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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Am I selfish for wanting some intimacy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

30 April 2017 (M) - My Fiancee and I have been together for a few years now and at first we had a fantastic sex life but now we are down to having sex maybe once every couple of months if that. And even then she doesn't seem to be interested so neither of us enjoy it. ...

Advice on how women feel about orgasms please?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

30 April 2017 (M) - My question is for the ladies out there - do you need an orgasm to enjoy sex? Most women I've ever been with have said they don't so I always took that to be true, but the one I'm with now says she does want and expect an O every time... Now I fee...

I've been with my boyfriend 2.5 years and never had sex. I think he's in love with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - Hi. I am 56years old and my boyfriend is 55. I have been with him for 2 1/2years. Lived with him for 14 months out of that time. He has never made love to me although he says he loves me. I also found out, reading his own words that right before ...

Why does my wife lie about her sexual past? I overheard a convo she had with a friend. Should I tell her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

29 April 2017 (M) - I have been married for many years my wife had a couple of sex partners before we met. She always said that when she was with the them that they didn't have a lot of sex which would not have bothered me if she did. My problem came up as we talked ...

How would men feel if they joked about something sexual and their partner said yes?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - Before I start, let me just say, I am not a woman of the world. I didn't lose my virginity until my wedding night, aged 24. Me and my husband have been married 12 years now and are still very much in love. The problem is our sex life. It is very ...

Is it normal for men to have sex when women are having their periods?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - I'm meeting up with my bf next month who stays in another city. The problem is that the date when I will be going, I might be on my periods. I've told him that already to which he has said that he's fine with it. What can this possibly mean? Is he ...

I don't have alot of experience with dating but not sure if what is going on in our relationship is normal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - I've met this girl and we've been seeing each other for a little over a month. Both of us have never been in a relationship before so it's all new to each other. Whenever I'm around her I feel as if everything is so easy, talking and life in gene...

Time to break up? Has the love faded? We talk less now and have less sex now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - Don't know if I should break up with my gf of 8 months. As the relationships progressed we've moved apart, we speak less, have sex a lot less, and don't get on aswell. The thing is, I know this is expected to some degree as a relationship goes on. ...

I want to communicate more openly with my mother, but how? And once a girl is not a virgin, does one tell a parent or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and will be going to university this year. I've always been really independent and mature (so I've been told many times) and apparently act beyond my years. I guess I've always felt the need to be independent, considering my father being ...

Why do many men prefer a tight vagina? Or do they? 2

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2753 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Why do many men find a tight vagina so appealing? I was a late bloomer and lost my virginity to my current husband when I was in my 40's. I was married previously to a man who suffered erectile difficulties and was never able to have intercourse...

I need to tell him I only want casual sex, not a relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - I met this guy on a dating app and we have been on two dates so far. I don't think he and I are compatible but he's very nice and good-looking. I cannot see a long-term relationship forming from this AT ALL, but would like to turn it into FWB if it ...

Am I expecting too much from a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - I have been happily dating a divorced man with two children of ten and 12 for a year. Mine has grown up. We get on well and the six elements I look for ie trust, loyalty, good job, own home, sense of humour and intellect are all there. We all get on ...

Is my relationship healthy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - I am 20 and my boyfriend is 27. We got into a relationship pretty fast. I expressed how not having sex until marriage was important to me but after a month he talked me into it. We have went out a lot and he says things like this relationship...

Do any men have this problem? I cannot orgasm from oral sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

23 April 2017 (M) - This has been bothering me for a fair few years. Even more so that my wife has tried to help. I have unfortunately never cum from a blowjob, ever. I think it bothers me so much because i really enjoy them. Its like listening to your favourite s...

I'm seeing a prostitute who says she is pregnant and the baby is mine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

22 April 2017 (M) - Here is the situation I am in love with a prostitute, from the beginning I accepted her for who she is and what she does as a prostitute but it's hard to me as a man, knowing she dates other men for money I mean i do love her and she says she does ...

Married to my FWB guy but sex life is terrible and husband isn't 'up for it'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - Hi all, we just celebrated our 1 year anniversary and my husband doesn't feel like having sex much. I m lucky if I get it once a week. And he gets erection after a lot of trying. I will give u some?background info. So basically we started as FWB a...

