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writes:Ok my wife is usually is avrage tigjt like not too tight but no loose. We has sex this morning and she was tight. She has cheated in the past amd she a lier for sure. If u have sex with someone can it cause ur vigina to be tighter
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 April 2017):
 No. It sounds like she was just not aroused enough to have sex which makes it feel tigher.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 April 2017):
 Nonsense : of course not !, sex cannot make you tighter . It cannot even make you looser. But if you had believed in this other misconception, at least it would have made more sense. Sex can't stretch out a vagina, which is too elastic and resilient for that , but I can see how a misinformed person could fear that a vigorous, repeated motion will bend a vagina out of shape.
But tightening it ? How could sex tighten it ??
What happened it is simply that she was not properly aroused. Either she just was not in the mood, or you have skimped on foreplay, - her vaginal muscles weren't relaxed enough to " accomodate " insertion .
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 April 2017):
 Nope. Sex can't make it "loose" or "tight"
HORMONES can change the "tightness" and "wetness" so a vagina actually changes a bit over the course of a woman's cycle. Kegel exercises can keep the vagina "fit" as well.
But sex or INSERTION of a penis really doesn't make a difference in the size of the vagina. The vagina ADAPTS to whatever is inserted, to put it bluntly. Consider that it HAS to adapt to letting a BABY come through and then over time go back to "normal - so a PENIS does NOTHING for the size of the vagina.
She might have been extra tense having sex with you which caused her (voluntarily or probably involuntarily) to clench her muscles and that made her FEEL tighter to you. Also if she was less lubricated than usual, it might have felt tighter too.
You two should REALLY work on your marriage or walk away from it.
I can understand that you don't trust her after she cheated but BUDDY... WHY stay with her?
If you two can't rebuild trust and repair the DAMAGE she did to the marriage there really isn't much point in this marriage, is there?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (9 April 2017):
 Ha ha, absolutely not!
Most likely cause for the "tightness" you describe would be that she was not ready for intercourse, in other words that you did not bother with enough foreplay, otherwise she would have been ready for what you were putting up there.
I don't mean to sound disrespectful but, if your knowledge of sex and women's bodies is really as lacking as it sounds from your post, you could make a huge contribution towards the happiness of your marriage by talking to your wife and asking her what turns her on and where and how she likes to be touched. Most women do not operate like the ones you see in porn films. That sort of rubbish is just pandering to male fantasies. Women need a bit of time for their bodies to turn onto sex; they aren't ready at a second's notice.
Assuming your wife is of a similar age to you, you are both still very young and probably relatively inexperienced. What a wonderful opportunity to explore your bodies together and find out what you both like.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (9 April 2017):
 The answer is NO, it can't cause your vagina to be tighter. I think your imagination is running away with you, but if she has cheated in the past, and she has been lying to you, then this is not about her vagina, and it's ALL about the fact that you can't trust her anymore.
Are you two working on your marriage? After she cheated in the past, did you both go to counseling? Did she cut contact with the person she cheated with??
My point in asking these things is - your mind will keep playing tricks on you for as long as you simply exist in this marriage. Both of you should be actively engaged in repairing the marriage and rebuilding the trust, or it will waste away.
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