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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Is it over?? Even though it never officially started?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I’m 15 yo. I had this huge crush on this boy called 'wb' we go to the same school but now it’s summer break n I haven’t seen him since the last day at school!!!!!He went to Canada I think!! I still think of him all the time and I ...

He always has a gleam in his eye when he talks to me, but never texts or messages me!

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31 August 2009 (F) - Today on the bus I was talking to my guy friend and he talked to me for the first time I've seen him. He thought that I was absent for 7 days. I told him that I was here for the first two days of school. He argued with me and smiled like he was ...

My cousin's husband is "flirting' with me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Okay! Im 14 years old. My cousin is 21 and married to this guy who is 23. They have a 4 month old baby together. I went to there house for a week to hang out and babysit. It was a blast. i drove around with her husband all the time he is still like ...

I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and ...

I'm in love with my friend, I can't live with her and I can't live without her! What do I do?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I have been close friends with this girl for most of my life. For the past few years I have been in love with her. We went out but things ended badly and we didn't speak for 6 months. Luckily we were able to get past that and ar enow close ...

If a girl says 'thank you' after you've been on a date, does it mean it's over? And how do I ask a girl from school out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - [Mod note - two seperate questions were from the same poster, so I have combined both] Q1: im gonna ask this girl out. im 15, shes 16. I know her from school. Ask her out at school? If I do ask her out at school it cant be nothing super huge o...

I don't want a thrillsome threesome with my friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Me and my bf has been talking about haveing a three some...and i was okk with it so i also have a gf I'm biisexual and my gf was my bestfriend 1st soo now my bf is talking about haveing a three some with her i don't feel rite with him haveing sex ...

New relationship, what should our conversations be based upon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - To begin with.let me say i'm a guy who just got into a new relationship.i need advice on how to begin,i.e d type of conversation we should start having.cos any time we talk,she always wants to hear more from me.so i just nid to know what our ...

This will be the first time I have sex, and I'm worried he'll compare me to other girls!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - ok before i ask this i want to make it clear tht i dont want ppl to tell me not to do this coz i already made up my mind, id just realy appreciate the advice :) basically me and my best guy friend have agreed to have sex, hes had sex befre but i ...

Where do I fit in with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I dont get it.... There's this guy who asked me out and asked was I single etc... I said I was and he met up with me. I knew him just from being in a club I'm a member of. He obviously took a shine to me. He then tells me he has a gf away he had i...

What can I call him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - he is very affectionate towards me and calls me really sweet names.so i want to do the same with him but i need some ideas.......

Is my best friend REALLY okay with me dating her cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - My 'best friend' and i had a fight a few weeks back, and it was about a sweet 16th party that she wanted to throw with me,(as in a joint party)which never went ahead because neither of us told our parents. The other thing she was mad at me about was ...

My brother caught me masturbating, what to do about it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I was watching a quiet porn video on my laptop while masturbating on my bed with my hands down my pants (all clothes were still on). I knew that my brother would be coming home soon, but i still left my bedroom door open. When i heard him come home, ...

He's 17, has two kids and still talks to his babies mothers, should I try to have a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I talk to this dude with Two kids he's only 17 n I no he still talks to his babies mamas but I really Lik him, and we was talk awhile before he got the pregnan.! What should I do?...

Advice on sex please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - hi. ok i need some sex advice. my and my boyfriend are going to have sex soon, we both know its right and we love and trust each other very much. we have been together for about 5 months, but we havent done anything sexually yet! its because i ...

We hug and kiss, but he never wants to be more commited, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Theres a guy who I've liked for ages now, and whenever we meet up (which isnt often) we always act like we're a couple, kissing, hugging, and I had my first time with him. He was buying me meals, and drinks.. never used to let me pay for anything. ...

Could I be pregnant, if we had unprotected sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so if been on birth control pills for about a year now. Like two weeks ago I stop taking them because of risks and stuff. Four days later after I stoped taking the pills me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he ejaculated inside of me. ...

I've been talking to him on-line for almost a year -- should I go to meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - im 15 years old and i have being going out with this 17 yr old boy that i met on the internet we have been going out for almost a yr and he says he has fallen in love with me and and i do love him honestly but we havent met each other in person :S ...

