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writes:Here is the situation I am in love with a prostitute, from the beginning I accepted her for who she is and what she does as a prostitute but it's hard to me as a man, knowing she dates other men for money I mean i do love her and she says she does too as i see good in her, she does tell me about her dates and maybe that's a way to stay real to me from her but again it takes a toll on me. Well here is the other situation she is pregnant and i assures me the baby is mine but she stills tricks it gets complicated because she has an obsession with me because when she is around me she wont let me go, she wants me to stay with her all the time even thogh i cant offer her much, but she cant leave her tricks because she needs the money yes to maintain her habit. My problem is complicated i know but many maybe a differnt pair of eyes would help me. What do i do? stay with her? please i need help.
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (10 May 2017):
Take her to the doctor for a pregnancy test and ultrasound. It sounds like she is fooling you for money. Sorry.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (26 April 2017):
 Her habit? So am guessing she is putting an innocent child at risk by taking something she shouldn't be?
First off you need to check DNA before you invest any money in to this child. She is a prostitute so protection or not the child could be anybodies.
Secondly, if you are serious about her then offer her help to give up her habit. Before she kills her innocent child.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (23 April 2017):
 Sweetheart, you really need to keep a level head on this one.
She has sex with men for money. She has had sex with numerous men. There is no way she can state the baby is yours. Are you even certain she is pregnant? This could be a scam to get money out of you for an imaginary abortion.
If she IS indeed pregnant, she has picked you to be the father because she knows you love her and are, therefore, likely to stick around. None of her other punters are likely to give a stuff about her situation.
I really see no happy ending in this situation unless she is prepared to come off the game and off the drugs. Think of that poor child (if there really is one). It will be born hooked on drugs and have to go through withdrawal as soon as it is born unless she can come off drugs before the birth. The child may even be permanently damaged by her drug habit.
Have you been having unprotected sex with her? If so, you really need to get yourself tested for STIs.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (23 April 2017):
 Paternity test and rehab. If you are to have a future together then there needs to be a change. It looks like a struggle to make this one work. Not impossible but very difficult.
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