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writes:I'm meeting up with my bf next month who stays in another city. The problem is that the date when I will be going, I might be on my periods. I've told him that already to which he has said that he's fine with it. What can this possibly mean? Is he in love with me to a great extent or trying to make me feel better or is he into twisted kind of sex? Is it normal for men to have sex with their gfs during their periods?Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, everyone for your precious time. The answers were indeed helpful. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2017): When he said "he's fine with it" he might have just meant, he's fine with you visiting on your period even if it means no sex. He's just 'fine' with it.
Or, he might be fine with sex during a period.
Either way, it means he's fine with it. Just enjoy your time together, and what happens happens. Nothing's wrong either way.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (27 April 2017):
 It's extremely common! My husband has zero problem with it, though I prefer not to! However, I don't know if anyone else agrees with me or not, but orgasm during menstruation feels different than otherwise. It's actually therapeutic for me in terms of bloated, cramped, period sort of stuff.
It's been many years, and I've never been able to shake the self-conscious feeling about it! But my husband couldn't care less!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 April 2017):
 It's normal for men to not care of you are on your period. It feels just as good to them anyways, so they don't mind. Only immature men are scared of it. It's not twisted sex, it's a normal body function and normal men accept this.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (27 April 2017):
 He's just desperate to be with you, periods or no periods! It doesn't matter to some men... It's not about being kinky or gross, it just doesn't matter to them.
If you are comfortable with it then go ahead. If not, then you can always say no and have fun in other ways that don't involve penetration
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2017): I've often had sex with my boyfriends when having a period. Never thought twice about it. If you both want it and are both fine with it, what's the problem?
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (27 April 2017):
 Some do, some don't. Unless he's excited about it, I wouldn't say it's a preference of his.
Personally, I'd feel gross if I was intimate with a guy while I was on my period, but some don't care.
If you don't want to, don't. If you do, you can still get pregnant on your period, so always use condoms or don't have sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2017): I am horniest on my period and have NO problem with period sex. In fact, I LOVE IT.
Thankfully my boyfriend does too!
If you are in the mood, just go for it.
It is a little messier but who cares? You don't really notice when you are in the heat of passion. And TBH, a little messy isn't so bad!
It is preference. Some people do not do it at all. Women AND men.
But man, they don't know what they are missing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2017): He's said he's fine with it ...well you can't help being on your period! ! Would you of preferred him to say he doesn't want to see you cause your on your period ??? Maybe he ment he doesn't care that your on your period and he still wants to see you !! Do you expect him not to want to see you every month on your period ??? If he wants to have sex with you what's the problem ?? If you don't fancy it is am sure he will be OK with no sex ....everyone is different ..and there is plenty other sexual things you can do if you fancy it ....
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (27 April 2017):
 well there is that normal word again. What may be normal here may not be normal there, and what may be normal for one person may be out of bounds for another.
But, to answer your question in a most helpful, way, it certainly is possible, and it is much more common than you think. Everything cleans up with water, just protect the bedding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2017): There's nothing abnormal about havng sex while the girl is on her period. Some men are abothered by it, some aren't. Don't overthink it, he just wants to have sex with you and you being on your period doesn't put him off!!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (27 April 2017):
 Not "normal" But acceptable.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (27 April 2017):
He's just horny, don't over think it. I doubt it's his preference.
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