I want to help my boyfriend but I know I'll leave him eventually because my relationship is dead but I'm terribly attracted to his brother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hello there, So I have been in a relationship for 9 years. We started out as friends with benefits and then when I got into trouble financially I moved in with him. He's nice and we get along...we would be great friends. I have occasionally tri...

My husband lies about watching porn and masturbating

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - My husband lies about watching porn and masturbating. I know he does this to avoid an argument, and I don't really mind his porn usage - I just don't want him to be lying to me. However we had a massive argument a couple of weeks ago - it came up...

My husband says he's getting something from a couple we've been involved with. Something that he doesn't get from me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - My husband and I are having a foursome with another couple. The wife used to be a friend of mine that I thought I could trust. We all set boundaries that we didn't want to cross. But she has crossed all the boundaries that my husband and I set. My ...

Painful sex for wife is causing serious problems in our marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

20 April 2017 (M) - Hi. I am married to a woman who is wonderful other than the fact that intercourse is very difficult for her. We don't have kids, she is working and so do I. We were both virgins before we met and there was some problems in the intimacy department, ...

We've been married a year and are in a rut! I need some advice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - Lately, our marriage has been on the rocks. We have been together for 5 years and we are days away from our 1 year wedding anniversary and there has been so much tension and hate lately. I feel like I can't do anything right. We had an argument not ...

I stumbled across hidden videos in my girlfriends computer of her having sex with her ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

18 April 2017 (M) - I am engaged to my dream girl and our relationship is perfect. We've been together for 2 years now and We are the perfect couple... or so I thought.. Things changed when I found some things on her lap top. I needed to finish up a report but forgo...

Is it weird that I don't feel anything for him after losing my virginity to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 17, soon to be 18, and a few weeks ago i lost my virginity. Me and this guy have known each other for some time over a year and have been good friends ever since. Although we've been just friends there's been this kind of sexual tension (for ...

I compared my husband's penis to my ex's and my husband can't get over it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

16 April 2017 (F) - I know the backlash I'm in for... My husband and I have been together over 10 years. Early on, I compared his penis to my exes unfavorably. I don't remember, but it's seared into his memory; I did it multiple times. He tells me that I was passiona...

My girlfriend's casual sexual encounters are bothering me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

16 April 2017 (M) - My gfs sexual past has been bothering me more and more recently. When we first started going out she was my first, I have no sexual experience with any other women whatsoever. So when I found out she'd slept with 8 other men, including one night ...

Is it all in my head or do I have something to be worried about?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

15 April 2017 (F) - So to be completely honest I'm 16 and I'm worried my boyfriend came in me about 3-4 weeks ago.. it's really been messing with me.. I took the morning after pill as soon as I could which was the third day but a little bit after 72 hours. I asked him ...

How do guys cope with knowing their Gf's ex was well endowed? Do girls miss it and just settle ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

14 April 2017 (M) - Hello all, I have always struggled with intimate things as I would be worried about if my partner had been with very well endowed men. I know that statistically most guys will have to deal with that. But how do they? It always seems like...

Why is it a sought after fantasy, that satisfies so many men, to want to watch women hurt and degraded during a porn film?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - With the proliferation and popularity these days of extreme hardcore porn much of which depicts violence towards women , do men still see women as worthwhile individuals or are we just sexual objects for their gratification? Although I understand p...

Toxic, controlling, abusive and violent relationship. But I do love him. Plus I recently cheated. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - I met my current partner 3 years ago, we were dating and then I moved into his place and sub letted my place to my sister as she had moved to London. At the time, three years ago, when I met my partner, my grandad had just passed away and my dad w...

Boyfriend likes to ejaculate on my boobs and face and he finds this "adorable". Is this normal guy behavior?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - Ok I need some other perspectives on this. My boyfriend is just my second sexual partner, so I'm not sure what to make of this. He's also 11 years older and way more experienced. Anyway, he's really good in bed compared to my first boyfriend. He ...

