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writes: I talk to this dude with Two kids he's only 17 n I no he still talks to his babies mamas but I really Lik him, and we was talk awhile before he got the pregnan.! What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, i'mlovin'it. +, writes (31 August 2009):
you will want to find some one who will give you MOST, close to all of his atention on you.you and schooling.he seems very tied up in his previous life.for one, he's got literally two families.you need someone who is concered on school and only focus on you an his relationship.with two kids it doesn't seem like you'll get much alone time together.hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): I think you can do better. He is irresponsible to have two babies by two different mothers and he isn't even out of highschool yet. He has the next 18 years to pay child support to two different women and he will have a horrible time making it financially for quite a while. This is a huge burden for such a young man. It is his mistake, unless you want to be his social worker, you should look for a guy who makes good choices in life and can control his impulses and handle the responsibilities of having sex.
You are young, there are so many men available to you, don't settle for this one. If you want to be a friend, then I guess that is fine, but from the sounds of it, you won't be able to keep from getting too emotionally involved, so even friendship is a sketchy concept in this case.
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