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writes:Me and my bf has been talking about haveing a three some...and i was okk with it so i also have a gf I'm biisexual and my gf was my bestfriend 1st soo now my bf is talking about haveing a three some with her i don't feel rite with him haveing sex with her or any other girl then me so how do i tell him without makeing it seem like I'm jealous
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 September 2009):
 I think till you are emotionally able to understand the the emotional ramifications of a 3-some you shouldn't consider having one.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (31 August 2009):
its not really fair to be jealous of him sleeping with someone else when you have a girlfriend...thats kind of like cheating..That being said you DONT have to comply with a request for a threesome. Tell him flat out, you dont want to incorporate your best friend into the bedroom. Thats not fair, also you should reconsider dating someone else while being committed.-iydm
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): No threesomes until you are well into your twenties.You are too emotionally unstable at your present age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): Just because you're bi-sexual doesn't mean you're oblidged to participate in threesomes. Just explain to your boyfriend that you don't feel compfortable introducing a third party into your sex life as a couple. You DON'T have to say you WHY feel uncompfortable because he should respect you decision regardless of why you made it. AND REMEMBER, you have right to be jealous so make him aware of your boundaries, no sex unless its with you.GOOD LUCK and GOD BL3SS
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): Darling, it's extremely greedy having a boyfriend and a girlfriend, as for your problem, just tell him face to face.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 August 2009):
Well hang on, he has to know that you have sex with someone else all the time!
Just because you are bi sexual doesn't mean you can keep 2 people perfectly happy.
He is probably very jealous of your girlfriend and so wants in on that relationship so he can feel a part of it.
Just out of interest why did you go off and get a boyfriend if you already had a girlfriend? How is that not hurting her deeply?
And also, if you have a threesome with another girl, won't that be cheating on her???
It sounds like you really haven't thought through this whole situation.
Tell your boyfriend that the threesome is not happening because you aren't ready for it.
It says here that you are only 16 to 17! Why have such a complicated emotional thing putting your relationship at risk when probably he isn't mature enough to handle it, and you may not be either.
Good Luck!! xx
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