All of a sudden my husband is sometimes having erectile dysfunction issues, but not with me. He's been to Dr. What possible reasons could be causing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - My husband has a very high sex drive, and normally masturbates often, but in recent weeks he's found that while I can still get him aroused easily, he just can't get himself hard, even with porn stimulus. There hasn't been any change in his health ...

How should I start the conversation with the baby's father?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - The baby's father and I only knew each other 3 months prior to me getting pregnant. I am currently 29 weeks. He was 100% aware of the possiblity of me getting pregnant and we had even talked about it. He had said he wanted to have a kid with me ...

Can intercourse make a woman tighter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

9 April 2017 (M) - Ok my wife is usually is avrage tigjt like not too tight but no loose. We has sex this morning and she was tight. She has cheated in the past amd she a lier for sure. If u have sex with someone can it cause ur vigina to be tighter ...

My sex drive has been ruined. I don't even enjoy masturbating? How can I ever feel comfortable having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

8 April 2017 (F) - Please help! Any advice would be appreciated. So I've been in a long-term relationship with my fella for a few years now, but in that time we haven't had sex and we are both virgins. I would like to point out here that this is my fault, we tried ...

I thought everything was OK. But ? I didn't do anything wrong, did I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

8 April 2017 (F) - I've recently moved house after breaking up with my ex boyfriend. I thought it was perfect, lovely little house well within my means and close to the town centre of where I live. I moved in and found that I was living next to a recently div...

He says his HIV is undetectable and he's on medication. Is it ok to sleep with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

8 April 2017 (M) - So I've met this guy who is HIV undetectable and he says it's safe to have unprotected sex cause the hiv is not transmitable cause of medication. I don't really know much about undetectable HIV can I get some info...

How do we or I take this LDR relationship further? 2

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - Warning: VERY LONG on LDR In October, last year, I met this wonderful guy (25/M) on OkCupid of all places. He is literally a diamond. We’ve texted each other every daWy since we exchanged numbers. We met in person in February this year and by our f...

Ovarian cyst ruining our sex life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

6 April 2017 (F) - Hello. I've recently been to the doctors with a medical issue and am awaiting a scan to see if I have a cyst on my ovaries. My scan is in 5 weeks. Me and my boyfriend both have high sex drives except due to the potential cyst it's incredibly painful ...

Are these sex dreams my libido trying to tell me something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

5 April 2017 (M) - For the last several months I've been having sexual dreams about people who I've never seen or met, probably not even real. I've told my wife about them because it usually has me being very slick in the way I talk these women into being with me. I'm ...

The sex was only mediocre and I want it to be on fire!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - I feel despondent. The girl Im madly in love with, we were intimate. As first times go, it was a learning curve for me because I had to find this person that's probably always there within me - and bring her to life. I felt so like I disappoin...

I want some good old attention from my husband!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - Is it wrong of me to want some good old fashioned sexual attention . My husband barely notices me . I dress up , get my hair and nails done regularly . Plan trips away . Yet all he is interested in is his girly sites online . I'm happy in my life ...

Mr E makes me feel like a woman. Yet my unsatisfactory boyfriend does make time for me. Which one will be the best choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

3 April 2017 (F) - Hello aunts, I am in a bit of a mix here and I know I have complicated everything so much and would appreciate your candid advice. The issue is between my ex boyfriend who I refuse to let go and who loves me, refuses to let me go and an old acqu...

Extremely close to my female best friend, slept together once... Now she's falling for me even though we agreed not to have "those" feelings

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

3 April 2017 (M) - I have this female best friend. We ar very close so close we know everything obout eachother ther is no secrets between us we tell eachother things no one else knows. We hang out every chance we get. We are so close that we have even slept together ...

I don't trust him and I'm worried he'll give me a STD. Is it time to break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

1 April 2017 (F) - Should I end this relationship? Me and B we were friends for years and I had my boyfriend who I was stable for 4 years and we have a kid, me and him and B lived together for 9 months. One year ago he kissed me and we made love. Before letting ...

Does sex life decline after a few years? She didn't complain initially.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

1 April 2017 (M) - Does sex life tend to decline after a few years? My girlfriend was virgin when she met me. She used to love sex, was extremely naughty and used to want it more than me. Now few years later she isn't really up for it. She says it not me, she does...