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female
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41-50,
*ogma4
writes:I feel despondent. The girl Im madly in love with, we were intimate. As first times go, it was a learning curve for me because I had to find this person that's probably always there within me - and bring her to life. I felt so like I disappointed her and purely because sex wasn't fire, it was mediocre. This is def my ego speaking now. Generally Im so laid back, and I deal with things cool, calm and collectively.But this is really bothering me. My lover said it takes time and effort to reach a point in a relationship where sex is on point, and you know every inch of their body and give in to their exact needs. We spoke about it as communication is key...But I want us to be fire.Am I being way too impatient?Also, she wants me to take the lead here...not entirely a new playground for me but I have free reign to please her as we see fit.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2017): I know how you feel but without any passion loved wanted your relationship could be over if you don't try to understand each other in away of body language eye contact holding hands kisses for breakfast start to spend more time with each other or may be your not attractive to each other we're heat is not picking up my advice to you is make your self attractive noticeble a bit of hard to get you'll soon be passionate with each other ??
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 April 2017):
 She is right, you will learn to please one another.
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