have b...

I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Hey, I am a 17 year old girl and I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty. I wouldn't consider myself as slutty because I'm not that kind of person, I have morals, ...

What can I do? My new teacher does not like my family. He used to teach my sister.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I went to meet my teachers for my classes and when I did I found out that one of my teachers used to teach my sister. I know he hates my family. What do I do?...

I want to enjoy university life and mom is against it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I want to enjoy uni and freshers week to its full potential, but my mother wont let me go freshers week, stay out till late or sleepover at a friend's dorm. I still live at home and i want to have fun at the same time whilst at uni. I'm planning on ...

My BF wants me to go to the same college he does, but that's a ways off and I can't say yes.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has asked me if I would go to the same college as him I'm 17 he's 17 and I don't want to say yes because I feel like college is a time for me to be free ad explore and I love him I really do but recently he asked me if I would marry him ...

How do we get into relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - I love this guy very much and he loves me too. the problem is he's not admitted it to me and is too shy, i've also not admitted my love for him yet and its been a over a year. I know he likes me very much i even feel it and i see it. he always ...

Should I put sex on hold?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have an amazing relationship and I love him with all my heart but the issue lies with our sex life. The thing is, Are love is so strong, but at the same time so is the sexual chemistry. I am A Christian so for me, I feel as th...

I don't like how this girl affects me and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

24 January 2014 (M) - I don't like how much this girl affects me. I met her in October of 2012, and still cannot stop getting that tight throbbing in chest when I see her or someone mentions her. When we met, I was depressed. She saw the cuts on my wrist and showed m...

Can't sleep after giving up medication. Please help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

24 January 2014 (F) - I really need some help. For those of you who do not know last year in the summer I was diagnosed with Bipolar. Its a really difficult illness to live with and I can't say a day ...

Penises freak me out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Ok I'll cut straight to it; penis' freak me out! My boyfriend and I were doing some..."fun stuff" and I went to give him oral and...well once it was in my mouth I completely freaked out to the point where i cried (not while I was still down there, ...

I'd like to learn to not care what people think

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - Hiii !!! Okay this is my situation right now : I go to an all girls school so I have no idea how to speak or act around boys. I constantly feel as if I'm being observed and whenever I just walk past a guy I get really nervous and my knees go w...

Dating tip: determine your five non-negotiables!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - Hey! Been a while since i've done one of these and I just want to share a little tip with those who might be dating or have had some trouble with relationships in the past and might want to find a way to find someone who they aren't going to get ...

My boyfriend wont let go of my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - Please, I need help with this. In the beginning of my relationship I made the treacherous mistake of telling my boyfriend about me giving oral to another guy, as I took it not very seriously and told him lots of details, it really got to him. ...

He said, she said, so what should I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - Ok so basically this is what happened my crush called my sister a tramp and he was like I shouldn't be mad but then he went on to say that he don't like people calling him ratchet . I did at some hurtful things to him but he said some rude things as ...

Does he like me? Should I pursue a friendship or just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

20 January 2014 (F) - Basically, I met this guy in church along with his sister. He was really friendly, even though I was shy and awkward, and tried to start a conversation. He even introduced one of his friends to me and invited me to the youth church. On the days when ...

Should I Break Up With Him for Seeming Distracted? Why Doesn't He Make Me Feel Special Anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. Since about October last year, I feel like he's not been as soppy and stuff and it makes me feel as if he's losing interest. I told him how I felt, he made a valid point by saying that I should ...

Does anyone know how to control their emotions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - Does anyone know how to control their emotions? I find that I get overly emotional a lot. And the majority of the time I don't know why. I cry a lot. Whether I'm angry, sad, hurt, or just plain frustrated. But for some reason I can't control ...

I'm so lost. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - A guy I really liked asked me out over text but i got scared and said no. After that i got depressed and as a sort of anti depressant talked to a guy. i fell in love and i was sure he loved me. He didn't. He felt nothing for me, i was just his ...

I have a crush on my music teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3990 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - Hi I know there is a lot of stuff on loving teachers, well the problem is, she is the same gender as I, is this normal? But she is a music teacher, and whenever I perform, she watches me closely smiling and whenever I'm around her I go bright red. I ...

He said he loved me and I didn't reply. Now he isn't talking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

17 January 2014 (F) - hello guys!:).well,there's a foreign guy in my university he's so hot and good looking,and every girl wants to date him,but i didn't care actually,two weeks later ,i've seen his profile in facebook so i added him and he accepted,he send me a message ...