My gf wants sex, but I don't feel I'm ready ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - Okay, I'm gonna be 15... and my girlfriend wants to have sex... I'm a guy of course I want to... I have been dating her since 7th grade (I'm a freshman now) and I don't know what to do... She means the world to me... and in the past I'...

First-time sex help needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok im 17 and I've started using tampons like about two months ago.So obviously my hymen IS broken.But deffinatley not stretched out enough for sex.Last week i attempted sex with my boy friend and when he tryed to go in, it just hurt WAY too much. I ...

If you take a bath with your girlfriend or boyfriend, what part of their body should you view first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - If you have the chance to take a bath with your girlfriend or boyfriend, when she/he get nude, what part of her/his body do you view first? ...

Should I wait for him to get over his ex, or find somone my own age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) - I first met this boy (for this story's purpose I'll call him Will) when we both went on a school trip. Will is 2 years younger than me. On the trip we were always together and flirting so so so much. All the people we knew on the trip said we should ...

In love with an exchange student and she is leaving next week

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Basically....I'm in love, well I am in love", with this girl called Kate(not actual name), shes amazing! The most beautiful beautiful girl iv'e ever laid eyes on. Shes funny and very smart, and i'm a a sucker for an accent yeah, I forgot to menti...

He's beaten me before and is now pushing for sex, should I or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hi umm i need help with my relationship well we are not sexually active.He is really pushing sex though..He has beaten me to the point that Ive had to have stiches..but i still love him..I wonder he says if i love him I will have sex with and take...

When in a relationship do people usually hit third base?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I am a 17 year old girl, with an 18 year old boyfriend. (Canada) We've been going out for three months, and we hit 2nd base a while back. He started testing for 3rd, like carressing upper thigh, butt, etc. But he made sure I knew he'd never do ...

What are the signs that a guy likes you?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Heyy=] I finished school and I am 16years Old,I be going College and I just wanted some Advice about guys!! I want to know? 1.Do they get Butterflies when they Kiss a girl 2.when they like someone what do they do any hints or signs 3.Wh...

I feel betrayed by the guy I like, and my friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - This summer I went on a choir trip to Spain. My best friend told me she kind of liked this guy, but it was visabley apparent the only reason she liked him was because she was trying to get over the guy who she hooked up with for a while. He didn't ...

How can I find out who this guy is start talking to him? It felt like love at first sight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I don't know if it's love at first sight(or lust at first sight) but I can't get a guy out of my head since I've seen him. I'm always thinking about him. AND he's really not the type of guy i'm normally interested in. he looks scary, dark and even ...

I want to date a guy I like, but my best friend doesn't approve! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hii, This is a relationship question, and im not sure on what i should do so im asking for your advice on what i should do.Okai im 16 years old and i just started dating a guy whos 19"Mark", My bestfriend hates him and told me that if me and mark ...

He's my first boyfriend, so is it normal to feel jealous when he's talking to other girls? I fear he'll find someone better!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, ok so I'm 15 and I have a boyfriend who's 16 and he's my first boyfriend, but I'm not his first girlfriend. Anyways, whenever he talks to other girls I end up getting super jealous, and i thought that would be a sign showing that i ...

What can I do to get my guy friend to talk to me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - My guy friend doesn't talk to me much! He keeps my texts and when I talked to him on IM he talked to me for a half an hour! But he only does that a few times a month. Why would he seem like a shy guy but talk a lot to his other friends. Me and him ...

He's nearly 14, I'm nearly 16, should I to wait until he's 16 too before we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) - My boyfriend is two years younger than me at 13 years old. In a few months I will be 16 and he will be 14 and a bit. He knows that I think it's important to be the legal age before you have sex and him being so much younger means that we've ne...

Boyfriend or best friend? Who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so now I have a new problem. . . I'm still with my boyfriend, who can be a real jerk at times when he pokes fun at me for being book smart and is starting to flirt with other girls. Sometimes, I go days at a time where I just don't talk ...

