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anonymous
writes: I don't know if it's love at first sight(or lust at first sight) but I can't get a guy out of my head since I've seen him. I'm always thinking about him. AND he's really not the type of guy i'm normally interested in. he looks scary, dark and even retarded. aha. and he looks..just..not evil but..close to that! Next time I see him(I wish I will), I really want to talk to him, even if i'm shy. But what could I tell him? I tried to find his myspace, facebook..whatever but I don't know his name. I really don't know what to do. and I didn't talk about him to my friends, they'll just think i'm stupid and that i'll get over it. :( I don't know what to do now and I feel stupid telling this
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reader, AgonyAuntBlondiee +, writes (1 September 2009):
Okay I personally am a bit of a synic on the whole love at first sight, I think what you are experiencing is lust at first sight. On a more optimistic note, lust at first site can blossom into a love.I think you should talk to him definetley. You seem to have a definite attraction which is a real spark in the start of a relationship. What about really depends on the circumstances. If you are very shy you could maybe start a conversation by asking for directions and saying something like 'i live here and still manage to get lost! Are you from round here?'. If you are confident enough try going up and introducing yourself, asking his name etc. This is simpler but takes guts.Hope this helps :)AgonyAuntBlondiee x
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