What is your opinion of what truly caused us to break up? Is our age difference possibly related? Any tips for moving on from this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - My (now ex) boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago after being together for about a year. I am 18 and he is 16 and we're in high school. I wasn't expecting it at the time but now when I think back, all the signs were there about a week before the ...

A hypothetical! What would a guy think about something like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - This is a question for guys. Lets say a not so attractive girl tried to invite herself along for lunch,stammered and then in the end couldn't do it.Would you feel angry,irritated or wonder "how dare she tried to invite herself along" if you are in t...

He wants to be friends, but don't friends wish each other happy birthday?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - I told a sweet, decent guy I had liked him for a long while (over facebook, only cause I hardly get to see him) about a month ago. I'm a little embarrassed about it... I had told him every single quality I found admirable about him and while ...

I am not sure how to act around an accomplished flirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - So apparently, I found out that this guy who's been flirting with me (who I was actually interested in) has also been flirting with a lot of other girls. In my point of view, I think he's playing mind games with me, like he just wants me to like ...

First it was just a break,now its an 'open' break, so what does my GF really want?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

16 January 2014 (M) - So my girlfriend and i are taking a break from our relationship because she want to figure out what she wants to do in life and i agreed to it. I understand because im in that position too. Then later on we confirmed if it was ok to just talk to the ...

Why can't I get the girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - I'm a freshman in high school and I've got a wierd issue of being rejected and/or friendzoned. I've heard that guys that leak confidence get the girl, but I've tried everything. I try to ask a girl to the movies or something but I always get denied. ...

We have a lot of growing to do. Should I cut my ties?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I spent a few months befriending my now boyfriend. Finally after I started to get over him he came to and we started dating. Things changed in a snap. I was no longer a bro, I was his girl. He is the sweetest guy to me. The kind girls dream of. He ...

Rejected Too Many Times

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - Hi. Lately it just feels like I'm a reject. Nobody wants me. I'm not too bad looking either. I have light brown/ blonde-ish shoulder length hair and I'm sort of skinny. It feels like I'm just completely undesirable and worthless. Why has every guy ...

What did this comment mean?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

12 January 2014 (M) - Ok so I was talking to this girl for a month (we liked each other) and then she said she just wanted to be friends. One month later she sent me a text saying "hey :)" and I replied "sup" and got off without giving her a chance to reply. (I haven't ...

Self-esteem has gone! Need some help changing myself and regaining it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3997 days ago

11 January 2014 (F) - I am at my lowest and I need help. I am a 16 year old girl and in about 15 days I will be 17, I have only ever had two serious relationships and the second one was months and months ago. For the last...

I'm very pessimistic when it comes to lasting love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - Like many people, I always dream about having a love that lasts years and years. My parents divorced when I was about 4 years old (my mom was the one who asked for it) and I saw all the awful effects it had on them; my father became an alcoholic and ...

It's a confused relationship, is there hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

8 January 2014 (F) - I am openly gau female, but there is this one guy that I keep having butterflys for.we've been broken up for 2 yrs and I miss him like crazy. I admit I have lied in this relationship (he broke up with me because of this) but I wished me could've ...

How can I tell if he's interested in me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

7 January 2014 (?) - so i really like this guy. im litterally obsessed. he is always nice to me, and the other day, he told another guy who was being rude to stop being rude. he always wants to help me with everything, and in lessons he always stares at me. ...

My friend says she wants to change. How can I help her see the difference between being friendly V flirty towards others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - I have been friends with my best friend since I was in 6th grade. We're both seniors in high school now. But slowly my friend has less and less people who want to talk to her and when asked why they say because she's a kiss-ass and she's a major ...

Feel so lonely at school. Want someone special in my life. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - I am an open lesbian, and have been single for over a month and tired of seeing people so happy with others. I really want to find someone who won't make highschool so lonely. I'm really love sick, and I walked into high school with no best frie...

So my brother's friend is two years older than me and he's always really nice to me and laughs at my jokes and stuff, what does it all mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4001 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - So my brother's friend is two years older than me and he's always really nice to me and laughs at my jokes and stuff and when I catch him looking at me he holds eye contact for a few seconds and when he does break eye contact he has to tear his eyes ...