He's with a girl he cheated on me with, but I want to look past it and try again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - me and this guy have been together for seven months he alway use to say i fuss to much when we broke up we were still seeing each other over the summer and i just found out he was dating this girl i use to hear people say he talked to when we were ...

The more he knows I'm interested, the more he slips away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - i'm really confused and i dont know wat to do theres this guy i used to like but i stopped liking him because he kept ignoring me all the time so my feelings for him went away..i remember one night when i went to a concert i kept trying to get his ...

Why did this happen and why did I taste like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

30 August 2009 (?) - Heey. I'm 16 years of age. Yesterday my boyfriend (who's 17) and myself, had sex yesterday (doggy style)..now..after that we did the 69..i sucked him off as usual and he fingered and licked me out as usual...BUT! when he was fingering me...

After 1 week I'm having dreams about the home room boy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Obviously this poster is NOT 40,please answer accordingly. Hi Everyone, Im Clearly Meet Someone This year his name Is John hes cute,Funny,Smart and we make each other laugh and we get along amazing he in my homeroom and in the morn...

I like this guy and want him to know how I feel, but I don't want to make things awkward!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Ok, so i'm an average 17yr old girl and i'm in love. Simple as ... or so I thought. Here's some more info... I have never been with a guy before and have only kissed in games of spin the bottle. This new guy walks into my life and we get on re...

Unprotected sex, the morning after pill and what if my period starts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend tonight. where can i get the pill and if i get my period tomorrow does that mean that i am not pregnan? ...

B/f says I don't open up to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend keeps telling me I don't open up to him. I know I have a problem with this..I have to get councled for this and a few other problems I've encountered. He dosen't understand how hard it is for me, considering the fact that I don't even ...

My friend likes the same guy that I do, and I don't want to give up either of them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've liked this guy for a year now and i think he likes me to because every time i speak to him he has a big smile on his face hes always looking at me in class,his brother is my brothers friend and according to his brother h...

How can I casually start talking to a guy I really like?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Theres this boy i like at my school, Im a freshman in highschool, his locker is 2 dowwn from mine, we stare at eachother alot, i always come close to talking to him but i dont have the guts, whenever where in the hallway walking past eachother ...

Should I have broken up with him? And should I try and get back with him now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I had been dating him for 3 months, not that long for many people, but it is for me. I have never been dumped before, why? Because in all truth I'm afraid of getting attached and suddenly finding myself needing him every second, but at the same time ...

Attracted to teacher way more than I should be

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I am 16, and I have always had an issue with falling for the wrong guy. I've never had an issue called 'True Love' until my freshmen year when I fell for a jr, ever since then I haven't been able to stop thinking about him even though I moved aw...

How can she like him after he held a knife to her throat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - Hey i like this girl and we get along rly well we went out a couple of times and than her ex bf comes back along and she now only wants to be friends now that doesnt rly bother me as shit happens what i want to know is how can she still like him ...

What can I do to help my girlfriend get in the mood for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend seems to be loosing the need for sex. these last few months, i haven't been able to turn her on and i don't know why? we used to do it all the time but she just isn't in the mood. Is there anything i can do to get her in the mood?...

My girlfriend often stops me during sex because she feels like she needs to pee...is she actually close to orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - I've been reading alot about girls orgasms. My girlfriend quite often stops me during sex cause she feels like she needs to pee... What are the chances of this being conected to her having an orgasm?...

It seems as though my boyfriend is falling for his ex again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Can someone help me with my trust issues? Or just .. At all? My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year. His ex-girlfriend has been adamant about staying friends but earlier in our relationship, he told me he wanted nothing to do wi...

Does my coach have a crush on me, or is it all in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - This is a very weird thing for me. I am about 16-17 and this is actually my first teacher crush. Technically, he is not my teacher but my coach for the sport I play in. He is a teacher though at the school I attend. My coach is also very young and ...

This guy has been showing signs he likes me...but I found out he has a girlfriend! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - okay i like this guy named nolen and he has been giving me sings but i can't put them together. well first in class he wonld not stop lookin at me then wen i noticed he waved at me. rhen the next day he found a pipe cleaner and he made into a bracle...