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All of a sudden my husband is sometimes having erectile dysfunction issues, but not with me. He's been to Dr. What possible reasons could be causing this?

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Question - (9 April 2017) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2017)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My husband has a very high sex drive, and normally masturbates often, but in recent weeks he's found that while I can still get him aroused easily, he just can't get himself hard, even with porn stimulus. There hasn't been any change in his health or any other factors we can think of.

I did try to Google possible answers but only got info about men being unable to achieve an erection at all, but his issue is only with getting himself hard. It's obviously frustrating for him.

Any possible suggestions as to reason, or what to do about it?

We didn't think there was much point taking up our doctor's time since there's nothing physically wrong with his penis' ability to get hard.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2017):

What you and your husband probably don't know is that this is actually not abnormal. Most men get this from time to time, some more than others, and it's not really a medical issue, it's just the way it is. The real suprise is that this seems to be first time for your husband!

The best thing to do- no sex, masturbation or looking at porn for a short while. The little fella probably just wants a rest after being used throughly for a couple of decades!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2017):

Sounds like a problem most women wish their boyfriends and husbands had.

If he can't get himself erect to masturbate; but you can, what's the problem?

Stop masturbating. He has desensitized himself.

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